posted December 22, 2019 01:14 AM            

My friend has an Aquarius DSC with Scorpio Uranus in 3H Square Leo Venus in 1H. Her Venus also conjunct Saturn but Saturn doesn't square Uranus. She also has Cancer Mars conj Jupiter. While I know Cancer is clingy, I've not observed this in other Cancer Mars that I know. She has a stellium in 1H as well.

posted December 22, 2019 02:28 PM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
I thought that usually shows a very independent partnership?

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On the one hand it does. But Aqu is also the type who loves to be part of a group/ association.

I have a friend who likes going with me everywhere.Running around and completing adhoc tasks etc.I find it annoying. But he loves to have someone accompany him to do all those things.

posted December 22, 2019 07:07 PM            

She drives me crazy if she does not keep herself busy enough. She use to call me everyday. Sometimes after calling me and talking to me for over an hour she'll call me again. I use to be polite and always answer, but now I am more like "no, not today."
It got to the point where if I text back she'll try to call me immediately.

She does not seem very lucky in the friends department, or at least it seems.

She relies heavily off of me for people interaction. She is married and lives with her husband. She does like having her own sleeping space. Separate bedrooms She will tell him to leave her bedroom after sex. However her husband also likes to have his space. On Saturday he likes to be left alone in his bedroom to play skyrim. He gets mad if she intrudes. He just wants one day to himself.

This is where I feel bad, she tries to reach out to her family on this day. And her mom will say "why aren't you spending the day with your husband?"

I don't mind making plans on with her on Saturday, but at the same time it cannot be my problem every Saturday your husband wants space and you don't and your family would not understand if you explained that to them.

That is super hurtful of her husband, but I can kind of understand with some of the stunts she pulls. (that's a whole other thing to get into)

So much Cardinal energy in her chart all clashing. Can't be easy. There is something off with her. I don't mind off. But off like "what's with her issues?"

Called me, told her I couldn't talk since I'm going shopping. Asked to come with. Sure, why not. Only I was super serious and focused on my Christmas shopping. I probably wasn't engaging with her as much as she likes. Asks to share a cart I say yes. We separate our stuff at check out. I insist on going first. Then as I'm about to pay she tells me she forgot her credit card....She has no solution so I just say "that is too bad" then she tells me that she remembers that she left it in the car. Again she comes up with no solution for herself. So I say "I don't know what to tell you" She decides to just leave her stuff at check out and not buy anything. It was very weird. And I am not taking care of her.
She has an element of that in her personality of wanting to be taken care of. Some of you may wonder why not help her out and have her pay you back? No she always has a reason why she can't drive, I need to pay cause it's so cheap and she doesn't have cash like I do, and she just has her card at the video store. Oh and she needs to be drove to her car if she parked too far from the store when we go to the mall together. WTF I cannot bite my tongue well when she wants me to take care of her in this way.

She talks about being bored out of her mind and needing to socialize. But then one of our friends threw a party and she straight up did a no show. And impulsively went to Canada with her husband. ????

posted December 22, 2019 07:39 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
On the one hand it does. But Aqu is also the type who loves to be part of a group/ association.

I have a friend who likes going with me everywhere.Running around and completing adhoc tasks etc.I find it annoying. But he loves to have someone accompany him to do all those things.

He has Aqua Asc & Moon .

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posted December 22, 2019 09:17 PM            

Is it clingy = not wanting to be alone?

posted December 23, 2019 12:09 AM            

@Aries23 / hearttreasure,
My friend is very clingy to her partners. She's like super gluey which becomes irritating because she'll pull a lot of stunts and gets upset if they don't wanna hang out. It's extreme as she'll expect them to join her whenever she meets up with her friends or she'll wanna join them when they meet up with his, ALL THE TIME. She also likes to "report", updating them on where she is/who she's with and what she's doing (including pictures). When I asked her to go on a trip with me, she asked her boyfriend along. zzZZzz... These guys always end up distancing themselves or cheating on her.

She's also afraid to be alone. She'll fill up her schedule so she doesn't have to stay at home alone or do things alone. But the irony is she'll then tell us she has no time to clean up her house so a lot of her stuff are still sitting in cartons boxes (unpacked).

posted December 23, 2019 03:31 AM            

Regardless if its natal or synastry.

In syanastry usually the Pluto person will be the cool and detached- and the the Venus person goes around the Pluto person almost like orbitting them.

I have only seen those close to me with that aspect have the clingginess issue.

posted December 23, 2019 07:58 AM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Thanks for all your sharing!

@Stawr,
It sounds like your friend lacks attention from her husband so she's using friends to fill up her time. It sounds a little like my friend but she doesn't ditch her friends like yours do. She'll ask her boyfriend to join in.

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I think she "burns out" her husband. When she and her husband were both just in school taking out loans. They went on dates all the freaking time. They will even stay in a hotel in the next town over.

Something weird started happening in our friendship. If I went on vacation. She had to go on vacation at the same time as me. I would get wired vibes. When she would want to know where and when. I told her that I booked my vacation. Then she called me the next day and told me she and her husband booked a vacation, and that she even made a comment to her husband like "Stawr and her boyfriend booked theirs!"

She confused my family vacation with the one I booked with my boyfriend. As my vacation with boyfriend got closer she was kind of surprised she thought they were the same vacation. And then she pretty much told me that she had to go on a weekend vacation around the same time with her boyfriend too.
Effing weird right? I did not give her exact details. She wanted to vacation somewhere that was a half hour away from where I was staying. (I did not give her my exact location because this was getting to be too weird for me)

So I'm trying to imagine her telling her husband that they need to go on a weekend getaway with less than a weeks notice. They do not have money, and her husband just started a new job. They ended up going somewhere else. Like I don't know if her husband knows why it has to be right away and it's not a plan they can work toward and save up for. That does not sound like fun to me.

A little bit after that, is when he started wanting to stay in his room for a whole day undisturbed. (Either my sister or boyfriend made the joke what if he jumps out the window and goes places.)

posted December 23, 2019 09:22 AM            

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Originally posted by GalacticCoreExplosion:
No planet more clingy than the Moon, and it's related sign to a slightly lesser extent.

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posted December 23, 2019 02:35 PM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
Yes! Despite my Sun Cancer stellium it’s my Moon op. Saturn that make me detached and not much like a Cancer at all so that’s why I was wondering what OP’s friend’s moon is doing.

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posted December 24, 2019 02:37 AM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
What is her moon doing?? I have her placements and am far from clingy! I have a Cap Moon so that’s why I’m wondering about her moon.

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She has Virgo Moon in 1H conjunct Mercury/Saturn sextile Jupiter.

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Originally posted by minerva1987:
What about a Pluto Venus square?

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posted December 24, 2019 02:42 AM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:

Something weird started happening in our friendship. If I went on vacation. She had to go on vacation at the same time as me. I would get wired vibes. When she would want to know where and when. I told her that I booked my vacation. Then she called me the next day and told me she and her husband booked a vacation, and that she even made a comment to her husband like "Stawr and her boyfriend booked theirs!"

She confused my family vacation with the one I booked with my boyfriend. As my vacation with boyfriend got closer she was kind of surprised she thought they were the same vacation. And then she pretty much told me that she had to go on a weekend vacation around the same time with her boyfriend too.
Effing weird right? I did not give her exact details. She wanted to vacation somewhere that was a half hour away from where I was staying. (I did not give her my exact location because this was getting to be too weird for me)

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