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Pisces-Sweety Knowflake Posts: 560 From: Under the Sea Registered: Aug 2012	posted June 04, 2013 04:45 PM you found out that your crush didn't like you back or rejected you? IP: Logged
juniperb Moderator Posts: 6865 From: Blue Star Kachina Registered: Apr 2009	posted June 04, 2013 05:05 PM I would consider it their loss and my potential gain There is that special someone waiting out there and we have to go through some heartache and loss but it`s worth the wait. ------------------ Christian, Jew, Muslim, Shaman, Zoroastrian, stone, ground, mountain, river, each has a secret way of being with the Mystery, unique and not to be judged. Rumi IP: Logged
Hera Knowflake Posts: 5952 From: Aries fantasy land ^_^ Registered: Sep 2010	posted June 04, 2013 05:23 PM quote: Originally posted by juniperb: I would consider it their loss and my potential gain There is that special someone waiting out there and we have to go through some heartache and loss but it`s worth the wait. IP: Logged
Hera Knowflake Posts: 5952 From: Aries fantasy land ^_^ Registered: Sep 2010	posted June 04, 2013 05:28 PM It would hurt. Actually it did. Several times. But you know what?! The following crush was better than the last and the next after him even more! The men in my life have gradually become more emotionally mature and growth-oriented, because so have I. But it took some rejection and disappointments to evolve myself and attract like-minded people. So just imagine how totally AWESOME your next crush will be!! IP: Logged
somethingexcellent Knowflake Posts: 1198 From: walking with my head in the clouds! Registered: Nov 2012	posted June 04, 2013 06:02 PM Not bad actually! I say okay, then float off to my next big adventure! I usually let them go and we lose contact because my main reason for interacting with them is a dead end, but I'll remain friendly as needed! I'm not the type to be deeply invested in any one person or thing. Hell, a lingering attraction may exist, which is fine by me; ain't nothing wrong with being attracted to someone who doesn't reciprocate. It happens. IP: Logged
PixieJane Knowflake Posts: 2403 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010	posted June 04, 2013 06:08 PM quote: Originally posted by somethingexcellent: Not bad actually! I say okay, then float off to my next big adventure! I usually let them go and we lose contact because my main reason for interacting with them is a dead end, but I'll remain friendly as needed! I'm not the type to be deeply invested in any one person or thing. Hell, a lingering attraction may exist, which is fine by me; ain't nothing wrong with being attracted to someone who doesn't reciprocate. It happens. That fits me, too. I think I just choose where to invest my energy, so if one well is dry or otherwise closed off to me I focus on other people instead and just shrug off the inaccessible. Maybe it's because I'm such an air sign, or because of all the Sag in me, or maybe it was a skill I learned growing up. IP: Logged
somethingexcellent Knowflake Posts: 1198 From: walking with my head in the clouds! Registered: Nov 2012	posted June 04, 2013 07:07 PM ^If we're gonna talk astro...while I do have a Scorpio Venus, there's a square to my Aquarius Moon...I think it's a learnt skill in my case. IP: Logged
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 42384 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010	posted June 04, 2013 07:19 PM I think it would hurt because everyone is sensitive to rejection. It is one of the most painful experiences one can have ------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/ IP: Logged
Pisces-Sweety Knowflake Posts: 560 From: Under the Sea Registered: Aug 2012	posted June 05, 2013 06:39 AM Awww hugs Ami Anne I absolutely understand what you're saying. I'm currently going through this now. I don't get how people can easily move on from rejection. IP: Logged
Doux R�ve Moderator Posts: 3312 From: Registered: Dec 2010	posted June 05, 2013 02:36 PM Pisces-Sweety It does hurt. Some people take rejection more seriously than others, and it also depends on your level of attachment. If you're really into the person, prepare to be in pain for a while. But, like most things in life, it will pass. So while it is painful now, eventually you'll feel better. And hopefully someone else will see the beauty in you and take the time to love you and appreciate your company. ~ :hug: IP: Logged
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 2249 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012	posted June 05, 2013 02:50 PM quote: Originally posted by Pisces-Sweety: you found out that your crush didn't like you back or rejected you? I would feel like crap actually. I'm terrified of rejection, that would hurt my ego. That's never happened to me because I always make sure their is attraction. If theirs a bit of flirting than the chemistry is brewing etc. I'm good with timing, and know when to pounce depending on their mood and vibes. I also make it a point not to like people unobtainable. I lslap my self and move on. That's how I keep myself from being hurt. Don't let that stop you pisces sweety! We'll all get rejected eventually. If you're sensitive like me than just be more careful and observe more before you confess your feelings. You have venus conjunct mars so you feel things more passionately and are bit impulsive right? IP: Logged
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 6678 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012	posted June 05, 2013 03:43 PM TBH. I'm used to it and expect it. I really don't care anymore, I quit trying. IP: Logged
