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I'm so cappy
Knowflake

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posted June 05, 2013 05:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for I'm so cappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't want to live like 80 years. God, save me this torture. I'm pretty sure I wouldn't be and energetic, self-sufficient old lady, not with my crappy health. I want to die in my late 60's at the latest. That would be a good time to end the show.
Anyone feels the same?

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I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy.

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Lexxigramer
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posted June 05, 2013 05:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lexxigramer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No.

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somethingexcellent
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posted June 05, 2013 06:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for somethingexcellent     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I wish to cease aging and live indefinitely.

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I'm so cappy
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posted June 05, 2013 06:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for I'm so cappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You mean infinitely? You gotta find a way to become a vampire. If you do, let me know.

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11nahyt
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posted June 05, 2013 08:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 11nahyt     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Let me know as well lol! But honestly I kinda feel the same way as cappy. I don't want to live past 70. The idea that my body will look like its melting, or having to need someone else to wipe my a55, and wear diapers ,dentures,health issues,ugh its too much for me to bare . Wahh

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I'm so cappy
Knowflake

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posted June 05, 2013 08:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for I'm so cappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
*shudders*
I used to see it on a daily basis. I can't end up the same, I don't want to

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I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy.

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Ami Anne
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posted June 05, 2013 08:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I hear you guys. I feel the same way

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I'm so cappy
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posted June 05, 2013 08:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for I'm so cappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Good to know I'm not the only one.

To be honest, I think I'll kill myself if I'm not able to take care of myself anymore.

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Ami Anne
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posted June 05, 2013 08:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
Good to know I'm not the only one.

To be honest, I think I'll kill myself if I'm not able to take care of myself anymore.


I hope it never happens. People say that but if the time comes, they don't want to do it

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juniperb
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posted June 05, 2013 09:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for juniperb     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
On the same page with lexx here. No. I look forward to my future.

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Lexxigramer
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posted June 05, 2013 10:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lexxigramer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by juniperb:
On the same page with lexx here. No. I look forward to my future.


Thank you juniperb.
By the criteria others have posted here for not wanting to live past 60 or 80.....
kind of creeps me out because by their views I should just go kill myself; or done it 24 years ago
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I mean that if they were in my situation sounds like they would not want to live.

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PixieJane
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posted June 05, 2013 11:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Transhumanism

Just throwing that out there for anyone who might be intrigued.

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Padre35
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posted June 05, 2013 11:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Padre35     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Well, from my experience if you pick up good habits now they really serve you well later in life.

Creativity, activity, curiosity, they are like youth tonics.

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Kerosene
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posted June 06, 2013 12:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kerosene     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Idk.. I'm looking at ways I can exchange my mortality to be an immortal being...

Does anyone have satans number? I dont being he/she's lackey.
I bet she/he is kinda hot...

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MoonWitch
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posted June 06, 2013 12:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MoonWitch     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My grandpa just passed last month and my grandmother a few years ago.

He was a Marine in WWII. He had been married to my grandmother (also a Marine) since WWII. She passed away at 89. Grandpa passed away at 91, in his sleep, in his favorite recliner the night after a week-long family reunion.

They both lived at home until their deaths with no nurses.

My other surviving grandmother is 79 now, I think. She lives in her own house with her little yappy dogs and still drives. <3

My boss is 61 and he's in better shape than most 40 year olds I know.

So, no, I wouldn't want to die in my 60's. I hope to be as lucky as my grandparents and stay reasonably active well into my 80's and 90's. And if the health isn't so great I would like to be at least mentally active!

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Ami Anne
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posted June 06, 2013 08:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Padre35:

Well, from my experience if you pick up good habits now they really serve you well later in life.

Creativity, activity, curiosity, they are like youth tonics.


Great point, Padre.

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I'm so cappy
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posted June 06, 2013 08:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for I'm so cappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I hope it never happens. People say that but if the time comes, they don't want to do it

Me too.

quote:
Originally posted by Lexxigramer:
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Thank you juniperb.
By the criteria others have posted here for not wanting to live past 60 or 80.....
kind of creeps me out because by their views I should just go kill myself; or done it 24 years ago
Edit to add:
I mean that if they were in my situation sounds like they would not want to live.

