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posted July 11, 2009 11:28 PM         

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Being so connected to someone who you don't really know. I'm having such a hard time separating myself. Any help would be appreciated.

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posted July 12, 2009 01:16 AM         

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I can't explain it, and I still get it. It might be a touch easier for me to deal with, but feelings like that still play on my psyche.

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posted July 12, 2009 02:05 AM         

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is this the guy you posted the synastry for? i'm gonna take a wild guess and say it's your venus conjunct his neptune. my ex (most recent) and i have this, 2 deg orb, me also being the venus. before i knew him well as a friend i felt i knew him and i felt our connection. we, as venus, feel a lot of love here and they can easily become confused, though usually they feel as strongly, at least insofar as the confusion does not take them over.

it either points to a deep soul shaking connection that is hard to put words to, or delusion and an affinity that was never that beautiful; it just felt that way. that's neptune for you.

but i will say that feeling i had for him for 4 years turned out to be true. we know eachother very well, and still connect strongly as friends. whether the 'love' was meant to be or not (to last), i do not know. i'm finding it's best to not try to understand it anymore.

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posted July 12, 2009 04:39 AM         

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I understand. I have this with someone. I read their name in a letter and felt the connection even before we met in person. The universe keeps throwing us together. There are times when we even walk into each other - literally. This happens frequently.

Usually the more you get to know about someone the less there is to know, but some people, the more you get to know about them, the more there is to know about them and the more you want to know about them, and the more you see yourself in them and vice versa.

I put it down to past life connections - familiarity. It's hard to break ties with them.

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posted July 12, 2009 12:24 PM         

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I can relate. In my case I blame the double whammy venus-neptune (which we also have natally) links and our stelliums' conjunctions in synastry.

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