posted May 26, 2026 01:59 PM
I find that there is often a pattern that plays out. This pattern is not a paradox but rather a confirmation of energies repeated.For example, Asc in ♐ and Mars is in house 7 in the chart. Then we should look at where Venus is to align with the martial energy in 7th.
Is Venus ruled by Mars? In aspect to Mars? Or sitting in a house that Mars typically does well in? I.e. 3rd, 6th or 10th?
Maybe Venus is in exalted ♓? But then when we look further, we see that the Venus in question is in the 4th house of home. Not a competitive place at all.
But then Venus forms an out of sign conjunction with Mercury in ♈ in 5th. BINGO!!
Mars rules Mercury. So the home life may be very argumentative(♈
. But the native tends to maybe escape the chaos by retreating to fun OR taking that energy and expanding it through creative projects(5th)?
So now with Mars in 7th( aggression projected to partners). And Mercury ♈/Venus ♓ conjunct, we can safely assume that the native may communicate or express herself in a way that avoids confrontations and through that, unconsciously (4th)attract very assertive partners(Mars 7th).
There is also a possibility that that Mercury in 5th ♈ , may also represent the romantic people they are drawn to i.e. straight talkers who don't mince words.
Now if we look at the 7th house(♊ Dsc), we also see that Mercury in ♈ in 5th.So the impulse may be to date to marry. Rush into marriage. Or attract those people who initiate partnerships on them.
So now the theme of Mars/ aggression and competition comes out in terms of relationships. Its been highlighted 3 times.
Look for a pattern.