posted November 21, 2010 09:46 AM            

A 7th house Pluto attracts nothing but underworld types and having the moon in there too...I attract the psychos that need a mother.

My 2nd boyfriend ex who was the longest r/ship I endured is a certified psychopath and sociopath whom I had to get a R/O in March because the longer we've been broken apart, the more psycho he gets.

Mind you, we've split up in early 2006.

If I showed you the 6 hour fight that we had on my friend's facebook that made me get the R/O...you'd all think twice before b!tching at each other on here and accusing each other of retarded things like libel, slandering and defamation of character..on an anonymous board where we all have screen names to protect our identities.

Try being told that your so loose that you probably need a whole arm to be penetrated on your friend's status on facebook where everyone you grew up with and knows you since you were little can read it. THEN talk to me about real slander and defamation before you have a cry on here. Seriously.

I never thought someone's words could make me throw up at how disgusting, appalling, twisted and sadistic they are.

posted November 21, 2010 11:49 AM            

Well, to have some fun with what you just said... if like attracts like,

Psychos attract Randall,
Randall's site attracts us,
We attract each other...

posted November 21, 2010 12:42 PM            

I don't go around abusing people sadistically and that wasn't why I was attracted to my ex.

I do think though, to answer your question Randall (and to dispute and rebut Quinnie and add a more realistic perspective) is that some of us are so empathetic and compassionate that psycho's get attracted to that, then abuse it. And thus a victim is born.

So maybe victim aspects in charts?

Or, to put a whole new spin on it. I study psychology and will one day be a psychologist who researches human behaviour through vigorous empirical scientific testing.

Naturally, my profession is about psycho's and treating (healing) them.

So, those sensitive, empathetic, compassionate factors would show up in my charts relating to the profession I would choose later in life to specifically work with ALL mental illnesses, not just sociopaths.

posted November 21, 2010 01:34 PM            

Ofcourse I by no means imply that victims of trauma and abuse inflicted outside of a person's control are in any way responsible for their abuse and this includes children.
But for others who have enough self-insight and years of experience...it's the games we play...We cast ourselves and others into the role of victim and persecutor.
Pluto shows us where this occurs in our chart.
As with oppositions..you cannot resolve one part of this relational equation without owning the other half.

posted November 21, 2010 06:51 PM            

My most significant relationship had his Nessus square my Pluto
My Nessus square his Pluto and quincux his dejanira...

Also his Pluto conjunct my Sun.

Our composite...Nessus squares Pluto exact and Dejanira conjunct Uranus.

There were definite power struggles.

posted November 21, 2010 06:54 PM            

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Oh and I was supposed to be leaving this site because I'm so fed up with the crap on here recently, but this has just turned interesting ..

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I will look later, Quinnie !