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No one here said anything like that. These are our views on OUR future.


quote:
Originally posted by Kerosene:
Idk.. I'm looking at ways I can exchange my mortality to be an immortal being...

Does anyone have satans number? I dont being he/she's lackey.
I bet she/he is kinda hot...


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But I'm warning you, the price is very high

quote:
Originally posted by PixieJane:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Transhumanism

Just throwing that out there for anyone who might be intrigued.


Thanks, it's definitely intriguing


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Padre35
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posted June 06, 2013 10:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Padre35     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Here is what I've found:

As age moves on people, they deliberately close their worlds off and focus on the comfortable, the familiar, the known.

New ideas and ways of looking at things become instantly attacked, untrusted and unexamined. Experience then becomes a sort of straight jacket that binds the present with the past.

Flexibility is eschewed, and life becomes a dull drag of the same thing each day, every day.

Used to hang out with the sort of "Prepper" crowd, know it well. It occured to me that their lives were the definition of fearful existence. Sitting among hoarded rice and beans waiting for some disaster to strike and thus validating their choices.

They were willing to learn hard skills like welding and butchering and gardening etc.

So flipped and hung out with the sort of youth/young professional/hipster crowd and got to know them well. Entitled, intellectually arrogant, vapid and shallow etc.

BUT, they were willing to learn new skills that interested them and we capable of amazing focus on them. From cooking to fashion to technology in those things they were quite flexible.

The two are not as far apart as they may think they are, such a division is a device.

Point being, to stay young one has to be willing to be flexible. For example what if for one day you examine everything you think you know as if it were all wrong? Or seriously examined what a detractor of those beliefs had to say?

This is one of the reasons why I'll examine what a Richard Dawkins has to say about Religion to test what I believe.

Now imo, there are few things more pathetic then an older person trying to dress and act like someone 20 yrs younger, that is a sure sign of desperation not flexibility.

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hippichick
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posted June 06, 2013 11:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No, I want to live to be as old as the hills and compeltely alert when I die...

I want to take all the experience back with me that I can and I do not plan on coming back for another round.

Many folks, who know me really well, tell me they see me, very old sitting on my front porch with a long grey braid and a shot gun to ward off critters....

Yea.....

sounds lovely to me!

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Lexxigramer
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posted June 06, 2013 12:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lexxigramer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by hippichick:
No, I want to live to be as old as the hills and compeltely alert when I die...

I want to take all the experience back with me that I can and I do not plan on coming back for another round.

Many folks, who know me really well, tell me they see me, very old sitting on my front porch with a long grey braid and a shot gun to ward off critters....

Yea.....

sounds lovely to me!


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I'm so cappy
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posted June 06, 2013 07:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for I'm so cappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm not afraid of not being able to keep up with the world's progress. I think I would cope with it pretty well but that would require a clear mind. It's not something all the old people have. There is Alzheimer's disease, dementia and other crap.

I could handle being wrinkled but not being trapped in a nonfunctional body.

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PixieJane
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posted June 07, 2013 11:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What I don't want is to be put in one of those gulags for the elderly. I've already been in one for teens, it's not an experience I want to repeat.

I've seen it and don't feel like recounting. I'll just say this doesn't shock me at all:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wbIVoof9WTY

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PixieJane
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posted June 07, 2013 11:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
In case anyone needs some comic relief after seeing that YT I just shared, I loved this...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=No32ED-OonA

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mockingbird
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posted June 07, 2013 11:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mockingbird     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
God and the Universe willing, my husband and I will age together.

We will raise our girls and build or house to accommodate our family.
I fully anticipate an extension for my mother as she ages. She will have only those responsibilities she desires (I'm sure she'll want a garden), her family near, and freedom to do as she wishes.
I hope she travels and takes some art classes, all passions in her youth.

Then, ideally, one or more of our children and perhaps her/their family will take over this house. We will move into the "elder extension".
With few responsibilities and hopefully some health, we will then learn and explore the community and the world.

I could totally dig that.

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Aquacheeka
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posted June 08, 2013 09:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aquacheeka     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I would like to live past 100, personally.

I just want to keep witnessing how this world is going to change.

What happens next?

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