posted November 30, 2012 02:05 PM            

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posted November 30, 2012 02:53 PM            

someone can be creepy like - "how'd you get my phone number, and address?!"

someone can be creepy like - secretly hiding in the guest house and sneaking into the main abode at night to steal your dirty clothes and wear them/smell them (pretty freaking creepy - I heard this is what happened with BAM's stalker on the EDGE actually haha)

someone can be creepy like - "why are you setting your barbie dolls on fire?"

orrrrr....or worse still ---- tying a frogs legs to their bike spokes and riding down the street with it spinning away!~

--- then you get to those really, mental creepos who belong on the FBIs most wanted list~~~

It's a matter of degree~ haha

>.>: right?

I'd be uncomfortable in all of the above confrontations~ so those that were into that behavior would all strike me as -creepy-

posted November 30, 2012 04:16 PM            

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Originally posted by sand:
^saw ur pic. Cute! Creepy?

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Aww thank you, Sand. I was just thinking about people who are sicky sweet, especially woman,a man's creepiness seems to be different.

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posted November 30, 2012 04:37 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Aww thank you, Sand. I was just thinking about people who are sicky sweet, especially woman,a man's creepiness seems to be different.

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posted November 30, 2012 05:50 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
a shy/introverted girl= cute
an introverted guy= creepy

atleast that's the way most people seem to view it

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Reminds me of...

posted November 30, 2012 05:54 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I don't want to be creepy

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Ami, here's how women can be creepy:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MPqOv7yjZxE

posted November 30, 2012 06:19 PM            

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Originally posted by PixieJane:
Reminds me of...

A bold, outspoken man = attractive, sexy
A bold, outspoken woman = shrew, emasculating ***** .

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posted November 30, 2012 06:58 PM            

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Originally posted by PixieJane:
Ami, here's how women can be creepy:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MPqOv7yjZxE

And just for the record I don't see you as being anything like that.

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Thank you!!!

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posted November 30, 2012 07:00 PM            

What do you all think?

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posted November 30, 2012 07:08 PM            

Men who move into your space and hoover or constantly looking around out of the corner of their eye at others.

Simple negative energy oozing is creepy.

posted November 30, 2012 07:20 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Aww thank you, Sand. I was just thinking about people who are sicky sweet, especially woman,a man's creepiness seems to be different.

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Oh I was creeping saturnine moth.. But u, u have Gemini sex appeal!

posted November 30, 2012 07:45 PM            

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Originally posted by sand:
Oh I was creeping saturnine moth.. But u, u have Gemini sex appeal!

Not saying anymore to avoid being creepy lol!

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posted November 30, 2012 07:48 PM            

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Originally posted by juniperb:
Staying close to the definition; a woman who calls other women Dear, Hon,sweety and such. It feels fake and over done. = creepy.

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---- > I'm creepy now, eh?

It's actually a common habit from nursing. Some CNA's like to use terms of endearment with our residents - it seeps into our casual lives. ~ but, consider it noted.

~ you can always ask a person what their motives are~ then, judge by their response whether they are intentionally trying to cause harm or mislead you/others...

I wouldn't consider anyone creepy based on a seemingly odd quirk or two, or on my own preconceived notions of what is queer behavior. If they aren't invading your personal space, or causing anyone or themselves harm~ I'd feel awful not giving them the benefit of the doubt~ some people are just different. If they were invading my space, or lashing out (physically or verbally), or I thought their intentions were to do so.... I'd want to ask them upfront what their deal was.... then, judge/decide how I'd avoid them/confront them.

I don't think creepiness is very well hidden~ Creepy stands out~ sometimes literally~ it comes to your house at weird hours, it harasses you, it libels you, stalks you, or misleads you with intent to harm or take advantage over you somehow...

To me that's creepy and creepy behavior. Women and men both can be creepy~

insincerity is generally easy to spot~ but, that depends on where it is coming from. If a personal acquaintance is being insincere, the lack of virtue would send up big red flags to most people, or so I would think.... however, if we are talking about insincerity/misrepresentation over some other media (internet), while not quite as easy to determine, I wonder how hidden it could be? Since you would already have labeled it in your mind as one way or the other.

I do agree Ami~ sometimes it is a matter of someone being in at least a pseudo-state of denial/repression. It will be hidden from themselves but observant people would definitely pick up on it~ Then, the question is what to do to address it with the individual? (or if you'd rather ignore it, all the same...) right?

----------- @ Sand
you're too sweet, hun~

----- let's be "creepy" together!!!

posted November 30, 2012 07:56 PM            

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do agree Ami~ sometimes it is a matter of someone being in at least a pseudo-state of denial/repression. It will be hidden from themselves but observant people would definitely pick up on it~ Then, the question is what to do to address it with the individual? (or if you'd rather ignore it, all the same...) right?

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Yea I think it is this, SM.

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posted November 30, 2012 08:05 PM            

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posted November 30, 2012 09:19 PM            

My best friend is a RN and they are forbidden to call patients any endearments as it is considered patronizing. She was written up for doing so and I supposed it was a given in the field of caregiving.
I was thinking of a couple of woman when I posted. One lashs out in anger, rather based on fact or not, then calms and uses endearments as to show she has forgiven you. Sad but true.

That`s creepy fake to me and rather fits the "hidden" creepyness brought to light.

posted November 30, 2012 09:44 PM            

I come from a very itty-bitty town in a very old fashioned part of Penn's Woods --- and quite often, terms of endearment are used with residents, and they tend to use them back very frequently.

It's the one's who grab your ass and pinch your t^ts that are the problem.... and it's the nurses who neglect to reposition, change bed linens, follow all those life-death procedures~ who are the problem in long term health care situations~ not the one's calling Ms. JuneCleaver Ms.Darling.....

I will take note that you don't appreciate being called in such a way~ and avoid it!

But, I can't say I agree with it.... endearing phrases said for the wrong reason/with contempt sure.... but, I can't ever imagine finding a fault just because someone decided to call me "hun" --- even as a waitress I find no fault in this~ As both fields used these terms without any intention to cause harm or suffering to anyone. Patronizing or not, a persons morality and virtue are weighed by their actions in my book.

~ I'm very tired this evening~ I wish everyone a good night!~ (or day depending on wherever you are at the moment.)

until tomorrow~ take it easy, ladies and gentleman.

posted November 30, 2012 09:46 PM            

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Originally posted by juniperb:

Men who move into your space and hoover or constantly looking around out of the corner of their eye at others.

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Do you mean hover? I don't mind if they hoover. They can do the dishes, too - doesn't mean they're getting anywhere with me.

posted December 01, 2012 12:32 AM            

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Originally posted by PixieJane:
Ami, here's how women can be creepy:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MPqOv7yjZxE

And just for the record I don't see you as being anything like that.

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What eyes can tell you:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k96qDMc0Wyc

She has what is known as "three whites" showing in her eyes which is something of a sign of possible less than good things brewing behind them

posted December 01, 2012 03:09 AM            

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Originally posted by Padre35:

Wish I knew, actually had the police called in re lil ol me for doing..nothing.

Apparently someone thought I reminded them of a serial killer..how nice.

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We had the police called on us in June, due to the fighting being so bad. Embarrassing. A certain person wouldn't stop railing against me, and I was clutching my stomach and going, "Ow! Ow!" because I have really bad digestive issues, and it was hurting badly, and they must have thought that something worse was going on.