posted January 25, 2013 10:02 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
i watched gone with the wind all the way through for the first time today and i strongly related to the male leads predicament, its pretty much been the story of my life. like him i have patiently dealt with tons of bs and i am just about fed up with dating. its sad but i definitely could see myself just giving up on the whole thing and saying"quiet frankly dear, i dont give a d*mn." can anyone else relate to this?

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posted January 25, 2013 10:50 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
i watched gone with the wind all the way through for the first time today and i strongly related to the male leads predicament, its pretty much been the story of my life. like him i have patiently dealt with tons of bs and i am just about fed up with dating. its sad but i definitely could see myself just giving up on the whole thing and saying"quiet frankly dear, i dont give a d*mn." can anyone else relate to this?

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posted January 25, 2013 10:58 PM            

The rest of it, not so much.

Romance happens, it simply does.

Seduction on the other hand, is that sort of nether world of relationship.

posted January 25, 2013 11:01 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Lol well of course people can relate to this. But can you have a sense of humor and joie de vivre about life even if you aren't with someone?

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posted January 25, 2013 11:03 PM            

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Originally posted by Padre35:

I'm more surprised that AG' has enough patience to sit through a nearly 3 hour film

The rest of it, not so much.

Romance happens, it simply does.

Seduction on the other hand, is that sort of nether world of relationship.

Not sure if AG wants romance in his life, or wishes to be a Seducer.

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posted January 25, 2013 11:17 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Padre35:
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I'm more surprised that AG' has enough patience to sit through a nearly 3 hour film

The rest of it, not so much.

Romance happens, it simply does.

Seduction on the other hand, is that sort of nether world of relationship.

Not sure if AG wants romance in his life, or wishes to be a Seducer.

we had an ice storm today so i was stranded in the house lol. i'm talking about getting fed up with dating, who said anything about seducing lol.....

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suspect one wishes to be adored by women AG

It would make your life easier

posted January 25, 2013 11:31 PM            

Perhaps it would be better if one really got to know women the way a Seducer does, and then, with that in hand you can find what you are looking for?

This is why "romance happens".

posted January 25, 2013 11:39 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
well thats the thing padre, i'm tired of the dating scene, too much of a headache imo...

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Which is fine AG, however you are young are young Buck, to just go dormant makes no sense imo.

If one can suggest, perhaps look for heart over raw attraction?

Suspect there is a restless side to you that is not yet sure what one exactly wants in a partner?

If not, if one simply wishes female adoration then study the subject of Seduction and learn how to have "conquests"

If so, then look for things that you have in common so there is some basis for a relationship.

My apologies if I'm off base Aquaguy.

posted January 25, 2013 11:53 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
i understand what you are saying, i usually try to go for a good personality. i guess what im saying is i have kind of become apathetic about the whole thing... here recently i have had 2 girls make eyes at me at my job but i didnt even try talking to them, i was just thinking "whats the point?"

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Eh, so what though?

You are probably an attractive man AG.

How about you have in your heart:

-we share some things in common
-hey, I kinda like her and she is single

A bit of a digression, the whole eye contact/always want to touch/laugh louder than normal thing

Is old hat for me at least, what I have learned is..if I'm not into them, it does not matter to me.

If you want romance, put what YOU like on front street, a good opener would be:

"what is the last book you read"?

What one spends time reading, or if someone never reads, and you are a reader, that is a clue..no matter how pretty she may be.

once again, my .02

posted January 26, 2013 12:15 AM            

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Originally posted by sand:
Women.

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posted January 26, 2013 12:16 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
yea its kinda funny imo... i'm a public safety officer at a community college and i have never had more girls making eyes at me, its funny how appealing one becomes by putting on a uniform and having power.

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Don't put ideas in my mind.

"Excuse me professor Lee I dropped my pen could you.."

posted January 26, 2013 12:17 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
yea its kinda funny imo... i'm a public safety officer at a community college and i have never had more girls making eyes at me, its funny how appealing one becomes by putting on a uniform and having power.

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To a point, imo the real question is what do you want, not the footsey stuff.

Which is really the underlying thing here imo, what does Aquaguy91 want?

Find that, and you can wink and smile..

As an aside, when I stand outside the door of a place selling adult beverages, I seriously will have a mini parade of people offering to show me their ID's.

Suppose I just look like a guy who is a bouncer..

posted January 26, 2013 12:23 AM            

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Originally posted by Padre35:
To a point, imo the real question is what do you want, not the footsey stuff.

Which is really the underlying thing here imo, what does Aquaguy91 want?

Find that, and you can wink and smile..

As an aside, when I stand outside the door of a place selling adult beverages, I seriously will have a mini parade of people offering to show me their ID's.

Suppose I just look like a guy who is a bouncer..

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posted January 26, 2013 12:28 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
haha you really do! atleast from the pic i saw.. i could seriously picture you saying" sorry, not on the list"

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I know I know..just look like "that guy"

Posted that sill vid about "what I don't like about Scorpios" and when she said "they will look at you and you know you are in trouble, and they are not even your Dad!"

That rang soo true, do not mean to do it though

posted January 26, 2013 12:45 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
i watched gone with the wind all the way through for the first time today and i strongly related to the male leads predicament, its pretty much been the story of my life. like him i have patiently dealt with tons of bs and i am just about fed up with dating. its sad but i definitely could see myself just giving up on the whole thing and saying"quiet frankly dear, i dont give a d*mn." can anyone else relate to this?

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posted January 26, 2013 12:48 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
having an intense vibe sucks sometimes... you scare some ppl without meaning to..
i have had similar experiences

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No offense, however doubt you've ever had the police called b/c someone was sure you were a serial killer.

BUT the plus side is, the people who know me rushed to my defense and they went away.

Interesting little vignette in my life tbh

Trust me when I say, there are no more frightening moments then when an otherwise "normal" appearing person leans in and says out of nowhere:

"You are one of us"

Not fun

That aside, when a young girl turns into a little girl instead of a confident young woman..massively creepy

posted January 26, 2013 12:54 AM            

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Originally posted by Padre35:
No offense, however doubt you've ever had the police called b/c someone was sure you were a serial killer.

BUT the plus side is, the people who know me rushed to my defense and they went away.

Interesting little vignette in my life tbh

Trust me when I say, there are no more frightening moments then when an otherwise "normal" appearing person leans in and says out of nowhere:

"You are one of us"

Not fun

That aside, when a young girl turns into a little girl instead of a confident young woman..massively creepy

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