posted December 24, 2019 05:28 PM            

My Pisces Sun/Mercury partner, is a nearly 29” Scorpio Rising, and identifies with Venus in Scorpio & Venus in Pisces; he doesn’t relate to his 5th House Venus in Aries at all, yet it conjuncts his 4th Houses Aries Mars by a 9” orb. If it is of relevance, his 7th House cusp is in Taurus

posted December 25, 2019 01:50 AM            

I think that I attribute this to self-centred Aries Asc and freedom loving Sag Sun.

The idea of constantly sharing my space and time with anyone for a protracted period of time, is scary to me.I don't know if i really want that.

Its funny because Venus/Moon in Scorpio/Canc and both are said to want romance and love etc.But I seem to lack the patience to cultivate it and expect it "ready made" etc.

My patience to see someone through from hiding in their shell to full on expressing their love , is very slim. If I dont get a response to my advances soon, I stop.

I don't think Aries Asc/Sun in Sag combo don't have much patience tbh. Perhaps Taurus Sun/Cancer Sun would "go the distance" with the same Ascendant? Can't say.

A Virgo Asc/Aqua Sun said that I want everything to happen very quickly. That I have a hard time seeing that other people(in this case him) are shy,careful and slow in opening up etc.

I told him that if you like someone,what's the holdup? If the destination is clear, why delay getting there? That is unless you don't want to get there? And are inventing many excuses of why you "shouldn't" get there etc.

In my view, people ask for love on one hand.But then on the other hand, they come up with fantastic reasons as to why they won't find it.

I like the Venus in Aries approach(sign conj my Asc).Its very straightforward.Even the Venus in Sag(sign conjunct my Sun) is very honest.

posted December 25, 2019 07:45 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
I think i prefer flying solo. Yes I do fall under the illusion of hoping to find a suitable mate when Venus is in Pisces(once a year). But for the most part,I am single.

I think that I attribute this to self-centred Aries Asc and freedom loving Sag Sun.

The idea of constantly sharing my space and time with anyone for a protracted period of time, is scary to me.I don't know if i really want that.

Its funny because Venus/Moon in Scorpio/Canc and both are said to want romance and love etc.But I seem to lack the patience to cultivate it and expect it "ready made" etc.

My patience to see someone through from hiding in their shell to full on expressing their love , is very slim. If I dont get a response to my advances soon, I stop.

I don't think Aries Asc/Sun in Sag combo don't have much patience tbh. Perhaps Taurus Sun/Cancer Sun would "go the distance" with the same Ascendant? Can't say.

A Virgo Asc/Aqua Sun said that I want everything to happen very quickly. That I have a hard time seeing that other people(in this case him) are shy,careful and slow in opening up etc.

I told him that if you like someone,what's the holdup? If the destination is clear, why delay getting there? That is unless you don't want to get there? And are inventing many excuses of why you "shouldn't" get there etc.

In my view, people ask for love on one hand.But then on the other hand, they come up with fantastic reasons as to why they won't find it.

I like the Venus in Aries approach(sign conj my Asc).Its very straightforward.Even the Venus in Sag(sign conjunct my Sun) is very honest.

Most often other Venus signs are hard for me to understand or take seriously.

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My Aries stellium agree with not having patience to wait. Despite my Virgo AC, I do think that if it feels right and both are interested, things should develop. I have no patience for games of making each other wait or doubt.

I’ve been careful and wanting to be friends first when I was younger, which dodged me some bullets. But with my husband, we clicked fast and he was very clear about his interest and we started so fast.

posted December 29, 2019 07:45 AM            

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Originally posted by AriesLilith:
My Aries stellium agree with not having patience to wait. Despite my Virgo AC, I do think that if it feels right and both are interested, things should develop. I have no patience for games of making each other wait or doubt.

I’ve been careful and wanting to be friends first when I was younger, which dodged me some bullets. But with my husband, we clicked fast and he was very clear about his interest and we started so fast.

Even now I prefer directness and all. Either feelings are clear or they aren’t. A person that is not sure about me isn’t really into me and vice versa, and I wouldn’t dwell on it.

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You are so right on the money. I have Mars/Moon and Mars/Mercury square.

Mars is in conj the Dsc.I am seldom unclear about who i want.And if i am unclear,I don't want them as much as I may think I do

When i was younger,i was much more diplomatic. But as I get older the boldness of my Sun in Sag comes out.

I also like speaking "off the cuff"(Aries Asc)and I am immensely attracted to someone who allows that to be the foundation of our bond.