Pisces-Sweety Knowflake Posts: 560 From: Under the Sea Registered: Aug 2012	posted June 05, 2013 04:43 PM quote: Originally posted by Kerosene: I would feel like crap actually. I'm terrified of rejection, that would hurt my ego. That's never happened to me because I always make sure their is attraction. If theirs a bit of flirting than the chemistry is brewing etc. I'm good with timing, and know when to pounce depending on their mood and vibes. I also make it a point not to like people unobtainable. I lslap my self and move on. That's how I keep myself from being hurt. Don't let that stop you pisces sweety! We'll all get rejected eventually. If you're sensitive like me than just be more careful and observe more before you confess your feelings. You have venus conjunct mars so you feel things more passionately and are bit impulsive right? I used to be impulsive in the past. I feel less impulsive now(personaly. Dont know how others see me). The thing is, I tend to think a lot about it .. How compatible we are? Etc... And i dont jump into anything unless I feel like there's def. mutual attraction... However, even with the attraction, that person still rejects you. (doesnt have to vocalize it. Nothing stops a guy who is interested). I'm also terrified of rejection because of my ego but I let the, know I like them after a long time, even if it's going to hurt me. IP: Logged
Pisces-Sweety Knowflake Posts: 560 From: Under the Sea Registered: Aug 2012	posted June 05, 2013 04:45 PM quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: TBH. I'm used to it and expect it. I really don't care anymore, I quit trying. dont say that! hugs aqua Dont ever get used to this. It won't help you in the long run. Keep trying (f) IP: Logged
Pisces-Sweety Knowflake Posts: 560 From: Under the Sea Registered: Aug 2012	posted June 05, 2013 04:47 PM quote: Originally posted by Doux R�ve: Pisces-Sweety It does hurt. Some people take rejection more seriously than others, and it also depends on your level of attachment. If you're really into the person, prepare to be in pain for a while. But, like most things in life, it will pass. So while it is painful now, eventually you'll feel better. And hopefully someone else will see the beauty in you and take the time to love you and appreciate your company. ~ :hug: Your post made me smile hugs you you're wonderful doux reve <3 IP: Logged
Odette Knowflake Posts: 2034 From: Registered: May 2012	posted June 05, 2013 05:18 PM I read about you and Cancer guy and I feel like he led you on. You're perfectly entitled to have a problem with - be angry towards or be upset with a person who is a BS artist. There are different types of BS artists. For example: The type who is insecure/cowardly and is attracted but can't go there .. but they don't want anyone else to have you either. The type who has huge self esteem issues and intentionally string other people along, pretending they so-so like them to boost their depleting ego. The type who is so self-centred that they're ignoring you and your feelings. This would be Cancer guy. So they say something like "I love you" ... and later take it back by saying - "Oh but there are many ways to love someone. I meant it in a friendly /brotherly kind of way. " You can't go around telling people you care and love them and so on, when it's obvious they are into you and you are leading them on. This is either a-holey or dismissive (self-centred and uncaring about others' feelings). Personally, if I was genuinely rejected - I'd be happy to know the truth and I'd move right along. But I cannot stand people who lie to cover up other issues they have. I much prefer it if people call a spade, a spade - and I often see right through them. I'd have a very negative reaction if I felt like I was dealing with a BS artist.... as opposed to an honest person, who is honestly not interested. IP: Logged
Odette Knowflake Posts: 2034 From: Registered: May 2012	posted June 05, 2013 05:29 PM I can't believe I forgot to mention the most obvious: The type who blows hot and cold to play games - because they think that's the best way to keep someone interested. One of the more lame types^^ IP: Logged
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 6678 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012	posted June 05, 2013 05:43 PM quote: Originally posted by Pisces-Sweety: *dont say that! hugs aqua* Dont ever get used to this. It won't help you in the long run. Keep trying (f)** Its the reality of being a straight guy. lmao we all get rejected, some of us more than others. IP: Logged
Pisces-Sweety Knowflake Posts: 560 From: Under the Sea Registered: Aug 2012	posted June 06, 2013 06:09 AM quote: Originally posted by Odette: I read about you and Cancer guy and I feel like he led you on. You're perfectly entitled to have a problem with - be angry towards or be upset with a person who is a BS artist. There are different types of BS artists. For example: The type who is insecure/cowardly and is attracted but can't go there .. but they don't want anyone else to have you either. The type who has huge self esteem issues and intentionally string other people along, pretending they so-so like them to boost their depleting ego. The type who is so self-centred that they're ignoring you and your feelings. This would be Cancer guy. So they say something like "I love you" ... and later take it back by saying - "Oh but there are many ways to love someone. I meant it in a friendly /brotherly kind of way. " You can't go around telling people you care and love them and so on, when it's obvious they are into you and you are leading them on. This is either a-holey or dismissive (self-centred and uncaring about others' feelings). Personally, if I was genuinely rejected - I'd be happy to know the truth and I'd move right along. But I cannot stand people who lie to cover up other issues they have. I much prefer it if people call a spade, a spade - and I often see right through them. I'd have a very negative reaction if I felt like I was dealing with a BS artist.... as opposed to an honest person, who is honestly not interested. He's a gemini sun with a gemini moon. I found out his entire chart and I posted it in astrology 2.0 but no one responded so I deleted it. Lol. IP: Logged
Pisces-Sweety Knowflake Posts: 560 From: Under the Sea Registered: Aug 2012	posted June 06, 2013 06:11 AM quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: Its the reality of being a straight guy. lmao we all get rejected, some of us more than others. You think that some people get rejected more than others. The truth is, sometimes we need to change things in ourselves in order to adjust. (This might be the fish in me talking- poisson-> adaptability- change etc..) IP: Logged

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