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Topic: Jealousy!!
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aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 10022 From: Uranus Registered: Jan 2012
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posted August 15, 2013 04:46 PM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: Don't laugh but I'm 4''10 lol
you are tiny. I could give you a piggy back ride lol. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 4748 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 15, 2013 04:48 PM
I've only dated guys who were 6'2 or taller lol and they loved carrying me :P IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 10022 From: Uranus Registered: Jan 2012
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posted August 15, 2013 04:51 PM
haha I bet IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 4748 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 15, 2013 04:54 PM
So I'm even more excited that you're tall too lol I've never ever dated anyone shorter than 5'9 and shockingly I've only dated interracially. I hate using that term because I just don't see color but unfortunately the world doesn't think the same way that I do. IP: Logged |
meissieri Knowflake Posts: 1221 From: Chiron, Moon and Neptune with Saturn watching over them. Registered: Feb 2013
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posted August 15, 2013 05:54 PM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: Late joiners are just as welcome as all of us here I had a friend who really had and I believe still does have a huge crush on me. Even when he has a girlfriend. I think it's why I refrain from really seeing or being around him because I feel bad about. But at the same time I don't wanna add more fuel to flame and egg him on even more ya know. I'm a people pleaser I feel instant discomfort when someone isn't comfortable in a situation and really try to do all that I can to help people. But in this situation between he and I think in our case it would be better if we weren't close friends anymore. I don't want to hurt anyone especially a kid that I've know since grade school. It just doesn't help when even my mom tries talking me into giving him a chance. :S it's like mom stop right there lol
Yay, sure! Ahhh, it's never easy for either of them because people will get hurt, even if you handle it in the nicest way possible. Props for doing that! - it's tempting to just make an excuse and avoid them. I, too, think it's better not to cut someone and rub it in. You're right, it's hard not to feel bad about it. It's personal. Especially if you've known the guy for that long, there's more on the line than with someone you barely know. I get you'd rather you weren't so close. Oh, mothers. They mean well, but the way they get into things sometimes... If you don't feel that way about him, giving him a chance isn't going to change that. Actually, it'll make things worse because he'll think there might be a chance for you two, and you'll feel bad about having to reject him anyway. It's a really awkward situation and I can't say I've never thought I could give them what they were looking for. That's what hurts the most. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 4748 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 15, 2013 06:12 PM
[QUOTE]Originally posted by meissieri: [B] Yay, sure!Ahhh, it's never easy for either of them because people will get hurt, even if you handle it in the nicest way possible. Props for doing that! - it's tempting to just make an excuse and avoid them. I, too, think it's better not to cut someone and rub it in. You're right, it's hard not to feel bad about it. It's personal. Especially if you've known the guy for that long, there's more on the line than with someone you barely know. I get you'd rather you weren't so close. Oh, mothers. They mean well, but the way they get into things sometimes... If you don't feel that way about him, giving him a chance isn't going to change that. Actually, it'll make things worse because he'll think there might be a chance for you two, and you'll feel bad about having to reject him anyway. It's a really awkward situation and I can't say I've never thought I could give them what they were looking for. That's what hurts the most. Exactly. I mean we're still friends and I talk to him every now and then but until I know that he doesn't want anything to happen with me again I don't want to get as close as we were. And he's the kind of guy who won't tell me but you just now by his reaction to certain and things and the way he talks to me that he still likes me and its just so awful :S but hey I guess every now and then that's just what we'll have to deal with if we have friends of the opposite sex
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aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 10022 From: Uranus Registered: Jan 2012
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posted August 15, 2013 06:17 PM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: So I'm even more excited that you're tall too lol I've never ever dated anyone shorter than 5'9 and shockingly I've only dated interracially. I hate using that term because I just don't see color but unfortunately the world doesn't think the same way that I do.
