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From: columbia, sc, usa
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posted April 20, 2012 01:07 PM            

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i know that the traditional way is for men to approach women for dating, maybe more...but what's your view of women who approach men??! men: is it a turn-off? women: would you or have you ever done it? this should be interesting.....

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posted April 20, 2012 07:06 PM            

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There are some men in this world who are both incredibly good looking and incredibly shy. And if my confidence outnumbers theirs by a million why not, they were surprised & turned on by my forwardness. That was a surprise to me. I like being approached by attractive bold people as well. I will say tho, the older men haven't been like that, only the younger ones. The marlboro men are a dying breed it seems.

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posted April 20, 2012 07:42 PM            

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I panic a little lol yeah I am soo not cool but more turned on than off.

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posted April 20, 2012 08:10 PM            

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Nah, I'd never do it. I just prefer to be approached, if a man is forward that is part of the appeal for me. But, if I am attracted to someone I give the signals, smile, just seem more approachable. If the guy is interested he will make the move. I find that even shy guys will approach if they are getting "come hither" signals and you seem like a nice person.

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From: Storybrooke, Mr. Gold's Shop
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posted April 20, 2012 09:34 PM            

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posted April 20, 2012 10:02 PM            

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Originally posted by downtomars:
I find that even shy guys will approach if they are getting "come hither" signals

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Yea that's one thing about me, too impatient for the flirty gestures most of the time.
I like straightforward people.

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posted April 21, 2012 07:49 AM            

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I actively pursued my (now) husband, especially at first.
Dude has Venus and Mars conj in the 12th - if I hadn't, things may never have gotten off the ground.
They are both in Aries, though - with time, he reciprocated (and is now definitely the assertive one in the relationship).

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posted April 21, 2012 09:56 AM            

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I don't typically approach guys (except maybe when I briefly tried online dating. Who cares if you get rejected, it feels less personal over the internet, you know?), but I will make my interest known by way of a huge, come-hither smile.

Really beautiful women like I'm sure you are mskimx4 often have no choice but to approach men because men won't approach them, they find them too intimidating.

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