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Topic: Feeling Left Out
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Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 09, 2013 12:05 PM
  
Some people mentioned the feeling of being left out. Maybe, I should put this in Astro 2, as well. I think the chart really does give one these basic tendencies, as well as other basic tendencies.If you see two children, one will jump in and become part of a group. The other will hang back.
Chart wise, I would think hanging back could be 12th House planets or Saturn conjunct the Sun( or square it)
It could be Chiron conj the ASC due to prior bullying. It could be other things,too. I will re-post this in Astro. 2 and see what people think.
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teasel
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posted July 09, 2013 04:28 PM
I used to jump right in... then I became the one to hang back, after being bullied.Now, it depends on the situation. Chiron conjunct Ceres/Sun. Saturn in the 12th brought bullying back into my life again in a big, bad way. And Pluto in the 3rd. Only I speak up now - I fight back, but I can't say that it makes me feel any better. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 09, 2013 04:51 PM
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Originally posted by teasel:
I used to jump right in... then I became the one to hang back, after being bullied.Now, it depends on the situation. Chiron conjunct Ceres/Sun. Saturn in the 12th brought bullying back into my life again in a big, bad way. And Pluto in the 3rd. Only I speak up now - I fight back, but I can't say that it makes me feel any better.
Will you list the orbs of each, Teasel.
I was thinking of what a lovely person you are and how you should not feel left out but people tell me things like that about my self esteem and one feels what one feels 
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juniperb
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From: Blue Star Kachina
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posted July 09, 2013 06:27 PM
teasel we`ve been friends a long long time and I hope I never made you feel that way.------------------
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Odette
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Registered: May 2012
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posted July 09, 2013 07:17 PM
Aries energy in general does not like groups!
I love crowds at parties or big events like concerts etc - so I like going to those things,
But I've always avoided having a consistent group of friends. I always hang out with different people.
Cliquey behaviour just bothers me for some reason. The people I know who are the most 'hung up' on being in a group and who would make an issue out of feeling left out - have a lot of social sign influence - which I lack. I only have Pluto in Scorpio.
For example I've been witness to several situations where a Libra or Leo person was accidentally 'left out' or not invited to something - OMG the drama!!!! It just went on and on... and on - like their entire life revolved around this event they weren't invited to.
I guess different people just have different priorities. I would probably react just as badly if something went wrong in my career ( Cappy Moon). IP: Logged |
somethingexcellent
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From: walking with my head in the clouds!
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted July 09, 2013 11:58 PM
^I find Aries to be inconsistent with friends as well...sometimes they'll have the one or two people they really have their own world with, but overall, yeah, inconsistent friendships.Any ways, on topic, I used to have feelings of being detached. And, being the reckless, talkative person I am, I would bring it up and stab at it and it was just messy...nowadays, I think I'm comfortable enough that if I want to be included, I can ask, find the one person that I trust and say so, "can I come", etc. As a child, I often just jumped right in with the crowd unless it was like bullies, then I'd wander off and form my own group lmfao! IP: Logged |
mirage29
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From: us
Registered: May 2012
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posted July 10, 2013 03:50 AM
Just dropping by quickly... There are a number of things in a chart that can give the feeling of being left out. Plus, I think other people we meet could have an energy effect. Levels of comfort. Skills that draw others out, or cause them to retreat back into a shell.Saturn Scorpios, Ami Anne! Scorpio houses... mine are 11th and 12th. Virgo moons can have a shyness... my MarsCancer squares that moon. Saturn in the 11th could feel alone. Found an unnamed asteroid "2003 VS2" whose meaning signifies... set apart, not being part of the herd.
http://markandrewholmes.com/2003vs2.html Transiting 2003 VS2 is 13-degrees 1' of Gemini right now. Natally, mine is located 5.42'27" Pisces (interc 3rd). Transiting Neptune has been on that degree. Right now Neptune is Retrograde at 5.5'35" Pisces. (Love to you all!  goodnight :sleep: ) IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 6883
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted July 10, 2013 04:55 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Some people mentioned the feeling of being left out. Maybe, I should put this in Astro 2, as well. I think the chart really does give one these basic tendencies, as well as other basic tendencies.If you see two children, one will jump in and become part of a group. The other will hang back.
Chart wise, I would think hanging back could be 12th House planets or Saturn conjunct the Sun( or square it)
It could be Chiron conj the ASC due to prior
bullying. It could be other things,too. I will re-post this in Astro. 2 and see what people think.
Sun conjunct saturn in
the 12th house here. I
have definitely felt left
out in the past but being
alone doesn't bother me
anymore, it seems natural and I enjoy it. Now I feel more like life is passing me by. I see people around me and all that's happening in their lives. I see people breaking up, having babies, getting into new relationships, getting new jobs,
graduating, making new friends
etc. while my life has pretty
much stayed the same. I feel like I'm spinning my wheels.
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Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 43550
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 10, 2013 07:46 AM
Sun conj Saturn in the 12th does sound like it would tend to give you these feelings.------------------
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