interesting. I have never dated interracially, but I am attracted to women of all races. Honestly I have never dated a girl shorter than 5'5. I tend to be attracted to taller girls but shorter girls are cute too. Besides, I could see how dating a really short girl would be really fun. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 4748 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 15, 2013 06:32 PM
I've just always been attracted to and dated white guys. Never dated a black guy lol that's probably even more interesting sometimes I wish my were legs were a little longer but at the end of the day I love how tiny and petite I am IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 10022 From: Uranus Registered: Jan 2012
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posted August 15, 2013 06:45 PM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: I've just always been attracted to and dated white guys. Never dated a black guy lol that's probably even more interesting sometimes I wish my were legs were a little longer but at the end of the day I love how tiny and petite I am
Thats funny because black girls always seem to be attracted to me for whatever reason. IP: Logged |
meissieri Knowflake Posts: 1221 From: Chiron, Moon and Neptune with Saturn watching over them. Registered: Feb 2013
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posted August 15, 2013 06:49 PM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:Exactly. I mean we're still friends and I talk to him every now and then but until I know that he doesn't want anything to happen with me again I don't want to get as close as we were. And he's the kind of guy who won't tell me but you just now by his reaction to certain and things and the way he talks to me that he still likes me and its just so awful :S but hey I guess every now and then that's just what we'll have to deal with if we have friends of the opposite sex
Once you know what to pay attention to, you're going to see it all the time. That can make knowing about someone's feelings so awkward, doesn't it? You try, and with some people it's easier to get back to normal than others. I don't know who it'd be easier with, though. It depends on the circumstances. So you don't want to give him the idea you may change your mind, right? Yeah, you do get a lot of beautiful things for it. There's stuff about men that they can explain to me best just for being men. Both are important to me. And to get back to jealousy, I do notice that some squares set off some quick moments of being bitter at someone now and then. Kind of like Doux, but I beat myself up for feeling that way, that I should be happy for others, etc. It's tiring, but gives me enough time to take a break, find something to put these feelings into (usually writing) and end up not taking it out on them (they don't deserve that) or even letting it on. As long as I don't hurt anyone else with it, I'm happy. So, to those who are jealous: how do you cope? IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 4748 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 15, 2013 07:04 PM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: Thats funny because black girls always seem to be attracted to me for whatever reason.
Hahahaha that is funny lol. Black people don't even consider me black my name literally fits me perfectly friend :P lmao IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 10022 From: Uranus Registered: Jan 2012
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posted August 15, 2013 07:10 PM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: Hahahaha that is funny lol. Black people don't even consider me black my name literally fits me perfectly friend :P lmao
haha. You are cute . You should email me sometime. my email is in my profile on here. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 10022 From: Uranus Registered: Jan 2012
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posted August 15, 2013 07:11 PM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: Hahahaha that is funny lol. Black people don't even consider me black my name literally fits me perfectly friend :P lmao
haha. You are cute . You should email me sometime. my email is in my profile on here. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 4748 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 15, 2013 07:15 PM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: haha. You are cute . You should email me sometime. my email is in my profile on here.
I would love too IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 10022 From: Uranus Registered: Jan 2012
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posted August 15, 2013 07:18 PM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: I would love too
Alright its right in my profile here. The link to a users profile is at the top of all their posts. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 4748 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 15, 2013 07:35 PM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: Alright its right in my profile here. The link to a users profile is at the top of all their posts.
Got it IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 45957 From: Saturn next to Charmainec Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 17, 2013 02:11 PM
When's the wedding?IP: Logged |
Zander916 Knowflake Posts: 1070 From: Midwest Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 20, 2013 02:54 AM
quote: Originally posted by Randall: When's the wedding?
Hahahahaha!! Awesome! Excellent post Randall! I love it!
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StoneAgeQueen Knowflake Posts: 27 From: U.K Registered: May 2011
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posted August 20, 2013 09:29 AM
I'm not jealous, I'm territorial.. *giggles* Scorpio moon, Leo Venus and cancer sun here. He has to be all mine or I'll lose interest. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 4748 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 20, 2013 02:52 PM
quote: Originally posted by Randall: When's the wedding?
Trust us you'd be the first person invited lmao IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 4748 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 20, 2013 02:53 PM
quote: Originally posted by StoneAgeQueen: I'm not jealous, I'm territorial.. *giggles* Scorpio moon, Leo Venus and cancer sun here. He has to be all mine or I'll lose interest.
Love that love hahahaha IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 45957 From: Saturn next to Charmainec Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 21, 2013 09:26 PM
I'm not jealous at all.IP: Logged |
fenia Knowflake Posts: 161 From: Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 02, 2014 02:18 PM
what happened to barbie and aqua?------------------ Libra sun Aquarius asc Virgo moon Sag venus Cappy mars IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze Knowflake Posts: 3215 From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19 Registered: Nov 2013
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posted October 02, 2014 07:05 PM
Nothing. She married me. IP: Logged |
BellaFenice Knowflake Posts: 1506 From: Pseudo-Leo with a 1st House Stellium Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 02, 2014 09:29 PM
LOL ^ A twist in the plot! IP: Logged |