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Topic: can people really be this clueless?
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aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 5531 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 29, 2013 07:32 PM
i was just browsing another forum where a guy was complaining about how women are rude to him, and after he described what he does i can see why.... he said he keeps sending women messages on social networking sites until they eventually respond and tell him to "f**k off" I tried explaining to him that a woman will respond to the first message if she is interested, i told him its not wise to harass a woman with messages... he still didnt get it... geeze i have aspergers syndrome and even i think this guy is socially inept, i feel sorry for women who have to put up with that. IP: Logged |
peregrine Knowflake Posts: 153 From: The Lion's Den Registered: Apr 2012
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posted January 30, 2013 12:03 AM
I feel sorry for women who are hit on by undesirable males in general. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 3757 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted January 30, 2013 12:41 AM
women don't have to say that though. i'm sure on those social networking sites there's always a block button.
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somethingexcellent Knowflake Posts: 152 From: wales Registered: Nov 2012
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posted January 30, 2013 01:02 AM
I know many people who are clueless and they just won't get it, no matter how many people point something out or no matter how many times that something IS pointed out.aquaguy. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 5531 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 30, 2013 01:33 AM
^yea redscorp i hear ya there.IP: Logged |
Maelstrom Knowflake Posts: 175 From: Here, There, Everywhere Registered: Oct 2012
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posted January 30, 2013 04:46 AM
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: women don't have to say that though. i'm sure on those social networking sites there's always a block button.
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AstroNewb69 Knowflake Posts: 140 From: Ft worth TX USA Registered: Jun 2012
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posted January 30, 2013 08:18 AM
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: women don't have to say that though. i'm sure on those social networking sites there's always a block button.
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YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 4679 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted January 30, 2013 08:34 AM
The fact that you need to initiate social connections using internet social networking sites says volumes about you.... Plus, the need to bombard others begging for attention announces to the world that you belonga certain class of individual.... The word begins with an L and ends with a R.IP: Logged |
Odette Knowflake Posts: 1287 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted January 30, 2013 07:51 PM
quote: initiate social connections using internet social networking sites
So many people do this nowadays. Dating sites are waaaaaay popular.. Everything happens online!! We're online right now on LL having a convo. We're not in the 1920s... anymore. ----- Harassing people? NOT cool. on or offline!! IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 4679 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted January 30, 2013 08:06 PM
Yeah. We are conversing online. I'm not exactly hitting on anyone am I? How does one expect to start some love relationship and maintain it over the keyboard? I want real lips to kiss, not some virtual nonsense!IP: Logged |
Padre35 Knowflake Posts: 981 From: charlotte, NC, US Registered: Jul 2012
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posted January 30, 2013 08:25 PM
Well, it sounds like he has taken his offline failure online, and is generating what he expects to generate.IE..don't stop until brutally rejected Heard stuff like guys (especially) finding a pic of a male model and using it for a profile pic just to generate interest AND to re-enforce a negative self belief. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 5531 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 30, 2013 08:49 PM
quote: Originally posted by Padre35:
Well, it sounds like he has taken his offline failure online, and is generating what he expects to generate.IE..don't stop until brutally rejected Heard stuff like guys (especially) finding a pic of a male model and using it for a profile pic just to generate interest AND to re-enforce a negative self belief.
yea thats pretty common from what i've heard..it makes you wonder how many people actually do that IP: Logged |
Padre35 Knowflake Posts: 981 From: charlotte, NC, US Registered: Jul 2012
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posted January 30, 2013 09:13 PM
Well AG, honestly very few things surprise me any longer so I'd think it would be hopefully (75%) of the fellas who have issues offlineWomen as well, online dating/meeting is not just for men, would suspect a similar offline sort of issue. Depressing to me really, I WANT people to reach their potentials, be it personally, romantically, or professionally. However what is inside tends to come outside. Allow me to add that is not casting stones at anyone, just observations, online meetups are a great use of tech to cut through an awful lot of clutter. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 3757 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted January 30, 2013 09:20 PM
quote: Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways: The fact that you need to initiate social connections using internet social networking sites says volumes about you.... The word begins with an L and ends with a R.
Whoever wants to use dating sites - that's their prerogative. Saying someone is a loser for using online dating sites as a way to connect, to socialize, or even find love is like saying someone is a loser for reading comic books, or playing piano. It holds no water. Now, BEHAVIOR on the other hand, is something different. Disrespect in any form is loser-ish entirely and I will always defend that. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 3757 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted January 30, 2013 09:24 PM
quote: Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways: Yeah. We are conversing online. I'm not exactly hitting on anyone am I? How does one expect to start some love relationship and maintain it over the keyboard? I want real lips to kiss, not some virtual nonsense!
Sometimes it moves beyond the virtual realm. People DO exchange numbers ya know IP: Logged |