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Topic: Being hit on by Married Men
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ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 4269 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted May 04, 2019 07:55 PM
What indicates this in a natal chart? I always get hit on by married men. My first kiss when I was a teenager was from a married man.IP: Logged |
charlie Knowflake Posts: 4718 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted May 05, 2019 09:48 AM
How does it make you feel being hit on by married men?IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 4269 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted May 05, 2019 09:53 AM
Someone said it's because I have Venus square Neptune. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 4269 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted May 05, 2019 10:01 AM
quote: Originally posted by charlie: How does it make you feel being hit on by married men?
Sometimes It gives me a rush because it's hidden. (I have Venus in the 8th house). But I know it's wrong I never act on it. Well I did once when I was a teenager but it wasn't sex just a kiss I let the guy feel me up. But it didn't go further than that. But after that experience I said I would never get invovled like that again. It was a big mess when his wife found out. So now I just keep them around and let them flirt but I don't engage. IP: Logged |
Dumuzi Knowflake Posts: 1313 From: Registered: Oct 2018
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posted May 05, 2019 10:05 AM
we have anything in common? married men and women tend to hit on me IP: Logged |
Dumuzi Knowflake Posts: 1313 From: Registered: Oct 2018
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posted May 05, 2019 10:07 AM
quote: Originally posted by ChildofVenus: Someone said it's because I have Venus square Neptune.
not sure about that, i have no venus-neptune and i tend to attract people in relationships who want something different IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 6967 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted May 05, 2019 11:58 AM
Maybe its venus sq pluto? Or something to do with uranus aspectIP: Logged |
Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 1489 From: Asia Registered: Nov 2018
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posted May 06, 2019 02:45 AM
I've been getting hits by married men lately. Is it my Neptune square Venus transit?IP: Logged |
DualGemV2 Knowflake Posts: 677 From: Toronto, Ontario Registered: Aug 2016
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posted May 06, 2019 03:04 AM
quote: Originally posted by ChildofVenus: Sometimes It gives me a rush because it's hidden. (I have Venus in the 8th house). But I know it's wrong I never act on it. Well I did once when I was a teenager but it wasn't sex just a kiss I let the guy feel me up. But it didn't go further than that. But after that experience I said I would never get invovled like that again. It was a big mess when his wife found out. So now I just keep them around and let them flirt but I don't engage.
You did it again, lol...I don't know if I should smile or scratch my head at your post. Reminds me of the movie the babysitters. http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0796302/ I think its a Venus Sqaure placement. My Planets ========================================= ☉‘ ♊, ☽ ♈, ASC ♑, ☿ ♊, ¡÷ ♉, ¡ö ♋ , ♃ ♒, ♄ ♏, ♅ ♐, ♆ ♑ IP: Logged |
Somna7H Knowflake Posts: 851 From: East India Company Registered: Apr 2018
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posted May 06, 2019 06:24 AM
Mine is opposite. Venus in 2nd instead 8th. Venus opposite Neptune. Never hit by anything. Neither single nor married.------------------ My Chart : http://imgur.com/hCRDawD IP: Logged |
Dumuzi Knowflake Posts: 1313 From: Registered: Oct 2018
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posted May 06, 2019 07:08 AM
quote: Originally posted by Somna7H: Mine is opposite. Venus in 2nd instead 8th. Venus opposite Neptune. Never hit by anything. Neither single nor married.
not to sound like a d*ck but are you ugly or weird or some **** ? i'm legit curious because we've talked before and i'm not really sure how that works out where it's been absolutely no one and i'm thinking you either don't notice when people do (i can be like that so i can see how it's possible people do flirt and you're just bad at seeing it) or people find you off putting
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ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 4269 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted May 06, 2019 09:16 AM
quote: Originally posted by Dumuzi: we have anything in common? married men and women tend to hit on me
It's probably the Venus square Uranus lol. IP: Logged |
Dumuzi Knowflake Posts: 1313 From: Registered: Oct 2018
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posted May 06, 2019 12:39 PM
quote: Originally posted by ChildofVenus: It's probably the Venus square Uranus lol.
mine is sextile uranus, i have venus square mars and opposite moon though as far as the hard aspects to it from other planets go IP: Logged |
TuxLuigi Knowflake Posts: 214 From: France Registered: May 2014
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posted May 06, 2019 02:41 PM
Isnt this every decent attractive woman who puts herself out there..
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Brenda_S Knowflake Posts: 638 From: Registered: Sep 2018
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posted May 06, 2019 02:51 PM
quote: Originally posted by ChildofVenus: It's probably the Venus square Uranus lol.
