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Leo-Cancer98
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posted December 19, 2019 09:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Leo-Cancer98     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Am I the only one, who finds it quite difficult, to let go of someone I’ve had long-term feelings for (3-7) years?
It is almost impossible for me to give up on a guy I deeply care about. I usually do not quit, unless it is my last (last) option. I do not understand my family’s logic: “Who cares, he’s not the only man in the world; there’s millions of serious black guys in North America.”

For instance, I’ve had a crush on two men my whole life: one since December 24th 2012, the other since January 9th 2013. The 7-Year crush is my current partner, who (this year) confessed having feelings for me for since 2014; despite being in a 6-Year relationship, with a girl he lived with for 4 years. At least now I understand why he never married her, lol. He’s in his mid30s now, and people had been bothering him about “when he’s getting married” for like 5 years.

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Cancer Rising
2nd House Leo Sun
3rd House Leo Mercury
6th House Sagittarius Moon & Pluto
1st House Cancer Venus & Mars
9th House Pisces Jupiter conjunct MC.

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teasel
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posted December 19, 2019 10:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have felt that way about a few guys. One I'm in contact with yet again. He got in touch with me last week, but it's spotty, not every day. I have Moon conjunct Venus in Gemini, and Mars in Pisces, and have trouble letting go of people, too. He has Venus/Jupiter in Pisces.

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charlie
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posted December 20, 2019 01:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for charlie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have a Cancer Venus 11H and no, I don’t have a hard time letting go once I’ve reached that conclusion.

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kani
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posted December 20, 2019 08:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for kani     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus in Pisces is not really known to be sooo keen on monogamy though, generally speaking

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charlie
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posted December 20, 2019 09:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for charlie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by kani:
Venus in Pisces is not really known to be sooo keen on monogamy though, generally speaking

Really? I haven’t noticed this but what I have noticed is that they tend to “blur the lines” of love for ONE person and universal love. They can easily be waaaaaay too friendly with other people and thus creating “drama” here and there

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kani
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posted December 20, 2019 09:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for kani     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by charlie:
Really? I haven’t noticed this but what I have noticed is that they tend to “blur the lines” of love for ONE person and universal love. They can easily be waaaaaay too friendly with other people and thus creating “drama” here and there

They are mutable and borderless so sometimes they might go overboard with their supposed affection for other people. I read that they are not the most faithful either, sexually speaking

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Selenite
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posted December 20, 2019 06:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Selenite     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
yes, scorp venus, i always feel like whoever i'm into is going to be in my life forever and i want to know them forever, etc.

but being a sag, with aries moon, i can feel that way about many people at once! so i don't let go, i just keep adding them to all the people i've fallen in love with and i'll always have feelings for them and love multiple people at once.
commitment is what really counts though. i can have feelings for many and dedicate my life to one for sure! and it's very hard to let go. i never really let go of anyone, though i can live without them, if that makes sense.

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Aries23Degrees
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posted December 21, 2019 02:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Selenite:
yes, scorp venus, i always feel like whoever i'm into is going to be in my life forever and i want to know them forever, etc.

but being a sag, with aries moon, i can feel that way about many people at once! so i don't let go, i just keep adding them to all the people i've fallen in love with and i'll always have feelings for them and love multiple people at once.
commitment is what really counts though. i can have feelings for many and dedicate my life to one for sure! and it's very hard to let go. i never really let go of anyone, though i can live without them, if that makes sense.


I have Asc in Aries/Ven in Sco & Sag Sun.I get you.

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hearttreasure
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posted December 21, 2019 09:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hearttreasure     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have venus in Pisces and I don't have a hard time to let go of someone. Venus in 3rd.

BUT,

I need some times to recover from the break up, to really clearing up my feeling and my mind so I don't carry any baggage from my past relationship to the new one. Usually I need at least a year or more to be single and ready to have a new fresh relationship, like I have never been hurt.

For me, it's not easy to let go of the memories and make an amen to that than let go of the person because usually I put my relationship first and I really make a memory with it as I put my energy, my time, my mind, and other things to the relationship more than I can show it.

With Venus in Pisces, I love everyone equally, but it doesn't mean I like them all to be in my life. I don't fall in love easily, it's quite hard actually. For me, loving a person is easy but to really falling in love it needs a special person to touch your heart and mind. MIND, yup, the person needs to touch my mind too, not just the heart, that's not easy. I'd say I'm a mono.

I do find some other Venus in Pisces who isn't that faithful though, one is my short-term ex, lol. He had a secret lover that he kept from other people for so long, until she called me. The break up was nice because he admitted it but also admitted that he couldn't help to fall for me so I cut contact to safe everybody.

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