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Topic: Sexual Appetite, Libido, Etc.
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PlutoSquared Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: May 2013
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posted February 16, 2011 01:08 PM
Alright, ladies (and you guys, too...)What makes or breaks your libido? Do certain things make you desire sex? Exercise, chocolate, good music, wine? Have you ever gone periods of not wanting sex? How often would you prefer to have sex? A couple times a week? Everyday? Is this effected by how you feel? Share. IP: Logged |
NickiG Knowflake Posts: 5818 From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann Registered: Jul 2010
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posted February 16, 2011 01:13 PM
interesting question...with me, i want it whenever i'm in the mood which is not predictable....and if i go for periods of not having sex then i'll stop wanting it and if i have sex then i'm gonna want it often....its kind of an addiction that i cant control unless i dont have it and yet, at the same time, i can control it...and being a scorpio my attitude about sex changes often, but i still love it regardless------------------ What happens on Venus stays on Venus -Nasa IP: Logged |
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posted February 16, 2011 01:31 PM
Going through a phase, My energy is elsewhere right now, and possible still here in the near future.My phases will last until they pass. I do not fight some of them anymore. IP: Logged |
LEXX Knowflake Posts: 9743 From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 16, 2011 02:28 PM
Libido. Wish there was an on/off switch. Damn "on" switch is stuck. Has been since I discovered orgasms at age 4. So, am I a sex addict or orgasm addict? Orgasm addict I think. I have yet to find a lover who is not freaked out by my libido. I also do not need, nor expect a lover to keep up with me. Also the more I get, the more I want. That upsets most lovers because I like to bring on as many orgasms as possible in a short time, AFTER they are spent. Sadly that has upset, ****** off, and or saddened lovers. I am like, hey, this has nothing to do with the sex/love making, it has to do with my knowing that after sex I can orgasm over and over easily and damn I am going to go for it! On the other hand; my libido often p!sses me off! Like, it would be far easier to just avoid sex altogether, not have it, not think about it..... but like today, I tried to avoid thinking about it, but in the early morning I was awakened by a fabulously glorious series of orgasms! So here I am now, growling, hissing and basically feeling as fraking frustrated as one of my unspayed female cats, who is wandering around yowling in heat. I have even been to many doctors asking for a pill to shut it off! All they do is laugh. Grrrrrrrrr. So even when I do my best to not think about sex....wham.....there it is, in my sleep, and there is nothing I can do about it. The other thing is I want love making, not just sex. Maybe if the time ever comes where I feel like it is love making not just sex with a lover; well maybe that will straighten me out. But for now, Solo, even though I get offers for just sex, which I turn down, because I do not want just sex, which is usually soooooo boring anyhow, and I can take care of the orgasm bit alone just fine. Libido! LOL! Just typing this post has me all revved up. Grrrrrrrs. My body does not listen to me when I tell it to fraking chill out. On that note, going to go meditate and try to force such thoughts out of my head and body, but know if I dose off, it will happen in my dreams. And oddly...it is not always sex thoughts that gets me sexually cranked up. So, my libido is overactive. However my desire to have sex with other people is easily broken. Easier to just take care of the body urges myself and be done with it awhile. Safer, less messy, and emotionally neutral. However, with the right lover, I can see myself being quite interested and wanting it everyday.....as often as is mutual possible. Have not yet encountered such a person in real life physically yet, so really do not know what I would be like.PS. Where is DATA or the love android Gigolo Joe in AI? Ashley Scott and Jude Law play "love meccas" in A.I. Artificial Intelligence. IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: May 2013
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posted February 16, 2011 03:06 PM
LEXX,You have a great, honest, and naturally humorous way of writing. I know I've complimented you before, but seriously... great ability I can relate to you about wanting love and connection with sex. I feel that way, too. I can also relate of wanting to go without, if I can't have that. I can NOT RELATE to your amazing ability to orgasm, which is very sad! Ha. But, maybe one day. IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: May 2013
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posted February 16, 2011 03:08 PM
quote: Originally posted by NickiG: interesting question...with me, i want it whenever i'm in the mood which is not predictable....and if i go for periods of not having sex then i'll stop wanting it and if i have sex then i'm gonna want it often....its kind of an addiction that i cant control unless i dont have it and yet, at the same time, i can control it...and being a scorpio my attitude about sex changes often, but i still love it regardless
NickiG, I guess this is where the extremes with Scorpio play out - all or nothing? IP: Logged |
NickiG Knowflake Posts: 5818 From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann Registered: Jul 2010
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posted February 16, 2011 03:10 PM
quote: Originally posted by PlutoSquared: NickiG,I guess this is where the extremes with Scorpio play out - all or nothing?
