posted March 06, 2019 03:39 PM
Venus square Moon- eager to please others even at own expense.Venus represents social acceptance whilst Moon is inner acceptance. The square often suggests that the native sees one as being "sacrificed" for the other.
Others see their happiness woven into the happiness of others.Whilst the rest also feel like in order for them to be happy, they have to go "against" others.So there is rebellion to socially "confirm".
Venus is exalted in Pisces. Pisces experiences personal happiness through serving others. But often they mistake this for having to be "martyrs". So often for them, one is the same as the other.
Venus is in "expected to please others" 7th house.
Whils Mars squaring the Moon in 4th suggests the native does fear physical/psychological pain from disobeying parents.
Mars is the projected will of the parents i.e socialization. So even when in 7th, there is fear of physical violence and intimidation.At worst, social ostracization including the loss of love of parents if one opposes their(parents) will.
Mars in 7th however does suggest that the native will eventually have to learn to stand on their own two feet and make own decisions. Even if these decisions "displease" the parents.
Mars in 7th always means "expected to be lead".And this may mean a psychological "breaking away" from family ties due to their domineering influence(Mars square 4th).
The native may experience more personal assertion and freedom through moving out of home,living far from home or marrying an individual who will not allow the relative family to have a large stake in their spouse's life.
I have Mars (Dsc) square Moon(Ic) so I can identify.With me,I distanced myself from home because I felt like their "expectations" controlled me too much. So I couldn't wait to go.
This person however has Virgo rising and is likely going to be hard to convince that they need to establish self independence.
I find Virgo Asc very difficult to convince of anything when their intellectual walls are high up. They will have to come to this realization themselves through introspection.