posted January 14, 2012 03:17 PM            

Anyway, our phone conversations have gone from initially being all business (he's asked me to help him with a business matter, that's how we met) to just about everything under the sun, including a lot of talk about sexuality and male/female transactions.

So today, we're talking, and somehow the conversation gets into how he has noticed many women glancing at his "package" when he meets them, and also doing this to other men. My response was "really?" I mean, I don't know if it's my Venus in Libra, but I wouldn't dream of doing that and, more importantly, wouldn't even want to. When I meet a man who strikes my fancy, I might steal some furtive glances, maybe at his derriere, definitely at his arms, but mostly at his face. My eyes would never make their way down THERE. But that's me. He told me, in so many words, that I was a bit naive, and that in his experience, 9 out of 10 women do this.

So what better place to do a survey but here in LL, where people are so open and honest?

posted January 14, 2012 03:25 PM            

Not at all.

As with a typical man, that's his segue into you talking about his Johnson and his interest in showing you his Johnson.

Not to be rude, but that's a sign of vanity and insecurity. In all likelihood, his Johnson is like every other Johnson, and nothing out of the ordinary. For a man in his 60s, shame on him.

I'm a man and I notice everything a woman notices about me. Its almost never down there.

Its almost always about disposition, manners, general classiness, dress code and, most importantly, what is up top... and almost never what is down below.

posted January 14, 2012 03:53 PM            

I also have to say that even if women are looking at this dude's crotch, it seems like a potential douchebag alert if he's bragging about it. I agree with YoursTrulyAlways' take:

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posted January 15, 2012 06:14 AM            

That said, the particular man in his 60s is just trying to make you interested in his package. No more or less. I would keep it in business-talk, if I were you.

posted January 15, 2012 08:51 AM            

Amowls, you make the same point I made.

Lexx, I know, right? Ick.

Anongirl and Malena, thanks for the honesty, and you surprised me by proving him at least partially right.

And you're all right, he was looking for a reason to talk about his Johnson, which he did, going back to the comments of the nurses at the pediatrician's office when he was a newborn. It seems funnier now that I'm re-hashing the conversation in my mind, lol.

He's been telling me for days how women of all ages fall all over him (not that I'm bragging, he says) and he's puzzled by it. Lordy!!! That' s a huge turn off for me. But at least he's being honest with who he is, and that's very valuable to me, because it lets me see from the get go with open eyes, so I don't make another mistake.

posted January 15, 2012 12:23 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
I was just having a similar discussion on Friday with a colleague, and ironically a woman. The same goes for me with women. I don't dig unclassiness, especially artificially enhanced mammaries, overtly artificial hair color, and overtly suggestive clothing, etc. I'll keep my pants extra zipped up and leave the room quickly to avoid such women. Mini skirts, fishnet stockings, boobs hanging out, etc. SUCH A HUGE TURN OFF!!! My conversing counterpart of course thinks I'm devoid of testosterone and I'm weird.

Of course, I'm a Capricorn, so classiness is my mantra.

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posted January 15, 2012 08:25 PM            

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Originally posted by crabbypatty:
I've been talking to a man who the Universe threw in my lap in a very unusual manner a few weeks ago. We live in different states, him in Virginia, me further north. I mention this b/c who knows, maybe the geographical difference features into it somehow, although I doubt it. Oh, he is 20 years older than me, and I'm in my early 40's.

Anyway, our phone conversations have gone from initially being all business (he's asked me to help him with a business matter, that's how we met) to just about everything under the sun, including a lot of talk about sexuality and male/female transactions.

So today, we're talking, and somehow the conversation gets into how he has noticed many women glancing at his "package" when he meets them, and also doing this to other men. My response was "really?" I mean, I don't know if it's my Venus in Libra, but I wouldn't dream of doing that and, more importantly, wouldn't even want to. When I meet a man who strikes my fancy, I might steal some furtive glances, maybe at his derriere, definitely at his arms, but mostly at his face. My eyes would never make their way down THERE. But that's me. He told me, in so many words, that I was a bit naive, and that in his experience, 9 out of 10 women do this.

So what better place to do a survey but here in LL, where people are so open and honest?

I am waiting for responses with baited breath! Men, feel free to weigh in if you've seen many women doing this.

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posted January 16, 2012 03:24 AM            

yea i'd never glance over there unless by mistake (that could be embarrassing)

maybe this guy wears alot of spedos? i mean if someone is wearing a spedo, even if he's in is 80s your eyes are gonna wonder iz just normal hehe

posted January 20, 2012 02:14 PM            

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Originally posted by SensibleHeart:
I try to avoid the package at all times. the only packages i track are from ups.

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posted January 20, 2012 02:18 PM            

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Originally posted by crabbypatty:
well, an update on the sitch:

Thank you, Angels, for showing me his psychosis. I now have confirmation to trust my intuition about people and back away when the thought occurs to me. This one is a powderkeg.

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posted February 01, 2012 07:02 PM            

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Men’s interest in women’s bodies is well known, but the next visual cue may come as a surprise. Men are more interested in penises than women are. An eye-tracking study found that, when viewing nonerotic images, men consistently direct their gaze to the male crotch, through women rarely do. In porn, the penis is always under the spotlight. On the adult website Fantasti.cc, the predominantly male users rate more than 1 million images and videos. Out of the 100 top-rated images, 21 feature close-up shots of a penis. And on all of the major adult video sites, “Big Dick” is a popular porn category.

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