yea, pretty much...and last year it was worse, now its not so bad and i dont think about sex as much as i used to...still love it, but its not as necessary for me to have it as much ------------------ What happens on Venus stays on Venus -Nasa IP: Logged |
LEXX Knowflake Posts: 9743 From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 16, 2011 03:54 PM
quote: Originally posted by PlutoSquared: LEXX,You have a great, honest, and naturally humorous way of writing. I know I've complimented you before, but seriously... great ability
Thank you! quote: Originally posted by PlutoSquared: I can relate to you about wanting love and connection with sex. I feel that way, too.I can also relate of wanting to go without, if I can't have that.
Yeah, if sex with another, I do not want simply sex. Been there done that, no thank you. LOL, unless it is an android. quote: Originally posted by PlutoSquared: I can NOT RELATE to your amazing ability to orgasm, which is very sad! Ha. But, maybe one day.
Well oddly that ability seems to become better with age, LOL and practice! Hint; abdominal and pelvic muscles, and glutes and hip flexor muscles must be seriously exercised! Once you have control of those you can bring on orgasms by just using those muscles whilst just sitting or lying down.The big thing is do not fear your body, get to know it intimately.IP: Logged |
cappy1277 Moderator Posts: 1749 From: philadelphia,pa Registered: Jul 2009
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posted February 16, 2011 04:27 PM
My sexual appetite is VORACIOUS! when i'm getting it- I want it all the time. Mars in capricorn in 8th house is probably what does it but just like Lexx, I am not a sex addict just an orgasm addict. I can go through dry spells for years and not even care but when I find that someone who pushes that right "button", its hard for me to stay away from it. What turns me? put it this way- my boyfriend LAID ME OUT this morning for some trifling behavior on my behalf and all I could do is grin and think about how much it turned me on....lol. I like sex in the morning, a quickie in the afternoon and then right before bed when I am getting it. Minute men and men who boast about their capabilities turn me off. Besides that, I can't really think of too much of what turns me off....except for casual sex. Sex is better when you know the one your with intimately.IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: May 2013
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posted February 16, 2011 07:14 PM
quote: Originally posted by Mblake81: Going through a phase, My energy is elsewhere right now, and possible still here in the near future.My phases will last until they pass. I do not fight some of them anymore.
Mblake, you sound vague Wonder what transits you're dealing with lately... You should post your chart and transits here for analysis... IP: Logged |
MoonWitch Moderator Posts: 1353 From: The Beach Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 16, 2011 09:19 PM
Hmm. With my ex husband I NEVER wanted sex. The thought horrified me. He made my skin crawl.With my Scorpio - WOW. I have libido out the wazoo. I'm happy with having sex 4 or 5 times a week. Sometimes it'll be 2 or 3 times in one night. Sometimes every other day. Sometimes every day for a few days and then off for a couple days. I guess it depends more on energy levels rather than mood. The Scorpio can put me in THE MOOD no matter what my general mood is. I am pretty much game every time he is. I don't think I've said no to him in the four years we've been together. IP: Logged |
Stawr Moderator Posts: 2744 From: N. America Registered: Nov 2010
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posted February 17, 2011 12:19 AM
