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Topic: How should i act towards this person?
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bellaxo Newflake Posts: 12 From: Registered: Jul 2012
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posted July 13, 2012 02:23 PM
she has apparently no real friends,walks over bodies, has no merit of her own - she is a slacker, obvioulsy no life,people generally avoid her and pay her no attention, a spineless, pitiful, snooping,intrusive, pathetic, irrelevant and utterly unimportant figure with no character from the PAST desperatly seeking attention and being a ignorant gossipy ***** who'll believe just about anything she reads. But I guess that is what happens when you haven no mind of your own after being brainwashed by charlatan "guru" you can be sold anything - your mind, psyche and credibility is forever damaged and your opinions are worthless and matter diddly squat even if u try to discredit others. One only hopes never to come across a sick and disgusting person like this.No doubt she will rot in her jelousy, envy,ignorance, spiritual pretense and sexual frustration 10 times fold as the years pass and she deserves it ofcourse as does her kin - cheap dirty trash.IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 21664 From: Saturn next to Charmainec Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 13, 2012 03:23 PM
Welcome!------------------ "Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged |
Junethird Moderator Posts: 2910 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted July 13, 2012 03:30 PM
Awe shucks Kill her with kindness. Be polite. But stand your ground. Don't engage unless it's work related and keep your arguments on point. Don't ever go to her level and start using personal attacks that have nothing to do with the job at hand lol that's what ignorant/rude people use when they want to get heir way. They try to bully you and go low brow lol. Oldest trick in the book. Continue to keep your head up high and do your job as bet to yor abilities. Stay extra hours. Help out extra if u can. And just keep moving forward.
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bellaxo Newflake Posts: 12 From: Registered: Jul 2012
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posted July 13, 2012 04:22 PM
thanx @ Randall for the welcome, like your signature IP: Logged |
Junethird Moderator Posts: 2910 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted July 13, 2012 04:34 PM
I know it's hard. Just smile and say thank you for your kind words an actions towards me. I appreciate you guys creating a wonderful work environment. It's so inviting. Always looking forward to coming to work. There's really not much else. If it crosses any serious lines it's time I file a complaint with Human resources and bring solid proof of unwarranted Attacks. Other than that. Just keep on truckin' IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero Moderator Posts: 4085 From: Storybrooke, Mr. Gold's Shop Registered: Sep 2011
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posted July 15, 2012 12:26 PM
My honest opinion is that she is jealous and resentful and just a hateful person. At any rate, I'd just avoid her if you could. You don't deserve that kind of disrespect. Just be nice to her and make sure not to badmouth her even in private. If you come off as the nice guy, it's to your advantage. No matter how bad of a person she is, just don't show any signs of retaliation or reciprocation. Don't be fake-nice, either. Just show everyone else that it's her, not you, who has a problem. IP: Logged |
Junethird Moderator Posts: 2910 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted July 15, 2012 04:06 PM
Fake it till you make it baby. Forcing yourself to be kind to someone who is clearly disrespecting you is the hardest thing in the world. But the next day you will appreciate yourself so much more by not taking it low brow... Whatever you need to do in order to not let retaliation rear its ugly head, do it. If at any point, you are comfronted, you should stand your ground and clearly list the unfair attacks in a calm manner. Be polite (even if it kills you inside) and smile. Always say thank you for your time, If they take it as sarcasm, so be it, your mama taught you to say please and thank you. IP: Logged |
bellaxo Newflake Posts: 12 From: Registered: Jul 2012
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posted September 04, 2012 03:49 AM
DP
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C1ND3R Knowflake Posts: 857 From: Dorsia Registered: Aug 2012
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posted September 05, 2012 03:52 PM
Was there an original post?IP: Logged |