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aquaguy91
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posted August 15, 2013 04:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
Don't laugh but I'm 4''10 lol

you are tiny. I could give you a piggy back ride lol.

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posted August 15, 2013 04:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Barbiegirl19     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've only dated guys who were 6'2 or taller lol and they loved carrying me :P

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posted August 15, 2013 04:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
haha I bet

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posted August 15, 2013 04:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Barbiegirl19     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So I'm even more excited that you're tall too lol I've never ever dated anyone shorter than 5'9 and shockingly I've only dated interracially. I hate using that term because I just don't see color but unfortunately the world doesn't think the same way that I do.

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posted August 15, 2013 05:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for meissieri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
Late joiners are just as welcome as all of us here I had a friend who really had and I believe still does have a huge crush on me. Even when he has a girlfriend. I think it's why I refrain from really seeing or being around him because I feel bad about. But at the same time I don't wanna add more fuel to flame and egg him on even more ya know. I'm a people pleaser I feel instant discomfort when someone isn't comfortable in a situation and really try to do all that I can to help people. But in this situation between he and I think in our case it would be better if we weren't close friends anymore. I don't want to hurt anyone especially a kid that I've know since grade school. It just doesn't help when even my mom tries talking me into giving him a chance. :S it's like mom stop right there lol


Yay, sure!

Ahhh, it's never easy for either of them because people will get hurt, even if you handle it in the nicest way possible. Props for doing that! - it's tempting to just make an excuse and avoid them. I, too, think it's better not to cut someone and rub it in.

You're right, it's hard not to feel bad about it. It's personal. Especially if you've known the guy for that long, there's more on the line than with someone you barely know. I get you'd rather you weren't so close.

Oh, mothers. They mean well, but the way they get into things sometimes...
If you don't feel that way about him, giving him a chance isn't going to change that. Actually, it'll make things worse because he'll think there might be a chance for you two, and you'll feel bad about having to reject him anyway.

It's a really awkward situation and I can't say I've never thought I could give them what they were looking for. That's what hurts the most.

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posted August 15, 2013 06:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Barbiegirl19     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
[QUOTE]Originally posted by meissieri:
[B] Yay, sure!

Ahhh, it's never easy for either of them because people will get hurt, even if you handle it in the nicest way possible. Props for doing that! - it's tempting to just make an excuse and avoid them. I, too, think it's better not to cut someone and rub it in.

You're right, it's hard not to feel bad about it. It's personal. Especially if you've known the guy for that long, there's more on the line than with someone you barely know. I get you'd rather you weren't so close.

Oh, mothers. They mean well, but the way they get into things sometimes...
If you don't feel that way about him, giving him a chance isn't going to change that. Actually, it'll make things worse because he'll think there might be a chance for you two, and you'll feel bad about having to reject him anyway.

It's a really awkward situation and I can't say I've never thought I could give them what they were looking for. That's what hurts the most.


Exactly. I mean we're still friends and I talk to him every now and then but until I know that he doesn't want anything to happen with me again I don't want to get as close as we were. And he's the kind of guy who won't tell me but you just now by his reaction to certain and things and the way he talks to me that he still likes me and its just so awful :S but hey I guess every now and then that's just what we'll have to deal with if we have friends of the opposite sex

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posted August 15, 2013 06:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
So I'm even more excited that you're tall too lol I've never ever dated anyone shorter than 5'9 and shockingly I've only dated interracially. I hate using that term because I just don't see color but unfortunately the world doesn't think the same way that I do.

interesting. I have never dated interracially, but I am attracted to women of all races. Honestly I have never dated a girl shorter than 5'5. I tend to be attracted to taller girls but shorter girls are cute too. Besides, I could see how dating a really short girl would be really fun.

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posted August 15, 2013 06:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Barbiegirl19     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've just always been attracted to and dated white guys. Never dated a black guy lol that's probably even more interesting sometimes I wish my were legs were a little longer but at the end of the day I love how tiny and petite I am

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posted August 15, 2013 06:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
I've just always been attracted to and dated white guys. Never dated a black guy lol that's probably even more interesting sometimes I wish my were legs were a little longer but at the end of the day I love how tiny and petite I am

Thats funny because black girls always seem to be attracted to me for whatever reason.

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posted August 15, 2013 06:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for meissieri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:

Exactly. I mean we're still friends and I talk to him every now and then but until I know that he doesn't want anything to happen with me again I don't want to get as close as we were. And he's the kind of guy who won't tell me but you just now by his reaction to certain and things and the way he talks to me that he still likes me and its just so awful :S but hey I guess every now and then that's just what we'll have to deal with if we have friends of the opposite sex


Once you know what to pay attention to, you're going to see it all the time. That can make knowing about someone's feelings so awkward, doesn't it? You try, and with some people it's easier to get back to normal than others. I don't know who it'd be easier with, though. It depends on the circumstances.

So you don't want to give him the idea you may change your mind, right? Yeah, you do get a lot of beautiful things for it. There's stuff about men that they can explain to me best just for being men. Both are important to me.

And to get back to jealousy, I do notice that some squares set off some quick moments of being bitter at someone now and then. Kind of like Doux, but I beat myself up for feeling that way, that I should be happy for others, etc. It's tiring, but gives me enough time to take a break, find something to put these feelings into (usually writing) and end up not taking it out on them (they don't deserve that) or even letting it on. As long as I don't hurt anyone else with it, I'm happy.

So, to those who are jealous: how do you cope?

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posted August 15, 2013 07:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Barbiegirl19     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Thats funny because black girls always seem to be attracted to me for whatever reason.

Hahahaha that is funny lol. Black people don't even consider me black my name literally fits me perfectly friend :P lmao

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posted August 15, 2013 07:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
Hahahaha that is funny lol. Black people don't even consider me black my name literally fits me perfectly friend :P lmao

haha. You are cute . You should email me sometime. my email is in my profile on here.

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posted August 15, 2013 07:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Hahahaha that is funny lol. Black people don't even consider me black my name literally fits me perfectly friend :P lmao

haha. You are cute . You should email me sometime. my email is in my profile on here.

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posted August 15, 2013 07:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Barbiegirl19     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
haha. You are cute . You should email me sometime. my email is in my profile on here.

I would love too

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posted August 15, 2013 07:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I would love too

Alright its right in my profile here. The link to a users profile is at the top of all their posts.

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posted August 15, 2013 07:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Barbiegirl19     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Alright its right in my profile here. The link to a users profile is at the top of all their posts.

Got it

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posted August 17, 2013 02:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
When's the wedding?

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posted August 20, 2013 02:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Zander916     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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When's the wedding?

Hahahahaha!! Awesome!
Excellent post Randall! I love it!


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posted August 20, 2013 09:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for StoneAgeQueen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm not jealous, I'm territorial.. *giggles*
Scorpio moon, Leo Venus and cancer sun here. He has to be all mine or I'll lose interest.

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posted August 20, 2013 02:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Barbiegirl19     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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When's the wedding?

Trust us you'd be the first person invited lmao

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posted August 20, 2013 02:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Barbiegirl19     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I'm not jealous, I'm territorial.. *giggles*
Scorpio moon, Leo Venus and cancer sun here. He has to be all mine or I'll lose interest.

Love that love hahahaha

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posted August 21, 2013 09:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm not jealous at all.

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posted October 02, 2014 02:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for fenia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
what happened to barbie and aqua?

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posted October 02, 2014 07:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DeepFreeze     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Nothing.
She married me.

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posted October 02, 2014 09:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BellaFenice     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
LOL ^ A twist in the plot!

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