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racole12
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posted February 11, 2011 02:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for racole12     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm done pretending I'm not lonely... since my last dance with Pluto (when it conj my DSC and Mars) I feel this emptiness I have never felt before. Before then... I loved being single/not in committed relationships, living by myself and traveling by myself... then something happened during this last Pluto transit, PLUS if I do connect with someone it better be on a deep emotional level or I just won't have anything to do with it... I don't want to feel this way anymore... I want to be back to my "normal" self or be in a relationship that's deep and transformational. Since I have started feeling like this everything has crashed in my life... my career (is dead), my health (is still shity)... etc. etc. Nothing seems to matter anymore...

Since pluto passed into my 7th house I have gone a long period, twice, without sex... I'm needing that "connection" or I just don't want it...

Can someone help me out and look to see when things will be changing or at least be in a relationship where I can use this energy in a positive way...

I'm just so lost (which isn't normal for me either)

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LEXX
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posted February 11, 2011 10:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LEXX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

You should post this at Personal Readings and also at Astrology 2.

I understand.

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First ask yourself: What is the worst that can happen? Then prepare to accept it. Then proceed to improve on the worst. – Dale Carnegie
“An intellectual is a person who has discovered something more interesting than sex.”~Aldous Huxley

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Ami Anne
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posted February 11, 2011 10:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
"The tragedy of sexual intercourse is the perpetual virginity of the soul"
As you get older,you want deeper and more meaningful things.That is natural and good

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Jesus never put his trust in man cuz he knew what was in man.
He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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rajji
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posted February 11, 2011 10:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for rajji     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
"The tragedy of sexual intercourse is the perpetual virginity of the soul"

What does that mean??

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Ami Anne
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posted February 11, 2011 10:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I thought you were messing with me,Rajji,but I see you are not a native English speaker

It means you can have sex with no heart or soul and that is a tragedy

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Jesus never put his trust in man cuz he knew what was in man.
He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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rajji
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posted February 11, 2011 10:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for rajji     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
OH amie! its not about my native language...
its actually becoz ive not yet been there.
(intercourse)

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Mblake81
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posted February 11, 2011 10:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mblake81     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sometimes the corrections cut deep, but then it is over.

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LEXX
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posted February 11, 2011 10:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LEXX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
"The tragedy of sexual intercourse is the perpetual virginity of the soul"

is a quote from
William Butler Yeats

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LEXX
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posted February 11, 2011 10:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LEXX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by rajji:
OH amie! its not about my native language...
its actually becoz ive not yet been there.
(intercourse)

Take your time;
there is no rush to experience it.

I have had my wild times and meaningless sexual encounters.
I do not intend on having sex with anyone ever again;
unless there is mutual love.


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rajji
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posted February 11, 2011 11:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for rajji     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by LEXX:
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Take your time;
there is no rush to experience it.

I have had my wild times and meaningless sexual encounters.
I do not intend on having sex with anyone ever again;
unless there is mutual love.
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Thanks for your kind advice Lexx..


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AcousticGod
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posted February 11, 2011 12:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AcousticGod     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm sorry you feel like that. I can't tell from astrology how or when you're going to come out of this, but I don't doubt you will.

I think if you move constructively in any of the areas you mentioned (relationships, health, career), you'll start feeling better. I think everything at once is what is overwhelming you. Maybe spend a little time with your friends, work on a project that you'd enjoy, or do something that makes you feel healthier.

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Ami Anne
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posted February 11, 2011 12:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Dear Rajji
Give your heart and your body to someone who is worth it

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Jesus never put his trust in man cuz he knew what was in man.
He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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TrueTaurus
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posted February 11, 2011 01:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for TrueTaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
racole12, I definitely relate to you as I can get very lonely. 12th house stellium here with a Sun in Taurus and Moon in Scorpio (not into casual encounters). I just want to share that after breaking up with my ex, I was devastated, but I also felt a sense of freedom. I had forgotten to love myself. I had a connection, but it didn't last very long. Losing that connection with someone I loved hurt deeply, and I think that I would have been better off breaking off the relationship early on because it made me feel lonely even in the relationship. Now that I'm not with a person who brought my mood down everyday, I am happier, and I give off a different vibe to people. I find myself being more open and talkative. Men and women are both attracted to openness. They say we find the right people when we're not looking for it. <3
Wishing you the best.

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racole12
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posted February 11, 2011 04:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for racole12     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you all for your kind words... I think I keep trying to disown my Venus in Scorpio and my Sun conj Neptune, which I should just learn to accept. That water energy just doesn't go well with all my fire!

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rajji
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posted February 12, 2011 01:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for rajji     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Ami Anne:
[B]Dear Rajji
Give your heart and your body to someone who is worth it
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Ami...yeah...i can say ill try..nothing is in our hands...u know.
We are all puppets here.
Destiny and dreams take opposite roads.

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Ami Anne
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posted February 12, 2011 03:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yep Rajji
I used to push against closed doors to get what I wanted.
That was how I got in the worst relationship of my life.
ONCE you take steps against the flow of God,you are on a path that doesn't get better.
You are right about that ,Rajji.
That is wisdom!

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Jesus never put his trust in man cuz he knew what was in man.
He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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