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Topic: Men.... I need your opinion! (about sex)
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aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
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posted May 02, 2012 10:52 PM
  
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Lioness
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posted May 02, 2012 10:54 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
I see
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! IP: Logged |
Linda Jones
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posted May 03, 2012 01:53 AM
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Originally posted by Aquaguy:
I see
 OMG! That response (after Lioness's unraveling of her feelings) is funny on so many levels! Aquaguy, I'm adding you to my list of all the funny people on LL. BTW, Aquaguy, your response makes sense, but the thing is we also have to take into consideration, the personalities involved in the situation. And that is a reality which cannot be avoided. You and I and 70,000 members of LL might make a different decision, but in the end Lioness has to be able to understand enough for herself so she can be at peace with the decision she ultimately makes. So from that POV, I don't think I can tell her what to do (and what I would do in the same situation is immaterial). I can only, to the best of my ability, inform her of what she may be possibly facing, so that she can make a fully informed decision. And offer support. But I understand the points you've made. And I believe in making those points, you're actually looking out for Lioness. So what you've said also needs to be heard.  IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
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posted May 03, 2012 07:12 PM
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Originally posted by Linda Jones:
OMG! That response (after Lioness's unraveling of her feelings) is funny on so many levels! Aquaguy, I'm adding you to my list of all the funny people on LL.
BTW, Aquaguy, your response makes sense, but the thing is we also have to take into consideration, the personalities involved in the situation. And that is a reality which cannot be avoided. You and I and 70,000 members of LL might make a different decision, but in the end Lioness has to be able to understand enough for herself so she can be at peace with the decision she ultimately makes.
So from that POV, I don't think I can tell her what to do (and what I would do in the same situation is immaterial). I can only, to the best of my ability, inform her of what she may be possibly facing, so that she can make a fully informed decision. And offer support.
But I understand the points you've made. And I believe in making those points, you're actually looking out for Lioness. So what you've said also needs to be heard.
Lol looking back that did seem kind of cold,what i meant by that was after reading what she said i see or understand why she feels that way,lol i was just being tired and lazy.IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted May 03, 2012 07:25 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Linda Jones:
[b] OMG! That response (after Lioness's unraveling of her feelings) is funny on so many levels! Aquaguy, I'm adding you to my list of all the funny people on LL.
BTW, Aquaguy, your response makes sense, but the thing is we also have to take into consideration, the personalities involved in the situation. And that is a reality which cannot be avoided. You and I and 70,000 members of LL might make a different decision, but in the end Lioness has to be able to understand enough for herself so she can be at peace with the decision she ultimately makes.
So from that POV, I don't think I can tell her what to do (and what I would do in the same situation is immaterial). I can only, to the best of my ability, inform her of what she may be possibly facing, so that she can make a fully informed decision. And offer support.
But I understand the points you've made. And I believe in making those points, you're actually looking out for Lioness. So what you've said also needs to be heard.
Lol looking back that did seem kind of cold,what i meant by that was after reading what she said i see or understand why she feels that way,lol i was just being tired and lazy.[/B][/QUOTE]No worries.. Im not offended
I do appreciate you putting in the time to answer... The reason why I thought it was so funny and also probably why Linda thought it was funny (assuming)
Because it was what us women folk consider as a typical "male" answer.
i dont mean that in a bad way... Just sometimes "we" women folk, poor our hearts out, go deep into thought, and put in a lot of effort to say our feelings (which isnt easy, not even for women) then we get that OOOOoooooooo.. OK type of response..
We take it )or at least I do) as I dont really want to hear your feelings.. your being to emotional. Chill out woman!!
LOL...
Which is why it was funny on so many levels
But not to worry its all good 
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aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted May 03, 2012 07:43 PM
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Originally posted by Lioness:
No worries.. Im not offended
I do appreciate you putting in the time to answer... The reason why I thought it was so funny and also probably why Linda thought it was funny (assuming)
Because it was what us women folk consider as a typical "male" answer.
i dont mean that in a bad way... Just sometimes "we" women folk, poor our hearts out, go deep into thought, and put in a lot of effort to say our feelings (which isnt easy, not even for women) then we get that OOOOoooooooo.. OK type of response..
