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aquaguy91
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posted January 29, 2013 07:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i was just browsing another forum where a guy was complaining about how women are rude to him, and after he described what he does i can see why.... he said he keeps sending women messages on social networking sites until they eventually respond and tell him to "f**k off" I tried explaining to him that a woman will respond to the first message if she is interested, i told him its not wise to harass a woman with messages... he still didnt get it... geeze i have aspergers syndrome and even i think this guy is socially inept, i feel sorry for women who have to put up with that.

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peregrine
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posted January 30, 2013 12:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for peregrine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I feel sorry for women who are hit on by undesirable males in general.

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hannaramaa
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posted January 30, 2013 12:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
women don't have to say that though. i'm sure on those social networking sites there's always a block button.

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somethingexcellent
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posted January 30, 2013 01:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for somethingexcellent     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I know many people who are clueless and they just won't get it, no matter how many people point something out or no matter how many times that something IS pointed out.

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aquaguy91
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posted January 30, 2013 01:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^yea redscorp i hear ya there.

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Maelstrom
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posted January 30, 2013 04:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Maelstrom     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by hannaramaa:
women don't have to say that though. i'm sure on those social networking sites there's always a block button.

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AstroNewb69
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posted January 30, 2013 08:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AstroNewb69     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
women don't have to say that though. i'm sure on those social networking sites there's always a block button.

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YoursTrulyAlways
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posted January 30, 2013 08:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for YoursTrulyAlways     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The fact that you need to initiate social connections using internet social networking sites says volumes about you.... Plus, the need to bombard others begging for attention announces to the world that you belonga certain class of individual.... The word begins with an L and ends with a R.

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Odette
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posted January 30, 2013 07:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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initiate social connections using internet social networking sites

So many people do this nowadays. Dating sites are waaaaaay popular.. Everything happens online!! We're online right now on LL having a convo.
We're not in the 1920s... anymore.

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Harassing people? NOT cool. on or offline!!

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YoursTrulyAlways
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posted January 30, 2013 08:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for YoursTrulyAlways     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah. We are conversing online. I'm not exactly hitting on anyone am I? How does one expect to start some love relationship and maintain it over the keyboard? I want real lips to kiss, not some virtual nonsense!

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posted January 30, 2013 08:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Padre35     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Well, it sounds like he has taken his offline failure online, and is generating what he expects to generate.

IE..don't stop until brutally rejected

Heard stuff like guys (especially) finding a pic of a male model and using it for a profile pic just to generate interest AND to re-enforce a negative self belief.

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aquaguy91
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posted January 30, 2013 08:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Padre35:

Well, it sounds like he has taken his offline failure online, and is generating what he expects to generate.

IE..don't stop until brutally rejected

Heard stuff like guys (especially) finding a pic of a male model and using it for a profile pic just to generate interest AND to re-enforce a negative self belief.


yea thats pretty common from what i've heard..it makes you wonder how many people actually do that

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Padre35
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posted January 30, 2013 09:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Padre35     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well AG, honestly very few things surprise me any longer so I'd think it would be hopefully (75%) of the fellas who have issues offline

Women as well, online dating/meeting is not just for men, would suspect a similar offline sort of issue.

Depressing to me really, I WANT people to reach their potentials, be it personally, romantically, or professionally.

However what is inside tends to come outside.

Allow me to add that is not casting stones at anyone, just observations, online meetups are a great use of tech to cut through an awful lot of clutter.

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hannaramaa
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posted January 30, 2013 09:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
The fact that you need to initiate social connections using internet social networking sites says volumes about you.... The word begins with an L and ends with a R.

Whoever wants to use dating sites - that's their prerogative. Saying someone is a loser for using online dating sites as a way to connect, to socialize, or even find love is like saying someone is a loser for reading comic books, or playing piano. It holds no water.

Now, BEHAVIOR on the other hand, is something different. Disrespect in any form is loser-ish entirely and I will always defend that.

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hannaramaa
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posted January 30, 2013 09:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Yeah. We are conversing online. I'm not exactly hitting on anyone am I? How does one expect to start some love relationship and maintain it over the keyboard? I want real lips to kiss, not some virtual nonsense!

Sometimes it moves beyond the virtual realm. People DO exchange numbers ya know

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