LoL that's funny what you said about the Ex husband Moonwitch. And I'm glad your in an awesome marriage(right?) now.WELL...I've only had sex with one person. I lost my V card at 19. I was a late bloomer. (lol) Well me being 19 fresh outta highschool, moved in witch a guy. And four days later...well you know...I was ready. When we lived together we did it almost everyday. (unless it was my time of month) I have mercury in Taurus and moon in Scorpio...I think that combo right there...I've read that that Mercury Taurus like to take forever to make up their mind/take their time. And Scorpio moon...I read they don't like change and set in their ways...but once they change, they back it up 100 percent. It took me longer than most to decide if losing my V card was a good idea. Once I was more open to the idea premarital sex...I was at the point where my state of mind was people who do it are not bad, but is it the right choice for me?...If I find the right person...yes. It doesn't have to be "THE ONE". I witnessed to many people get their heart broken and burned thinking the first guy is the one. The guy...ugh...the only guy I've slept with, wasn't bad in bed...but I know that he is not the best either. But yes once I made up my mind with him we did it pretty much everyday. But the more this relationship went on...the more we fought...more than we had sex...longer then we where having sex...So yea the relationship was becoming pointless. I fantasize about one night stands, but I don't feel like I can do it in real life though...I came close to it once...I barely knew the guy...We where pretty into each other. But he didn't have condoms and claimed he is allergic to latex. So that didn't go down. I mean we still did some stuff though. Which p*ssed off my ex best friend cause she was obsessed with him. I let her know that I was lusting him too, and she says "back off hes mine" Well we where hanging out with him...and she ends up ditching me alone with him...so what does she expect!?! Was not worth losing a friend over...but our friendship wasn't working out anyway. And the guy ended up talking to me like I was easy...That irked me. So I quit talking to him. I think that situation really discouraged me about one night stands. Anyway it's been 4 or 5 months since I last had sex. I've completely moved on from my ex. But when we first broke up I would ask my friends and myself should I be a prude or mess around? A majority said mess around its fun...well for the most part I haven't listened to them. There is a new Aries man in my life and he is so different from anyone I've ever dated. A gentlemen!! And he lived most his life in the Philippines. Things are heating up...I wonder where its gonna go...Right now we are just dating...not a commitment...and the most we've done is make-out. lol I'd say we've been on about 4 or 5 dates.
------------------ Hi! I've been a member here for a little while, and I enjoy it. I pretty much come on here when ever I have lotsa down time, sometimes often, and other times its not for a while. Rising: Gemini Sun: Aries Moon: Scorpio Mercury: Taurus Mars: Aqarius Venus: Pisces N. Node: Aquarius Saturn: Capricorn Juno: Scorpio Eros: Pisces True Lilith: Scorpio IP: Logged |
AcousticGod Knowflake Posts: 8615 From: Dublin, CA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 17, 2011 12:46 AM
quote: I am pretty much game every time he is. I don't think I've said no to him in the four years we've been together.
That was how my Aries was. It's nice. IP: Logged |
MoonWitch Moderator Posts: 1353 From: The Beach Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 18, 2011 08:41 PM
quote: Originally posted by Stawr: LoL that's funny what you said about the Ex husband Moonwitch. And I'm glad your in an awesome marriage(right?) now.
Not married..... YET. Hopefully soon.
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Stawr Moderator Posts: 2744 From: N. America Registered: Nov 2010
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posted February 18, 2011 11:18 PM
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EverEvolvingSpirit Knowflake Posts: 954 From: A Place of Pure Love <3 Registered: Feb 2011
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posted February 19, 2011 01:32 PM
quote: Originally posted by PlutoSquared: Alright, ladies (and you guys, too...)What makes or breaks your libido? Do certain things make you desire sex? Exercise, chocolate, good music, wine? Have you ever gone periods of not wanting sex? How often would you prefer to have sex? A couple times a week? Everyday? Is this effected by how you feel? Share.