We take it )or at least I do) as I dont really want to hear your feelings.. your being to emotional. Chill out woman!!
LOL...
Which is why it was funny on so many levels
But not to worry its all good
we men feel so deeply we can't even find a means to express it, so we give "the blank stare".IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted May 03, 2012 07:44 PM
Ok Linda.. Im much better today Here's what bothers me the most, what I cant get a grip on, and what frustrates me to no end....
Its actually simple..
I "feel" like I need him.. That he HAS to be apart of my life in any way... Doesnt matter as long as he is a part of my life..
Now I dont "need" anyone.. Ive done everything for my self.. I have been on my own since I was 19.. Why do I need this one person.. It doesnt make sense to me.. Then whats the point,cuz one day he will get tired of me and leave anyways.. So why should I let this go on?? Why do I even try or why cant I walk away... I want to walk away so badly.. My gut reaction is to walk..
How could I be so stupid to let him get so close to me?
My legs are over the fence, yet he has this rope tied to my waist, and he pulls the rope, and says get the f... back your not going any where!!
So why wont he just let me jump, why is he holding on to me?? So he can be the one to walk when the time suites him?? SO he can rip my heart out??? These feelings torment me everyday.... I dont know how to handle this...
If I could just get away, it would be all better (yeah I know im kidding my self here)
Thats how I feel... I dont want to need anyone...
Plus I dont think fate/destiny will allow it..
Im not meant to be with anyone long term...
I was married 13 years.. I didnt like it.. lol
But I was ok with it,because I KNEW he would never leave me... Fate stepped in anyways and took him away.....
Either way.. Im just not meant to be in these long term relationships....
Its not in the cards for me. So thats, that in a nutshell... IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted May 03, 2012 07:46 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Lioness:
[b] No worries.. Im not offended
I do appreciate you putting in the time to answer... The reason why I thought it was so funny and also probably why Linda thought it was funny (assuming)
Because it was what us women folk consider as a typical "male" answer.
i dont mean that in a bad way... Just sometimes "we" women folk, poor our hearts out, go deep into thought, and put in a lot of effort to say our feelings (which isnt easy, not even for women) then we get that OOOOoooooooo.. OK type of response..
We take it )or at least I do) as I dont really want to hear your feelings.. your being to emotional. Chill out woman!!
LOL...
Which is why it was funny on so many levels
But not to worry its all good
we men feel so deeply we can't even find a means to express it, so we give "the blank stare".[/B][/QUOTE] Ahhh... That makes it better
Cuz I have always taken that stare as
WTF is wrong with you lady!!
Your crazy! IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted May 03, 2012 07:59 PM
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Originally posted by Lioness:
Ahhh... That makes it better
Cuz I have always taken that stare as
WTF is wrong with you lady!!
Your crazy!
haha it could also mean that too, we men are so complicated and sensitive.
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Linda Jones
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posted May 03, 2012 11:59 PM
Aquaguy,"we men are so complicated and sensitive." My intuitive sense is that you're both-an overall good guy. Feel free to chime in during our convo here. I think the male perspective will be valued by both Lioness and I. IP: Logged |
Linda Jones
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posted May 04, 2012 12:02 AM
Lioness,I'm so glad you're feeling much better. Would you mind if I got back to you either tomorrow or the day after at the latest? I've just got to complete something I need to finish first. And I don't want to reply to you in a hurry. Thanks for understanding. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted May 04, 2012 01:39 AM
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Originally posted by Linda Jones:
Aquaguy,"we men are so complicated and sensitive." My intuitive sense is that you're both-an overall good guy. Feel free to chime in during our convo here. I think the male perspective will be valued by both Lioness and I.
