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Topic: What Defines Your Sexual Preference?
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coconutcancermoon
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From: A Place of Pure Love
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted January 25, 2011 07:32 AM
  
All my life, I've dated men only. I've never been with a girl, but at around 17, I noticed that women are very arousing and started to look at them more. I've had a few girl crushes but nothing crazy.Anyways, now at 30, I still feel the same, I find myself glancing at women more than men. I watched this really sexy girl sit and read a book and I was amazed at how beautiful she looked. Eh . . . that scares me to type that. I'm in a relationship with the man I believe is my soul mate and I am happy, not perfect, but happy. I'm in love and have no interest in straying, but I still enjoy admiring beautiful women and find them really sexy. A friend of mine says I'm gay. I thought I was at one point, I enjoy the company of a man because I feel warm and protected. But women do turn me on ALOT more ;/ My other friend says I'm bisexual, I wasn't sure if there's really such a thing, but it sounds like me. In the end, I always give up and say I'm none of these things, I'm just "me"and I shouldn't bother defining it.
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Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 25, 2011 07:50 AM
Thank you for sharing that (((CCM)))
I know it must have been hard.
I think sexuality can be plastic.
When people are in prison ,they will ,often, have homosexual partners.
When,they get out,they have heterosexual ones.
My sense is that you are worrying and trying to "label" things which are simply feelings,sensations.
They don't MEAN one thing or another.
I am totally heterosexual. That one area of me is totally solid.
However,I have been attracted to woman.I just blow it off as meaning nothing.
To me,it just means that we are all capable of plasticity in our sexuality.
Love you!!!!!! 
Disclaimer---This is one person's opinion.Opinions are like noses.We all have one and they usually have a few holes in them.
I DO NOT CARE TO ARGUE ABOUT MINE.THANK YOU
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Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 25, 2011 07:50 AM
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coconutcancermoon
Moderator Posts: 321
From: A Place of Pure Love
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted January 25, 2011 08:23 AM
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Randall
Webmaster Posts: 5036
From: The Goober Galaxy
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 25, 2011 10:57 AM
I think you're a normal heterosexual woman. Women generally find other women attractive, but that doesn't mean they would do anything sexual with a woman if given the chance. Still, a good percentage of women are bisexual (probably 20 percent or so, based on studies). ------------------
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PlutoSquared
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From: Mars
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted January 25, 2011 12:51 PM
Sexual preference seems to be judged on a scale, rather than a strictly hetero/homosexual basis, although there are types that feel strictly homo/heterosexual:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinsey_scale
I've had sexual encounters with both men and women, and while both were enjoyable I prefer males to females.
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Sublime
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Registered: Jul 2010
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posted January 26, 2011 04:19 PM
My thoughts...the soul is androgynous and therefore one may connect more with the female divine or the masculine divine.I believe in reincarnation...in this instance one may have experienced life as a female or a male many times over. As hu-mans we need to learn to think out side of the box and realize that unconditional love knows no gender. You fall in love with the soul of a person, the body is just a temple/vessel in which the person travels. Embrace who you are in this life and love who your heart desires. Peace and Blessings! IP: Logged |
blonderiverkat
Moderator Posts: 663
From: Tri-State Area
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted January 26, 2011 04:30 PM
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Originally posted by Sublime:
My thoughts...the soul is androgynous and therefore one may connect more with the female divine or the masculine divine.I believe in reincarnation...in this instance one may have experienced life as a female or a male many times over. As hu-mans we need to learn to think out side of the box and realize that unconditional love knows no gender. You fall in love with the soul of a person, the body is just a temple/vessel in which the person travels. Embrace who you are in this life and love who your heart desires. Peace and Blessings!
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Lioness
Knowflake Posts: 1538
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posted January 26, 2011 05:11 PM
I think its absolutely normal for females to be attracted to other females.
I also think the curiosity of being with a female, is probably more common than you think. But I agree you love who you love, and you are attracted to who your attracted to.. There's just something about that specific person.. I have been where you are at... I thought at one point I might be bi, because of some attractions... So I went out and was with a woman.. Then when it was over...
After it was over I said to myself.. Ok NOW I know Im straight.. lol ... I couldnt see myself "dating" a woman... but heres something strange.. I do have a female friend (over 10 years) I am VERY attracted to her... For some strange reason I would just love to seduce her...
(she's a pisces) lol....
OMG Im in soo much trouble with Pisces People... I need to stay away from Pisces people... period.... I have no clue why they effect me so much... Her Mars is exactly conjunct my NN... I wonder if thats why I feel that way to her.. Very weird.. Her venus is aslo opps my Venus... but Im sure she is not the first female who's venus is opps my Pluto.. Just something about her, that I really desire.. I dont feel that way about any other woman.. She is the only one.. IP: Logged |
coconutcancermoon
Moderator Posts: 321
From: A Place of Pure Love
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted January 26, 2011 05:49 PM
Thanks for the wonderful replies!Lioness, you kind of sound like me, except when I become friends with a woman I start to feel a sisterhood which makes it impossible to feel attracted to her. Sublime  IP: Logged |
Lioness
Knowflake Posts: 1538
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posted January 26, 2011 05:57 PM
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Originally posted by coconutcancermoon:
Thanks for the wonderful replies!Lioness, you kind of sound like me, except when I become friends with a woman I start to feel a sisterhood which makes it impossible to feel attracted to her. Sublime
Yeah same here.. but its just her.. Im not attracted to any other female I know, especially friends... Its those darn Pisces placements.. Gets me every time.. lol
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Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 26, 2011 06:02 PM
You,two,are so cute  ------------------
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