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posted December 22, 2011 01:55 PM            

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I spoke too soon. see below.

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posted December 22, 2011 05:09 PM            

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posted December 22, 2011 05:20 PM            

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I'm really sorry that you're going through that. I wish that I knew what to say to make this better for you or cheer you up, but honestly, I don't.

I hope that things get better for you and that you're able to hold onto hope while you get through this.

Please take care and treat yourself well.

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posted December 22, 2011 07:42 PM            

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I seconded what RegardesPlatero said. :/

[Edit] Glad everything's cool.

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posted December 22, 2011 08:37 PM            

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teasel
Sorry today I am not doing well.
But you are in my thoughts and I wish for things to improve for you dear heart.{{{hugs}}}
I wish I could help tangibly.
If I had the money I would.
Sorry.

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posted December 22, 2011 10:00 PM            

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*edited

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posted December 22, 2011 10:05 PM            

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((Teasel))

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posted December 23, 2011 12:40 PM            

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I hate seeing this, especially around Christmas.

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posted December 26, 2011 03:02 AM            

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Please delete this, Randall? I'll delete the main post, but I was so devastated that I just didn't care anymore, and didn't think. for now, things are fine. it all turned around.

we have a few sore spots between us, and this was a big one. we both have work to do, but she's generally one of the best people I know, and I don't want anyone thinking ill of her, but you can think what you like of me.

thank you.

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posted December 26, 2011 07:08 AM            

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^^ Teasel, I wish you emotional stability. Don't feel you have to delete anything. It is not a reflection on you or your sister. Families and their internal dynamics can be too complicated for people outside. It was scary to read and personally I was sad for you and judged nobody. It's admirable that you wrote here asking for an outlet and emotional support. I wouldn't delete it for this reason. It teaches other people here to seek help when they feel like it.
I wish you the best and mostly emotional healthy and stability and the courage to remove yourself from an unstable environment.

hugs,
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posted December 26, 2011 08:26 AM            

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{{{hugs}}}

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posted December 26, 2011 01:17 PM            

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Glad things are better now. Hope you had a good Christmas.

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posted December 26, 2011 01:56 PM            

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I don't like deleting strings. What if I changed the title for you?

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posted December 26, 2011 02:29 PM            

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@ Teasel I'm glad that things are working out better for you.

And honestly, it's OK to be emotional and reach out to people sometimes. Everyone has their moments when they just need to vent and talk about things and get things out of their system. It doesn't make you a bad person. Talking about things can help a lot, and putting words out there where others can see or hear them can help you get some new perspectives and insight.

Take care and I hope that you enjoy the rest of this holiday week :-)

Best wishes for happiness in 2012!

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posted December 26, 2011 03:02 PM            

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posted December 27, 2011 01:22 AM            

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teasel, i understand wanting things erased from the sands of time.

i edited out my reply above & am really glad to hear things worked out with the two of you.

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posted December 27, 2011 10:06 AM            

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Let me know if you want me to edit the title.

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posted December 27, 2011 05:10 PM            

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Teasel, I'm exactly where you are. I'm glad that you've made up with your sister. It's difficult to lose a sibling.

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posted December 27, 2011 11:12 PM            

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meant to say thank you for what you said
in another thread. Same here.

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