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DepTaurus
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posted March 24, 2012 04:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DepTaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
let`s just hypothetically say you had a neighbour who was really good looking. He/she notices you and they live right beside you ffs.

would you or would you not suggest a **** buddy scenario?

and or if they approached you what would your feelings on the matter be like? would you in your head jump up and down in sheer giddy joy? or would you find this proposition disgusting and slap them as you walk away back to your side of the fence.

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PixieJane
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posted March 25, 2012 02:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I was a lot more open to casual encounters when I was younger, but I doubt I'd have been open to a next door neighbor even back then because things could get awkward/awkweird and even bad when sex is thrown into the mix. If things get messed up, and they easily can, it would be real hard to avoid each other, so even when I was younger and more adventurous I don't think I'd have ever considered it.

And btw, I'm not a very visual person. Looks help me find someone attractive, but it's not enough. Someone could look totally fine to me but I'd have as much sexual attraction to them as I would a fine sculpted statue unless they had something else going for them. Likewise, I've been drawn to plain looking people before.

If the neighbor propositioned me? That would depend on how well we knew each other and got along, and also on how respectful the neighbor was in asking. If asked in a mature, respectful manner, I'd politely say no (and why). If not so mature, then I'd very firmly say no and might emphasize my refusal if pressed or harassed again, and probably avoid the said neighbor for awhile. If I felt menaced in any way (including in my refusal causing anger & bitterness) then things could get very interesting, and much more than a slap would be possible.

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MataMoros
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posted March 25, 2012 11:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MataMoros     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If this situation is even available for you then you are probably not too morally concerned in the first place. I guess you do whatever you want. I have never been put in that position. If you have no obligations to anyone why not? You only live 1.9 billion times.

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mintgirl123
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posted March 26, 2012 10:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mintgirl123     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Might have complications in the future, and it'd be very awkward. I'd say stick to sex buddies with people that live away from you lol.

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jesstar
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posted March 30, 2012 10:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for jesstar     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
"The Boys in the Hood are Always Hard" quoting too short because hey its friday and ya i just might hit up a neighbor (or two) go jess go go go jess

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RegardesPlatero
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posted March 30, 2012 10:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RegardesPlatero     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I personally don't believe in that myself.

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hippichick
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posted March 30, 2012 11:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No,, heavens, no!

I dated a guy in my neighborhood and he turned into a psyco freak and I, after 9 years, am still too available to him, being just a few blocks down.

no!!!

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Voix_de_la_Mer
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posted March 31, 2012 05:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Voix_de_la_Mer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
FWB - someone eventually gets emotionally involved, and if not, it can be an obstruction or evasion in the psychology of those involved to truly engage in actual intimacy with another.

If it's your neighbour, it would be very hard to avoid them when it goes **** up, and I'd surmise that it would eventually.

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