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Topic: Angry sex.
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lulubunny
Knowflake Posts: 62
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Registered: Jan 2012
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posted June 12, 2012 01:48 PM
  
Well me and my boyfriend were in the middle of a HUGE fight and I was just getting ready to bite his head off (joke..) when he had me up against the wall. I couldn't move and I thought he was gunna hit me for a second and my heart started beating like crazy and had a bit of an adrenaline rush.. I was very shocked because he has never done anything like this before with such force. But then he started kissing my face off and practically ripped all my clothes off and was rubbing hard up me against the wall.. And you get the pic..... So after we had pretty wild sex I was still burning with fury. I don't know why I let him do it. I don't know why HE did it. I feel like now he has done it once he can do it again and thing that will sort of arguments and problems out. What do you think ? Why would he want to have sex with me in the middle of a very intense argument? IP: Logged |
ail221
Knowflake Posts: 349
From: Mary Margaret Blanchard's home
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted June 12, 2012 02:09 PM
First was it consensual. Secondly Well did you enjoy it? LOL.
Angry Sex...the great debate whether it's helpful for a relationship or not. In a sense angry sex engages the pleasure center of the brain releasing endorphins and raising adrenaline. It doesn't necessarily involve talking which is probably a good thing if you just had nasty argument well unless you in to that verbal banter during the horizontal tango. Well vertical in your case. The same way someone may break something to relive stress or anger, or go for a long jog, paint a picture angry sex can be good exercise to replace the strained emotional connection of the argument with a strong physical connection. Really it depends on your how you felt about the experience and whether or not you were comfortable with it. If you weren't then maybe you should talk to your partner directly.IP: Logged |
lulubunny
Knowflake Posts: 62
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Registered: Jan 2012
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posted June 12, 2012 02:22 PM
Yes it was consensual and I definitely enjoyed it but it felt very strange because he has never done something like that before. We usually just stop talking for the next few hours after an argument but this time we just talked for a bit.. It was a bit awkward at first because I think he still hadn't overcame how impulsive he had just been. But we talked through the problem.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 12, 2012 02:53 PM
I think it is cool. Love and hate is very close. Passion is in both. Indifference is where you just don't care. The last thing you want is sex.------------------
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PixieJane
Knowflake Posts: 546
From: CA
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted June 12, 2012 05:23 PM
I wonder if he was trying to establish dominance? Sounds different from make up sex. But anyway, here was a really popular video & song:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uelHwf8o7_U IP: Logged |
ail221
Knowflake Posts: 349
From: Mary Margaret Blanchard's home
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted June 12, 2012 05:55 PM
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Originally posted by PixieJane:
I wonder if he was trying to establish dominance? Sounds different from make up sex. But anyway, here was a really popular video & song:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uelHwf8o7_U
That's a possibly as well he could have been trying to establish domiance sexually. Who is the more dominant one in the relationship? IP: Logged |
Sashar
Knowflake Posts: 323
From: Alternate timeline future
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted June 13, 2012 09:39 AM
Anger and Sex are both ruled by Mars, one doesn't cut out automatically when the other is activated... we're simply socially trained to do so.You see it on tv a lot, the couples that argue the most are the ones that end up together. A slap in the face is responded with a passionate kiss. That's SEX. No love there, sex in it's most unadulterated form. If you enjoyed it, don't think too hard about it, you might spoil it's memory by finding motives you don't care for (real or imagined, it doesn't matter). And if this was unusual for you two, if the tactic is tried again, don't expect the same physical response as before. Unless it comes directly from Mars with nothing else in the way it won't be the same. It has to be a "here and now" thing... not something that is remembered and tried again. ------------------
Astrology Activism: The constant strive to not just learn the intricate details of Astrology but the desire to constantly find new ways to prove that it exists in a scientific manner.
Failure to incorporate the later into your work is akin to learning how to cure cancer but not sharing it with anyone. IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka
Knowflake Posts: 1493
From: Toronto
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted June 13, 2012 01:39 PM
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Originally posted by lulubunny:
Well me and my boyfriend were in the middle of a HUGE fight and I was just getting ready to bite his head off (joke..) when he had me up against the wall. I couldn't move and I thought he was gunna hit me for a second and my heart started beating like crazy and had a bit of an adrenaline rush.. I was very shocked because he has never done anything like this before with such force. But then he started kissing my face off and practically ripped all my clothes off and was rubbing hard up me against the wall.. And you get the pic..... So after we had pretty wild sex I was still burning with fury. I don't know why I let him do it. I don't know why HE did it. I feel like now he has done it once he can do it again and thing that will sort of arguments and problems out. What do you think ? Why would he want to have sex with me in the middle of a very intense argument?
Wow. That is so hot.
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hippichick
Moderator Posts: 1527
From:
Registered: May 2009
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posted June 14, 2012 12:08 PM
I think it is cool.. and I am the elder here  and never into sex that much...cept for a partner turning me on, terribly.Each partner just needs to know where to draw the lines... It is all about release. Got into a bit of an argument the other day about sex with a lady friend of mine across the pond, re: anal sex. Her "healers" were telling her it should be loving, caring, etc..and anal sex should never be a question....too bad most men, and again I say I am an elder...MOST men will go there, if just in inquiry once...
naaaaa! doesnt HAVE to be, that would get real boring real fast.
Mars in Aqua here. Aquacheeka...LOL that was hot!!! It sure was! IP: Logged |
Hera
Moderator Posts: 2261
From: the OR
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 15, 2012 02:48 AM
It IS hot!  Aries Mars in the 3rd. IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
Moderator Posts: 3269
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Registered: Jul 2011
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posted June 15, 2012 06:33 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Hera:
It IS hot!
Thought so, too, and it surprised me.
mars in Sag conjunct ASC and sextile Pluto, Venus square Pluto. IP: Logged |
beloved
Newflake Posts: 17
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Registered: Jun 2012
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posted June 15, 2012 10:16 PM
Personally I think it sounds pretty hot myself (mars in the 7th lol) but I also understand how you're thinking (virgo sun.) But personally, I love a man who can rise to the occasion and dominate although I've yet to have that in a relationship!  IP: Logged |
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