Venus/Neptune makes more sense to me... Although might be Uranus too since I have both. And @Dumuzi you don't have the Neptune to Venus aspect so makes me think it might in fact be Uranus. I don't know if I can say that they 'hit' on me, but for some reason something always happens between us lol. I've made a conscious decision to stop it though. So can't say it happens anymore. IP: Logged |
Dumuzi Knowflake Posts: 1313 From: Registered: Oct 2018
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posted May 06, 2019 03:14 PM
quote: Originally posted by Brenda_S: Venus/Neptune makes more sense to me... Although might be Uranus too since I have both. And @Dumuzi you don't have the Neptune to Venus aspect so makes me think it might in fact be Uranus. I don't know if I can say that they 'hit' on me, but for some reason something always happens between us lol. I've made a conscious decision to stop it though. So can't say it happens anymore.
in my case i know it's that they know i won't get attached or care about being their one and only etc and so on so it's not a big deal in regards to their marriage as long as they don't get caught because i'm not going to chase after them since i have a relationship i prioritize, i'm not going to tell their wife/husband, i'm not even the type who needs to communicate frequently outside of that i'm also not one to have discussions about **** like that with people in my immediate vicinity or name names etc which is all convenient really when you think about it lol and more likely venus- uranus in that case IP: Logged |
Brenda_S Knowflake Posts: 638 From: Registered: Sep 2018
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posted May 06, 2019 03:48 PM
quote: Originally posted by Dumuzi: in my case i know it's that they know i won't get attached or care about being their one and only etc and so on so it's not a big deal in regards to their marriage as long as they don't get caughtbecause i'm not going to chase after them since i have a relationship i prioritize, i'm not going to tell their wife/husband, i'm not even the type who needs to communicate frequently outside of that i'm also not one to have discussions about **** like that with people in my immediate vicinity or name names etc which is all convenient really when you think about it lol and more likely venus- uranus in that case
Lol true sounds pretty convenient for you. In my case I always feel hooked in, almost as if I'm in a relationship with them. I hate it. So yeah leave those married men be lol. I think it's a certain excitement for them that they have some secret going on outside of their marriage. I'm not willing to be the one they run to. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 4269 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted May 06, 2019 04:05 PM
quote: Originally posted by Dumuzi: mine is sextile uranus, i have venus square mars and opposite moon though as far as the hard aspects to it from other planets go
One of the married men has Venus trine Uranus and when he hit on me it wasn't direct. But he's a Cancer Sun so that makes sense. IP: Logged |
HelixID Knowflake Posts: 338 From: Registered: Jun 2014
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posted May 06, 2019 04:58 PM
ChildofVenus, I've read so many of your threads and it's probably your Venus/Uranus square. You just love it when a relationship is most likely not going to happen. You can fantasize in your head and you like the excitement of the unattainable. But as soon as something might happen you run. There are probably other women out there without the square that get hit on by married men but they most likely don't think about it as much as you might do. IP: Logged |
Dumuzi Knowflake Posts: 1313 From: Registered: Oct 2018
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posted May 06, 2019 05:45 PM
quote: Originally posted by Brenda_S: Lol true sounds pretty convenient for you. In my case I always feel hooked in, almost as if I'm in a relationship with them. I hate it. So yeah leave those married men be lol. I think it's a certain excitement for them that they have some secret going on outside of their marriage. I'm not willing to be the one they run to.
i guess, it's not really a thing for me i prefer to not deal with **** that can get dramatic and that can i don't really get hooked by people just in general, though if i were a different sort of person i couldve made a lot of money off of it lol ive had so many married guys tell me they were tired of women and wanted to try something new then offer me **** it's crazy maybe i just **** myself with that though lol keep having meaningless sex with people i dont care about or even particularly like for free IP: Logged |
mirage29 Knowflake Posts: 11399 From: us Registered: May 2012
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posted May 06, 2019 06:43 PM
I take any currently "married" relationships (and engaged-people) as a 'dating' hands off! That's a Sacred line, NOT to be crossed. "Just Say NO" to Promise Breakers!!!
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teasel Knowflake Posts: 11901 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 06, 2019 06:45 PM
quote: Originally posted by TuxLuigi: Isnt this every decent attractive woman who puts herself out there..
Nope. You don't have to "put yourself out there" to be hit on by someone who has a girlfriend, or is married. I've had experience there. This IS every douchebro who isn't happy with his own life, or just assumes that he's entitled to sleep with any woman that he wants. IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 11901 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 06, 2019 06:46 PM
quote: Originally posted by mirage29: I take any currently "married" relationships (and engaged-people) as a 'dating' hands off! That's a Sacred line, NOT to be crossed. "Just Say NO" to Promise Breakers!!!
Agreed. IP: Logged |
Brenda_S Knowflake Posts: 638 From: Registered: Sep 2018
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posted May 06, 2019 07:12 PM
quote: Originally posted by Dumuzi: i guess, it's not really a thing for me i prefer to not deal with **** that can get dramatic and that can i don't really get hooked by people just in general, though if i were a different sort of person i couldve made a lot of money off of it lol ive had so many married guys tell me they were tired of women and wanted to try something new then offer me **** it's crazy maybe i just **** myself with that though lol keep having meaningless sex with people i dont care about or even particularly like for free
Yeah lol you should definitely make a living off of this. Even just for a week, so you can say you've been there done that lol. You're doing it anyway. Do what you love and you'll never work a day in your life 😆 IP: Logged |
Dumuzi Knowflake Posts: 1313 From: Registered: Oct 2018
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posted May 06, 2019 07:45 PM
quote: Originally posted by Brenda_S: Yeah lol you should definitely make a living off of this. Even just for a week, so you can say you've been there done that lol. You're doing it anyway.Do what you love and you'll never work a day in your life 😆
yeah may as well right? trying new things is always good you give the best advice
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