The closeness and intimacy I already have with my partner makes my libido, when I feel comfortable with him I can be more uninhibited. Good music and intense conversation can make me desire sex *blushes* When I suffer from deep depression which has been a while, the last thing I want to think about is sex, it feels dirty to me when I'm in that mindset. I'd prefer sex daily with maybe one night off This is difficult as I am in a long distance relationship right now, but quality, I feel trumps quantity so we do "make the best of it" LoL ugh . . . I get so pre-teenish when I talk about sex out in the open LoL IP: Logged |
Xodian Knowflake Posts: 778 From: Canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 01, 2011 10:04 AM
So I had the pleasure of watching my girl try out Saris this morning since we are both going to be partaking in Holi with our Indian friends. I swear, when I looked at her in that Sari, the first thought that came to my mind was "No wonder India has such a huge problem with overpopulation. If all their women look THIS gorgeous, I can see why the guys over there would have a hard time keeping their hands off them." I need to buy my girl more Saris . IP: Logged |
Frozen Queen Knowflake Posts: 625 From: 11th Dimension Registered: Dec 2010
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posted March 01, 2011 12:17 PM
Xodian:ROFLMAO 20 times over!! ------------------ Ask Me anything. Anything. I will contrive to bring you the answer. The whole universe will I use to do this. So be on the lookout. This book is far from My only tool. You may ask a question, then put this book down. But watch. Listen. The words to the next song you hear. The information in the next article you read. The story line of the next movie you watch. The chance utterance of the next person you meet. Or the whisper of the next river, the next ocean, the next breeze that caresses your ear—all these devices are Mine; all these avenues are open to Me. I will speak to you if you will listen. I will come to you if you will invite Me. I will show you then that I have always been there. All ways. ♥ IP: Logged |
LEXX Knowflake Posts: 9743 From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 01, 2011 03:30 PM
quote: Originally posted by Xodian: So I had the pleasure of watching my girl try out Saris this morning since we are both going to be partaking in Holi with our Indian friends. I swear, when I looked at her in that Sari, the first thought that came to my mind was "No wonder India has such a huge problem with overpopulation. If all their women look THIS gorgeous, I can see why the guys over their would have a hard time keeping their hands off them." I need to buy my girl more Saris .
Sweeet! ------------------ ~The present time is theirs, but the future is mine.~Nikola Tesla ~There is no box.~H♥ ~Balance is not letting anyone love you less than you love yourself.~Felipe ~I remember, therefore I am immortal~LEXX }><}}}(*>~ IP: Logged |
charmainec Moderator Posts: 8110 From: Venus next to Randall Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 02, 2011 03:36 AM
quote: Originally posted by Frozen Queen: Xodian:ROFLMAO 20 times over!!
Yep, easy on, easy off IP: Logged |
Xodian Knowflake Posts: 778 From: Canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 02, 2011 10:00 AM
Seriously... I don't think there is a man alive out there that can find this NOT sexy Lol! Saris really emphasize and showoff the natural curves of a woman. It flow so smoothly yet it clings on to a woman's body in all the right places. My girl's body frame is slender but curvacious and she might as well have hit me over the head with a bat because as soon as she came out wearing a Sari, I think I was down for the count . IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: May 2013
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posted March 02, 2011 10:02 AM
[Scribbles down: buy saris]IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 39059 From: Saturn next to Charmainec Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 07, 2011 10:26 PM
Sweet!IP: Logged |
LEXX Knowflake Posts: 9743 From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 07, 2011 10:36 PM
quote: Originally posted by Xodian: Seriously... I don't think there is a man alive out there that can find this NOT sexy Lol! Saris really emphasize and showoff the natural curves of a woman. It flow so smoothly yet it clings on to a woman's body in all the right places. My girl's body frame is slender but curvacious and she might as well have hit me over the head with a bat because as soon as she came out wearing a Sari, I think I was down for the count .
I am a woman but find it very sexy on the ladies! Most likely a past life of mine kinda thing.
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TxGirl Knowflake Posts: 257 From: Registered: Feb 2011
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posted March 07, 2011 10:43 PM
What makes or breaks your libido? Not feeling connected to someone wont do it for me, if I feel "close" and emotionally connected nothin can make me not want sex. Do certain things make you desire sex? Exercise, chocolate, good music, wine? Good music, light touches, whispering sweet nothins in my ear, that time of the month, and most any day that isn't that time of the month lol. Have you ever gone periods of not wanting sex? Nope, never. Most maybe was a week, and that is due to flu or a family member being sick and taking care of them. How often would you prefer to have sex? A couple times a week? Everyday? Atleast once a day, though 2 or 3 times a day is best for me. Is this effected by how you feel?
Very much so, I tend to already be moody and very sensitive and emotional, not having the big O only makes my emotions and mood more stressed than I already always am.
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