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Topic: Asking about birth times - your experience?
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AriesLilith
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posted December 18, 2019 08:00 PM
  
Hi guys, I have noticed that in the relationships section, many people have the birth time of the others. Even with acquaintances, it seems the birth time is known.How exactly do you accomplish this?? How do you even ask about it. I can’t imagine asking it without being strange and bringing astrology to topic. Sometimes I stalk people’s birthdays to read some composites, and we are not too close. How do you guys do it? IP: Logged |
Leo-Cancer98
Knowflake Posts: 1021
From: Toronto,Ontario,Canada
Registered: Nov 2014
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posted December 18, 2019 08:33 PM
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Originally posted by AriesLilith:
Hi guys, I have noticed that in the relationships section, many people have the birth time of the others. Even with acquaintances, it seems the birth time is known.How exactly do you accomplish this?? How do you even ask about it. I can’t imagine asking it without being strange and bringing astrology to topic. Sometimes I stalk people’s birthdays to read some composites, and we are not too close. How do you guys do it?
My partner works from 6am-2pm, yet he was out with his friends at almost 11pm on a weeknight. I was like: “What are you doing to your health? You must be born at night”
He responded: “Yup, 11:54pm.” ------------------
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Dons2angelss
Knowflake Posts: 674
From: Virginia, US
Registered: Jan 2019
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posted December 18, 2019 09:01 PM
I just ask 😂
You'd be surprised how many people know their TOB and how ready they are to share it. IP: Logged |
jyeshthatequila
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From: Seattle, Washington, United States
Registered: Nov 2019
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posted December 18, 2019 09:52 PM
I just ask them and they know I'm really into astrology so they don't mind  IP: Logged |
Pereya
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Registered: Oct 2019
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posted December 19, 2019 03:52 AM
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Originally posted by Leo-Cancer98:
My partner works from 6am-2pm, yet he was out with his friends at almost 11pm on a weeknight. I was like: “What are you doing to your health? You must be born at night”
He responded: “Yup, 11:54pm.”
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AriesLilith
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posted December 20, 2019 04:31 AM
I wish that I could just ask them, but I’m afraid of sounding like a stalker! Only once I could get the birth time of some coworkers, because they were also into astrology a bit and I’ve checked their charts for them.IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
Knowflake Posts: 2373
From: Asia
Registered: Nov 2018
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posted December 20, 2019 08:46 AM
I usually start talking about astrology and once I got their interest, I offer to read their charts for them and that's how I got their birth times. Except cynics, most are quite curious of their natal.
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mirage29
Knowflake Posts: 12433
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Registered: May 2012
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posted December 21, 2019 12:02 PM
The place I volunteer at has been alerting the newer recruits that I WILL be asking them what their Zodiac Sign and Birthday is. It was soooo cute that these had been also pre-informed to find out and know what their Time of Birth is-- as-stamped ON their actual Birth Certificates.  I go gently on them, but DIRECT.
I don't press further.
People already know my interest.
Most have been 'curious'... I use it as an occasion of Fun among peers.
Levity  The ones who provide the actual time of birth get a very quick mini-reading. They are 'rewarded' with a copy of their chart. For the ones who are really-interested, I might pencil-in notes on their chart. They like it when I inform on Transits, Lunations, special Astro Sky-Events. When some are having struggles or great things happen, they ask me what the Stars are saying. I have learned to stay more quiet about any significant transits to their charts. It was scaring them...  ooooh, Don't want to do THAT! So.. They already know about me.
I just stay very-very light with astrology info now.
Pressure is off of me.
Slowing down.....
Taking it Simple. 
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There are some great suggestions here!! 
I enjoyed that.
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vansio
Knowflake Posts: 688
From: ICQ# = discord#
Registered: Dec 2017
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posted December 21, 2019 01:54 PM
In my experience, even when I ask, unless they have seen the birth certificate firsthand they're likely wrong, unfortunately. My own mother was wrong, by 4 hours, and I asked her often and she was adamant for years about the wrong time. It wasn't until she moved house that I found an old "Baby's 1st Yearbook" and my birth time was listed there. IP: Logged |
Stawr
Moderator Posts: 4233
From: N. America
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted December 23, 2019 08:12 AM
Thank God for facebook so I can estimate people's moon sign. lolI once dated a Marine. He had a binder with his birth certificate. He had to work a night once, so it hit me to look at his certificate and look up his rising sign. With my boyfriend now I knew his moon was Gemini but not the degree. He did not care to know his birthtime. Somehow I managed to ease in the weird questions like what hospital he was born at. Was he born in the morning? Somehow I ended up asking his mom what time he was born. Then when he switched jobs I finally got to see his time. So I ran to the laptop right away.
My boyfriend knows I'm an astrology freak. So he accepted what I was doing. haha
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girlwiththerainysoul
Knowflake Posts: 2381
From: Into the wormhole on Saturn's ring
Registered: Jul 2016
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posted December 23, 2019 10:42 AM
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Originally posted by Dons2angelss:
I just ask 😂
You'd be surprised how many people know their TOB and how ready they are to share it.
totally agree! IP: Logged |
AriesLilith
Knowflake Posts: 801
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Registered: Aug 2013
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posted December 23, 2019 03:11 PM
I remember asking my now husband and his mother what his birth time was. Got almost an hour wrong and we saw the real time in an hospital record. Then we discovered our ACs are right opposed to each other!Maybe I’ll offer some chart readings and see if others will reveal their birth times. IP: Logged |
Brenda_S
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Registered: Sep 2018
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posted December 24, 2019 02:50 AM
Yeah just ask. I usually am like 'I always tell myself that I won't be asking people's birth info but I just can never resist' lol and they tell me. It's good cuz 1) it sounds matter of fact and 2) there's a subconscious understanding that you ask this of everyone and not just them so it's cool. And then I just ask the follow up question, "do you know the time you were born too"... Like as long as you ask them casually with no specific agenda (and in the beginning still before stuff gets tacky and intense) then they'll believe that it's purely out of curiosity and your passion for Astrology. IP: Logged |
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