I'm here to tell ya honey that I'm bad to the bone! XD
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Betty Boop
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From: Betty Boop Land
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posted May 04, 2012 01:55 AM
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Lioness
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posted May 04, 2012 02:17 PM
No worries... Take ur timeIP: Logged |
Linda Jones
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posted May 05, 2012 10:09 PM
@ Aquaguy,"I'm here to tell ya honey that I'm bad to the bone! XD" Yeah, not buyin' it. Not challenging **hastily adds**, just not buyin' IP: Logged |
Linda Jones
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posted May 05, 2012 10:27 PM
@ Betty Boop,"we women.... we men... gah... Then - Why is it that I'm a woman - and - I relate more to aqua guy's responses? I still think it's astrology, not gender."
The terms "we women" and "we men" are generalizations. So not 100% of men or women are going to fit a particular generalization.
And astrology is also about gender-yin and yang-masculine and feminine. Just as all men have a little bit of estrogen, and women have some testosterone, so all charts have a mixture of (to a greater or lesser degree) yin/yang. That Lioness does not have planets in earth does not mean she has no earth energy in her chart at all. I think the paucity of earth planets in a chart can be balanced (again to whatever degree), by aspects with Saturn (which she does have-altho I don't know how many). Additionally, she could also have her angles-Asc./Desc, IC/MC in earth houses which would also contribute to influence her in an earthy way. Also, what is "practical" for one person may not be so for another. I think it is more important to focus on what is realistically doable for someone in a particular set of circumstances. In other words, I think it is important to understand what is more "natural" for us rather than focus on what someone else thinks is practical. Hope this makes sense IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted May 05, 2012 10:45 PM
Betty, linda, aquaguy..
I agree with aqua guy also.. This would be my "normal " response to let this go...
That's what confuses me, cuz I can't.. This one person has this huge effect..
If this would have been anyone else.. I would have long disappeared....Linda I do have the earth void.. I make up for it with 4 planets in house 6.... I'm very virgo like...
Yes I do have saturn placements also.
saturn sextile my sun, moon, mercury.
My angles are miserable mutable
Asc -pisces dsc - virgo
Ic- gem mc-sag
My NN in cap though... Lol... IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted May 05, 2012 10:51 PM
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Originally posted by Linda Jones:
@ Aquaguy,"I'm here to tell ya honey that I'm bad to the bone! XD" Yeah, not buyin' it. Not challenging **hastily adds**, just not buyin'
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OlwRNCnsbUg hahaha think again,heres my theme song.IP: Logged |
Linda Jones
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posted May 05, 2012 11:43 PM
^^ Aquaguy, you're just a bad boy wannabe lolIP: Logged |
Linda Jones
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posted May 05, 2012 11:46 PM
Lioness,4 planets (which ones?) in 6H and Saturn aspecting 3 of your inner planets is quite a bit of earth energy. LOL I find it ironic that your NN is in Cap (which hse?) IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted May 05, 2012 11:53 PM
Sun, moon, mercury, mars in h6
NN in h11..
Oo yeah the universe really messed with all my leo.planets...
I also.have saturn conjunct the ic, square asc,dsc..I guess that's how I reach my nn... Pluto and uranus in h7 with jupiter, venus, pluto t square is.what messes me up. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
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posted May 06, 2012 12:00 AM
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Originally posted by Linda Jones:
^^ Aquaguy, you're just a bad boy wannabe lol
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Linda Jones
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posted May 06, 2012 12:02 AM
Lioness, you'd mentioned earlier about how Fishy is the 1st person (?) in your life that you can trust. Let me ask you this-do you have any sort of emotionalsupport system other than Fishy, in the form of extended family (not necessarily blood relatives)? I mean anyone that you feel "gets you" and gets the way you think, so that you could rely on them for support and advice when you need it?IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted May 06, 2012 12:20 AM
No.. Not really.....
The only female I confide in is another pisces... But I pick and choose what I tell her...
No one has been there for me...
I don't really have family..haven't seen my mom in 10! Years.. I'm an only child...
I'm actually a loner... I can't be around a lot of people.. It bothers me... IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted May 06, 2012 12:20 AM
Ironically, my ex husband just called me, asking if we can get back together...
Sighhhhhhh.....
That's another set of issues..but I feel done with him.. I don't think I could ever go back. IP: Logged |
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