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Knowflake

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posted September 28, 2005 07:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for peace     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have been told by Susan Aiu,a local astrologer,that air signs(Gemini,Libra,Aquarius)are asexual.My Aunt is an example.She's a Libra female,who used to be a man.One her former close friends told me that she always felt inside that she was a woman trapped in a man's body,and like every human,wants to feel "heaven" when she has sex.Her friend also added and I quote:"I give any man credit for sacrificing his sexuality.Because being a woman is hard!.

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posted September 28, 2005 07:29 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Um......ok.


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posted September 28, 2005 07:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Peri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Peace, I wonder if she has past life memories?

I heard somewhere that people that have a woman/man-trapped-in-a-man/woman's-body feeling usually have not recovered yet from their past lives, their past life feelings are so strong that they cannot identify themslves with their current gender and their current life!

What do you think??

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posted September 28, 2005 08:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for peace     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Peri,I am always curious about everyone's former incarnations whether they were a man or woman.All I know is that my aunt is one of 8 children second to youngest,and she was very close to one of her sisters name Jane(my dad's twin).In fact,after her sex change,she took her sister's name.They were soulmates because when she had the operation her family rejected her at first.But her sister loved and supported her unconditionally.Who knows?,probably they were lovers or close friends in their formers life.Very mysterious!.

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posted September 28, 2005 08:57 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, I have an Aquarian Moon and I'm pretty sure I've been a man for the most part - I even sometimes feel as if I should have a penis, kinda like it's a phantom limb; and when I dress up femininely, I usually feel like I'm cross-dressing.
Especially in the past...I'm getting over that a little as I age.

But (though I know that his may sound contradictory given the above) I feel like a woman, like this is right.
And I like sex.
I like sex with men.
A lot.

(Yes, I know that gender identification and sexual preference are vastly different, I was just noting.)

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Pop Producer
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posted September 28, 2005 10:29 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mmm...I don't know if we can say that a sex change operation is the result of having the sun in an air sign... Other factors are stronger I think...

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posted September 28, 2005 10:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for peace     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Pop producer,
Yes,you do have a point there.Since the 8th house has to do with sexuality.Perhaps Uranus in the 5th or 8th house has possibilties?.Since astrologers claim Uranus is the homosexual planet.Don't forget Venus in Aquarius.

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posted September 28, 2005 10:51 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
A tale of two Aquas:

Was cuddling in bed with a boy of my same birthdate (Jan 24th) we never actually had sex- just a sensual "bond", one than began literally "at first sight" on the dance floor, before we learned we shared a birthday. (what a shock that was for the two of us!)

So we're sharing a pillow and he confesses he has always secretly felt he was a girl; and I confess I have always secretly felt I was a boy.

So we lay there in the dark and both understood.

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posted September 28, 2005 10:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Peri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Since astrologers claim Uranus is the homosexual planet

I think homosexuality and transsexuality is not the same thing!

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Quark
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posted September 28, 2005 11:00 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The first (and only) girl friend I ever had is now a raging (and bewtifull) dyke. She was the boy and I have allways been the girl. I dont believe in that "your gay because you cant accept your karma line". Its like plato said, we are of the third sex. Dont explain us away with moralising..

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posted September 28, 2005 11:13 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Im diffrent, I love who I am, so I wouldnt change my body. I dont care if society doesnt accept me for who I am. I have come here for a reason, and its not a bad one. Im not here to "learn" to be a "real" man. Im here to be me.... It took me forever to figure myself out, a lot of tears, pain and hurt... But I'm better for it. "Know thyself"

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posted September 28, 2005 11:19 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Being a young one (26), in many ways Im still coming to terms with who I am. I guess the best thing for me has been to associate with "family".... They make me feel real. And they accept me for who I am. There is NOTHING like going out say on a sat night to one of 'those' clubs, step onto the dance floor and just be allowed to be completely yourself for awhile, amoungst other people of similar disposition... its what I live for.

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posted September 28, 2005 11:25 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey remember, family doesnt neccesarily mean 'gay'... Queer forever baby Arms wide open to ya'all.... Rememba' never assume anything I fluctuate between boys and (girly boys) on a terribly uneven basis... Except all my gf's (ok i admit again just one mwah!) turn out to be dyke(s)! What is with that? Denial anyone?

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posted September 28, 2005 11:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for peace     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
For all posters,
My aunt didn't recently had the sex change.She had the operation done in the 70's.I was born in 1978.She didn't tell me until I was 14 yrs.old.Back then in the 60's and 70's,if you a were trans-gender,gay or lesbian,you were considered an outcast to society.Even worst,psychologists thought it was a mental problem.Truly sad,and yes very judgmental.Society was your decision maker.

Quark,
I'm glad that you speak for yourself.If you did back then in the 70's.People would have told you to go back into your closet.You Go Girl!


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Quark
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posted September 28, 2005 11:32 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
As soon as I figure out my pride outfit, I will post a pic (but not of me, just of my clothes LOL!), Im desperately trying to figure out what to wear. And only like two weeks to go (Ahhhhrrrrgggg!!!!!).... Crisis...

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Quark
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posted September 28, 2005 11:35 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Peace,

People of my age dont realise how lucky they are, but It's still not really to a situation where say I could stroll hand in hand with my lover down city streets and not attract looks... we have come a long way yes, but we have soooo long to go.

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Quark
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posted September 28, 2005 11:39 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
O NO! Im not going that outlandish... i have a little vinyl outfit (pants) and a see thru meshy designer top thingy (pisces blue) But I think im going to wear a print underneath, still a bit cold out... and can allways discard it later!

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Quark
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posted September 28, 2005 11:45 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok, I dont want to seem vain or self indulgent (well maybe just a little)...

But here is a recent pic of me and that first (and only) gf I was talking about. We had a reunion of sorts earlier this year, was lovely She is so cool, like a sister to me.

She's leo (scorp rising, sag moon, if anyones curious)....

Isnt she great
http://www.demostreams.com/app/ds/artists/_Quark_/Gallery/b_85B6FD2C-C09F-3495-0BED433FAD60058B.jpg

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Knowflake

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posted September 28, 2005 11:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for peace     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The only person who should go back to their closet is Michael Jackson.Just kidding.

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Quark
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posted September 28, 2005 11:46 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, I think she is anyway!

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Knowflake

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posted September 28, 2005 11:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for peace     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What sign are you Quark?.

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Quark
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posted September 28, 2005 11:50 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ha! *blush* I have to be self indulgent more often, thanking you

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Quark
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posted September 28, 2005 11:53 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Peace, "Im a Pisces fish and the river runs through my soooouuulll!"

Pisces (ascendant Pisces, Taurus moon).. 3rd March 79

Double whammy

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sue g
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posted September 28, 2005 12:24 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Leyla.......loved your story girl........

Quark........lovely to hear you can be yourself......with your family........b l i s s.........

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posted September 28, 2005 12:25 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Since astrologers claim Uranus is the homosexual planet.

I think Uranus is an "unisex" planet that lowers the differences between genres. That's not the same.

At the same time. Mercury was said to be a bisexual energy, because Mercury, as the mesenger, always reflaxes the genre of the energy he's delivering.

And geminis, having two sides, are said to be prone to bisexuality. But most Geminis I know are straight, maybe only a little curious.

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