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kfn327
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posted November 05, 2010 10:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for kfn327     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sometimes when I have sex with someone I love deeply, I begin to cry. Does anyone else do this, or have you ever had this experience? I have Sun in Aries/Moon in Pisces/Venus in Aquarius/Mars in Taurus.

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posted November 05, 2010 10:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for swirl-kitt     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I did cry.. twice actually

However, I didn't cry because it was too beautiful.

I cried because I felt miserable, I realized that I was still in love with my ex.

not that the sex was terrible. I guess it lacked emotion

But I cried when it was over so mine doesn't count

sun scorpio, moon aries, merc. sagittarius

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posted November 05, 2010 10:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for swirl-kitt     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm actually quite the opposite of 'crying during intimacy'

The departments of Love, Pleasure, and Crying are far far away from each other in my brain. Love and Pleasure are close though

I never feel like crying when I'm happy.

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kfn327
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posted November 05, 2010 10:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for kfn327     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I cry when I'm happy. I cry almost every day. Sometimes crying is sad and unhappy, but often, I enjoy it. It's a release and I feel rejuvenated afterward.

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lechien
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posted November 05, 2010 10:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lechien     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
oh it happens to me from time to time, when i feel really happy to be intimate with someone. it's sweet, though it alarms the guys a bit.

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posted November 05, 2010 10:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for kfn327     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lech, it alarms the men a lot in my experience.

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lechien
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posted November 05, 2010 10:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lechien     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
that's true! lol

to relate astrologically, i guess my Cancer-ruled 8th house.

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posted November 05, 2010 11:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for esheep123     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've never cried during sex, or after sex.

I could imagine it as a release, or an emotional fulfillment from the partner.

I did however meet someone that when I speak to him, and then walk away, I feel incredibly emotional, and helpless.

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posted November 05, 2010 11:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have not cried during or after . To be honest I cant see myself doing that...

What ever emotions I feel I keep them to myself.. I dont cry in front of anyone. Unless its a movie... lol...

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LEXX
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posted November 05, 2010 11:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LEXX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
yes

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posted November 05, 2010 12:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MyVirgoMask     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It's totally unpredictable for me. Sometimes I don't, sometimes I bawl my eyes out. I think it's my hidden 12th house moon (Aries) and the opposition to Uranus makes emotion very sudden and very out of the blue.

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posted November 05, 2010 01:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for letram     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
no.

and im glad i haven't seen this o.o

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jane
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posted November 05, 2010 01:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for jane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Only when it's bad.

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posted November 05, 2010 01:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MyVirgoMask     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted November 05, 2010 03:32 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Jane,

It used to happen to me a lot. I would cry almost always afterwards the first few years when I was younger. I don't know why but it was like release of some sort and I found the stupidest things to cry over. Sometimes i would burst out laughing too. Now after being intimate I don't like being touched or even talking to them.

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Ami Anne
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posted November 05, 2010 03:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Jane and Belgz

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Pluto conjunct Dejanira, Girlfriend.

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posted November 05, 2010 06:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Cynnared     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I cried once, when it went up the wrong hole suddenly and I was in a lot of pain. Other than that no.

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posted November 05, 2010 09:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Betty Boop     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
LOLLLL @ Cyn.
That would be the only time I'd cry also.
I have your Aries Sun/Cap Mars combination hehehe

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posted November 05, 2010 09:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Cynnared     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Throw Uranus in Libra into the mix and you get a wild combo....

I try at writing jokes and hope to go back on stage to do stand up....

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posted November 05, 2010 10:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lara     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
LMAO Cynnared! That's painfully funny


As for the title, yes l have done.

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posted November 05, 2010 10:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for dinobleue     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have. I laugh as well.

H8 Sun in Aquarius
H12 Moon in Cancer

I have Venus in Capricorn and Mars in Aries but that doesn't seem like something those placements would normally do.

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ScorpioSMR
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posted November 05, 2010 11:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpioSMR     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes

I
Cry
Smile
Laugh
Make a variety of noises....no barking though

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posted November 05, 2010 11:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for amowls*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I cry when I get mad.

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GypseeWind
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posted November 06, 2010 01:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypseeWind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I cry when I get mad too. And then that makes me madder.

But to answer OP question, YES, I have and so did he. I'll never forget that night. And it was a good crying, not cause it was terrible, lol, it was because it was intensely beautiful.

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Spanky Butler
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posted November 06, 2010 05:36 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm blaming the Venus Rx for this topic lol.

Interestingly enough a friend mentioned this thread to me tonight & then I find this article on yahoo news..

http://au.lifestyle.yahoo.com/womens-health/sex-relationships/ better-sex/article/-/8265563/the-mysteries-of-sex/ the excerpt below is what was most interesting so posted for y'all who couldn't be fugged clicking the link.


WHY WE SOMETIMES CRY(OR LAUGH) AFTER SEX

Perhaps it’s your partner humming Celine Dion songs during intercourse, but more likely it’s a physiological reaction. “An orgasm instigates the release of powerful hormones, such as dopamine, epinephrine and oxytocin, all of which rile the emotions,” says Dr Pepper Schwartz, author of Prime: Adventures & Advice on Sex, Love and the Sensual Years. The good news: you should consider giggles (or tears) a reassuring sign about the status of your relationship. If getting physical with someone moves you that much, you probably have a profound, intimate relationship.

On a personal note, I've never cried during sex & never will cause crying is for wimps

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