posted February 06, 2013 05:52 AM            

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peregrine: taller/ older women are still women. not much difference to me.

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posted February 06, 2013 12:53 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
i recently created a profile on one of those cougar sites, partly out of sh*ts and giggles and partly because people have always told me i need to try dating older women, so i figured why not give it a try...anywho, after looking at tons of profiles i noticed a pattern, almost 90% of these women are taller then average, like 5'8 plus.. do you know any cougars irl? are they tall too?

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The several women I knew/know who have been or are involved or married to much younger men;
as in 10 to 50 years younger;
were/are all 5'4" down to 4'11".
Also all have weighed or weigh betwixt about 190 pounds and 425 pounds.

posted February 06, 2013 01:33 PM            

(don't trust all you read/see on these sites, they really aren't on par with actual population/statistics, and people can be incredibly dishonest in using such programs.... IME)

Anyway, my ex's ex was my size, about an inch taller... so 5ft~ she was 10 years his senior...

My friend at the courthouse is 50 and her young star crossed love was 19 at the time... she was quite tall, maybe 5'9".

Neither of them especially set out for younger men though... just happens when it happens, I guess. Both are not into random connections/hook ups, although I do know a few ladies/lady-folk who aren't up for long term... can't assume all older women want to be tied down... doesn't work that way all the time with older ladies than younger... everyone has their own prerogative, aye?! ^^ *justsayin*

those are just examples of the extremes I've seen in size difference! lol ~__~ I think most of them are average height that I've known... about 5'4" is what I'd say is average, (though I may not be a good judge, I consider anyone over 5'3" blessed with height! haha) *justme*

posted February 13, 2013 11:13 PM            

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Originally posted by piscesfishgoddess:
the taller the woman the more she identifies as a man, the more she will want to take away the innocence of someone smaller than her

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Are you serious or just trying to have some fun with us?

posted February 19, 2013 09:53 AM            

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Originally posted by PixieJane:
Are you serious or just trying to have some fun with us?

ETA: never mind, I can tell from other threads that you're a troll and don't really believe what you say, you're just trying to get a reaction out of us for the laughs it gives you.

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Read what I said about Troll in one of those threads in 2.0. Troll is a word you call me when you don't like that I say something that holds power. Don't worry though. I don't just make this stuff up. I dont believe in what I say, I KNOW what I say or I would never write it. The truth can suck sometimes. If you let it...

But I also bring you good news. I love tall women. Most guys do. The only girls I have ever loved were all over 5 foot 6. It is true. Most guys want a woman over 5 foot 7 under 6'1. A woman over 6 1 and the guy wouldn't mind you dominating him. haha. And don't feel left out short girls. Guys like taking control with you, you are so precious to them.

But remember......inches are minute. I don't really understand it to be honest. People here will call someone 5 foot 2 short but someone 10 inches taller TALL! It doesnt make any sense to someone like me, have you seen the difference in 10 inches!? It isn't that much...at all but they have convinced you that it is. Tall to me would be someone 14 feet and short would be a person a foot. (sorry for those here who are 1 foot tall)

posted February 19, 2013 10:11 AM            

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Originally posted by piscesfishgoddess:
Read what I said about Troll in one of those threads in 2.0. Troll is a word you call me when you don't like that I say something that holds power. Don't worry though. I don't just make this stuff up. I dont believe in what I say, I KNOW what I say or I would never write it. The truth can suck sometimes. If you let it...

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I`ve read your posts and agree with PJ. Can`t say I welcome you back. !

posted February 19, 2013 02:41 PM            

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Remember, love can conquer the influences of the planets....It can even eliminate karma.

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posted February 19, 2013 03:15 PM            

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Originally posted by piscesfishgoddess:
Read what I said about Troll in one of those threads in 2.0. Troll is a word you call me when you don't like that I say something that holds power. Don't worry though. I don't just make this stuff up. I dont believe in what I say, I KNOW what I say or I would never write it. The truth can suck sometimes. If you let it...

But I also bring you good news. I love tall women. Most guys do. The only girls I have ever loved were all over 5 foot 6. It is true. Most guys want a woman over 5 foot 7 under 6'1. A woman over 6 1 and the guy wouldn't mind you dominating him. haha. And don't feel left out short girls. Guys like taking control with you, you are so precious to them.

But remember......inches are minute. I don't really understand it to be honest. People here will call someone 5 foot 2 short but someone 10 inches taller TALL! It doesnt make any sense to someone like me, have you seen the difference in 10 inches!? It isn't that much...at all but they have convinced you that it is. Tall to me would be someone 14 feet and short would be a person a foot. (sorry for those here who are 1 foot tall)

All women are beautiful to me. I would be happy to be able to spend time with just one of them!

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I HAVE considered the possibility (based on a couple of threads and postings) that you're one of those teen know it alls (15 at oldest, but probably younger than that) rather than a troll, you know the kind who thinks their parents are idiots yet doesn't get a job while you're young enough to still know everything. Definitely a boy if you are. But then I thought your vocabulary & spelling were too impressive for such a child (and while kids can be impressive that way such exceptional kids are also usually too well-read and reflective to say the kind of things you do as well), so I'm convinced you're an adult troll who is knowingly and willfully trying to be disruptive for your own amusement.

posted February 19, 2013 05:51 PM            

That being said, my brother's wife is 18 years older than him. My sister-in-law is a fantastic, always-encouraging Pisces. My brother was the first younger man she dated.

They've been together for about 20 years.

posted February 19, 2013 06:36 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
The label "cougar" bothers me. I think people are lucky if they can find love, and I really don't want to make assumptions about a woman if she's with a younger man

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What's the negative association of "cougar"?

Most definitions at Urban Dictionary are fairly flattering (which is unusual), at least for UD:
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=cougar

posted February 19, 2013 07:23 PM            

Edit: Actually many of the Urban Dictionary definitions are negative, which is what I was referring to.

posted February 23, 2013 06:37 AM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
Edit: Actually many of the Urban Dictionary definitions are negative, which is what I was referring to

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Well, I DID say "for urban dictionary" which has a large amount of male trolls angry at women for not having sex with them. If you think "cougar" is negative, look up the definition for "woman." Actually, maybe you shouldn't...especially as it's difficult to tell who's serious and who thinks they're being funny (though at least the votes keep the best ones as the top rather than the troll entries).

From what I gathered, it implied that cougars were more mature emotionally (and not likely to engage in head games), stable, experienced, and sexually desirable (MILF is a compliment, btw, again, the definitions being mostly by males.)