posted December 15, 2012 09:30 AM            

And/or

How feminine do you like your women?

On a scale of 1 to 10, or just describe. If you want. No pressure obviously.

posted December 15, 2012 10:15 AM            

Anything lower than a 6 may be too "girlie" I mean, if I wanted a girlie-girl, I'd get a gf... haha so no... and I feel, anything over an 8 may be a bit "cave-man"-ish??? Which i wouldn't give the time of day~ (really brutish ones are usually bullies... usually...)

posted December 15, 2012 10:37 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
i like really feminine women, except for one thing... their indirectness...my experience has been that lots of these type of women have serious issues being up front and direct.. if only i could find a woman who could manage to be direct and sweet/feminine at the same time.

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posted December 15, 2012 10:39 AM            

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posted December 15, 2012 10:59 AM            

Then, you would need an Air Sign Sun and Mercury. Air is masculine. Maybe, a Fire Sun and Mercury could work, too, as that is Masculine, as well. The Venus could be one of many, but not Scorpio

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posted December 15, 2012 11:01 AM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Seriously, though, AG, you want someone with a masculine mind which would be direct, and a feminine heart, which would be sweet. You would need a sweet Moon which would be Cancer, Pisces or Taurus imo

Then, you would need an Air Sign Sun and Mercury. Air is masculine. Maybe, a Fire Sun and Mercury could work, too, as that is Masculine, as well. The Venus could be one of many, but not Scorpio

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posted December 15, 2012 12:27 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
not fire, how about a libra with cancer moon

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Totally--Air Sun with Cancer moon. You need a sweet Moon with a direct, non hidden kind of Sun like Gemini. You need the balance between a yin moon( feminine) and a yang sun( masculine)
For me, I need a sweet moon, too. I am turned off by the tougher moons in men, too.

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posted December 15, 2012 07:02 PM            

Caveat: we may not be thinking the same thing. By "masculine" and "feminine" I'm thinking ONLY of physical characteristics.

However, if you mean mental characteristics then you should say so AND define what you mean by that. For example, is a chef feminine for spending so much time in the kitchen? Is Lady Sovereign masculine for her dress as well as cursing, belching, and spitting on stage? Can a woman be both feminine and bold (such as another female crusader quick to speak truth to power, at least as she sees it, the hen pecking wife who drags her leering husband away from another woman or headstrong "Daddy's girl" spoiled princess who expects to get her way) and a man both masculine and reserved who relies on wits and diplomacy over brawn and may even cry (such as Captain Picard or Xander Harris, happy-go-lucky and boyish Ron Stoppable, or even Jesus). (People disagree on the answers to this, which is why it's important to make sure we're on the same page as we answer.)

posted December 15, 2012 08:04 PM            

That was just my preference...and you may "fish your wish" by asking for more clarification with the answers.

I'm married but still have my tastes.

I strongly prefer VERY masculine-looking men (beard okay, muscles imperative.) If I were looking for someone, it would be more important to me that the man looked masculine than acted it. In other words I would prefer a lumberjack-looking guy who was actually a nurse to a man who looked like a shrinking violet but was actually a cop.

posted December 15, 2012 10:13 PM            

My mind starts debating, "Which masculine? Which feminine? What are the parameters? The reference points?"

posted December 15, 2012 10:21 PM            

"Most of us feel trapped within the limited roles that the world expects us to play. We are instantly attracted to those who are more fluid, more ambiguous, than we are -those who create their own persona. Dandies excite us because they cannot be categorized, and hint at a freedom we want for ourselves. They play with masculinity and femininity; they fashion their own physical image, which is always startling; they are mysterious and elusive.