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Topic: Your Neigbour As A Sex Buddy
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DepTaurus Knowflake Posts: 1643 From: canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 24, 2012 04:34 PM
let`s just hypothetically say you had a neighbour who was really good looking. He/she notices you and they live right beside you ffs.would you or would you not suggest a **** buddy scenario? and or if they approached you what would your feelings on the matter be like? would you in your head jump up and down in sheer giddy joy? or would you find this proposition disgusting and slap them as you walk away back to your side of the fence. IP: Logged |
PixieJane Knowflake Posts: 305 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted March 25, 2012 02:36 AM
I was a lot more open to casual encounters when I was younger, but I doubt I'd have been open to a next door neighbor even back then because things could get awkward/awkweird and even bad when sex is thrown into the mix. If things get messed up, and they easily can, it would be real hard to avoid each other, so even when I was younger and more adventurous I don't think I'd have ever considered it. And btw, I'm not a very visual person. Looks help me find someone attractive, but it's not enough. Someone could look totally fine to me but I'd have as much sexual attraction to them as I would a fine sculpted statue unless they had something else going for them. Likewise, I've been drawn to plain looking people before. If the neighbor propositioned me? That would depend on how well we knew each other and got along, and also on how respectful the neighbor was in asking. If asked in a mature, respectful manner, I'd politely say no (and why). If not so mature, then I'd very firmly say no and might emphasize my refusal if pressed or harassed again, and probably avoid the said neighbor for awhile. If I felt menaced in any way (including in my refusal causing anger & bitterness) then things could get very interesting, and much more than a slap would be possible. IP: Logged |
MataMoros Knowflake Posts: 146 From: Mexico Registered: Mar 2012
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posted March 25, 2012 11:05 AM
If this situation is even available for you then you are probably not too morally concerned in the first place. I guess you do whatever you want. I have never been put in that position. If you have no obligations to anyone why not? You only live 1.9 billion times.IP: Logged |
mintgirl123 Knowflake Posts: 2265 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted March 26, 2012 10:08 AM
Might have complications in the future, and it'd be very awkward. I'd say stick to sex buddies with people that live away from you lol.IP: Logged |
jesstar Knowflake Posts: 251 From: santa fe new mexico Registered: Nov 2011
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posted March 30, 2012 10:28 AM
"The Boys in the Hood are Always Hard" quoting too short because hey its friday and ya i just might hit up a neighbor (or two) go jess go go go jess ------------------ "We'll go because it's Thursday,"he said,"and we'll go to wish everybody a Very Happy Thursday.Come on,Piglet" A. A. Milne IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero Moderator Posts: 2129 From: Storybrooke, Mr. Gold's Shop Registered: Sep 2011
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posted March 30, 2012 10:49 AM
I personally don't believe in that myself. IP: Logged |
hippichick Moderator Posts: 1289 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted March 30, 2012 11:19 AM
No,, heavens, no!I dated a guy in my neighborhood and he turned into a psyco freak and I, after 9 years, am still too available to him, being just a few blocks down. no!!! IP: Logged |
Voix_de_la_Mer Knowflake Posts: 660 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted March 31, 2012 05:24 AM
FWB - someone eventually gets emotionally involved, and if not, it can be an obstruction or evasion in the psychology of those involved to truly engage in actual intimacy with another.If it's your neighbour, it would be very hard to avoid them when it goes **** up, and I'd surmise that it would eventually. IP: Logged |