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posted August 04, 2020 08:24 PM            

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Where can we see spiteful behaviour in a chart? I'm thinking it's a more complex thing than just one or two aspects. Spite comes from deep down and stems from your own self loathing and taking action to spread it to others just to see them hurt... Like you. At least that's how I see it. I think it goes hand in hand with misery loves company and I despise this trait among all others in a person. The father of my children is one of the most spiteful people I've ever met. Stupid me, I thought I could make a difference in this trait but I'm starting to think it's just in his bones. He has always been on the depressive side and his nick name growing up was "ruffled feathers". He's just not a happy person. I don't know his exact birth time but I've narrowed it down to Mars in the 12H and sun, venus in the 10H. He absolutely loves to show off. Leo ascendant makes perfect sense for him as well. He's a good dad and we co parent well but ONLY if I keep my distance and set boundaries for my personal life, otherwise he'd turn very spiteful.

Here's his chart

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posted August 05, 2020 12:25 AM            

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posted August 05, 2020 08:59 AM            

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Speaking from own experience, because I have one: unevolved/unhappy Cap Moons can be sh1t heads!
We have an ENORMOUS drive to succeed in whatever we do (can be reading books, as a friend, at work, fixing car, whaveter) and when we feel we have failed it’s not a pretty sight!! We are deeply emotional and have great intuition. Also, Mars 12H is not the easiest of placements..

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