posted July 20, 2012 10:09 PM            

But recently he has been a little bit different towards me,, after we hooked up last week he hit me up straight away on facebook when he got home and was chatting to me loads and again on friday night when i got in...at one point he told me that if i needed help with anything to just ask him...which is odd for him.

He's also started texting me back within 10-20 mins of me texting him and at least 2 x's on any message which he never did before.

We chatted a bit on tuesday on fb and I had to go out so said see you later and went. He sent me a fb message later that night saying he hated facebook chat cause he wasn't getting my messages straight away and wasn't sending any of his to me, when I asked him what he tried to send me he just went offline.

Since then whenever i have gone online he seems to jump offline and really hasn't been using facebook very much at all. I gave it a couple of days and sent him a message saying that I had noticed him doing that and is there a problem? He said not at all everything was fine he was just really busy working ETC,( which I do tend to believe because he said last weekend and tuesday that he was trying to sort work stuff out). Then he asked me how I was which he never does.

I know that he is seeing/hooking up with other people and there is another guy that i'm seeing as well but I am confused about how I feel about him. Does it sound like he's become more interested in me?

I spoke to a friend of mine about the facebook thing and she thinks that he's trying to get me to call/text him more often cause I only ever really contact him on facebook.

Any thoughts/advice would be helpful...i'm rubbish at this sort of thing lol.

posted July 20, 2012 11:45 PM            

You are right we do need to be honest with each other. I'm just a bit worried about it affecting our friendship, I lost a really good friend before cause we got our feelings wrong for each other and I don't want that to happen again.

What do you think is the best way to bring this up without making him hide in his shell?

posted July 21, 2012 05:52 AM            

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posted July 21, 2012 01:50 PM            

I guess a little bluntness can't hurt lol, maybe just say you've noticed this or that and ask if he's starting to want something more from the relationship... That way the air will be cleared and it will be on him at that point to be honest and direct if he is trying to play games or is sending mixed signals...