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PlutoSquared
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posted March 29, 2011 12:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoSquared     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So, is there a relationship between mystery and romance?

For instance, are you less romantically interested in someone when you're doing their laundry? Are you more interested in someone when they're all new and exciting?

Does a little mystery and surprise have nothing really to do with it, at all?

I for one, like things to be exciting. But, that could equate to taking a unexpected lunch in a nice forested area, or going on a drive somewhere through the country.

I'm sure mystery can be expanded on here... from some of you.

Do you like a little mystery and excitement in your relationships? Or, is it not really that big of a deal?

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LEXX
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From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
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posted March 29, 2011 08:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LEXX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by PlutoSquared:
So, is there a relationship between mystery and romance?

For instance, are you less romantically interested in someone when you're doing their laundry? Are you more interested in someone when they're all new and exciting?


I like to get to know a person in an "everyday" environment. It is to me the best way to get to really know each other.

quote:
Originally posted by PlutoSquared:
Does a little mystery and surprise have nothing really to do with it, at all?

I for one, like things to be exciting. But, that could equate to taking a unexpected lunch in a nice forested area, or going on a drive somewhere through the country.


Having fun together, doing little things as you mention;
yes those are lovely and can be exciting.

quote:
Originally posted by PlutoSquared:
I'm sure mystery can be expanded on here... from some of you.

Do you like a little mystery and excitement in your relationships? Or, is it not really that big of a deal?



I am a bit unsure as many folks equate mystery with the unknown and see it as exciting.
I find it unnerving, bordering on secrecy and
frankly I am very uncomfortable with not really knowing the person I am with.
I prefer to know as much as possible before I can let my hair down.
LOL!
But then again I usually dislike surprise parties, unexpected visitors, uninvited wannabe visitors, random phone calls......

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charmainec
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posted April 20, 2012 06:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for charmainec     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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sand
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posted April 20, 2012 12:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't even know myself therefore lovers will always be a mystery to me.

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Venus
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posted April 23, 2012 07:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Venus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i dunno if its my Jupiter in cancer but i love helping men out, i would gladly do laundry or cook for someone even if we're not in a relationship. as long as i feel he needs the help and is NOT using me (pretending to be a friend).. i think stuff like that make me feel needed and to be honest, i love being needed.

I, on the other hand, would keep a lot of things to myself. I am naturally mysterious, i dont share everything, its just who i am probably because of my scorpio placements.

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Ami Anne
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posted April 23, 2012 07:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by sand:
I don't even know myself therefore lovers will always be a mystery to me.


True lol

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Betty Boop
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posted April 24, 2012 07:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Betty Boop     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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are you less romantically interested in someone when you're doing their laundry

I'm the opposite. I feel *more* interested at that stage ^.
In the beginning stages I'm just coldly analysing things.. and treading cautiously.

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Betty Boop
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posted April 24, 2012 07:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Betty Boop     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I like to get to know a person in an "everyday" environment. It is to me the best way to get to really know each other.

I really like that to!

And like Venus.. I enjoy doing things for the people I love.

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jesstar
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posted April 24, 2012 10:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for jesstar     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i love the mystery

i love the story unfolding

i love to love

its happening to me again

and i am mind blown

yes its the mystery

from beginning to the end

love amazes me

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jesstar
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posted April 24, 2012 10:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for jesstar     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
as alice says "curiouser and curiouser"

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