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Topic: Jealousy!!
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Padre35 Knowflake Posts: 3850 From: Asheville, NC, US Registered: Jul 2012
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posted August 14, 2013 09:30 PM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: I feel bad for people like that I just want to hug them and let them know that it's okay
Meh, suspect his innate inner qualities will win out tho, he's a good guy in an age group that offers disincentives for showing that behaviour, as time rolls along they shine more brightly. Assuming he learns the hard lessons now, and actually learns them via introspection and self correction. I'd see AG avoid the mile of brambles I had to muddle through, alas, youth is wasted on the young! IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 4748 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 14, 2013 09:30 PM
@AG okay cool I get it still doesn't give you any right to strong arm people and shove your opinions and beliefs down their throats. Chill out a little dude seriously IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 4748 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 14, 2013 09:32 PM
@Padre I'm a year younger and feel that I'm extremely mature for my age. But then again I am female as well so I guess that makes a difference as well lol IP: Logged |
ail221 Moderator Posts: 4991 From: Hanging Gardens of Babylon Registered: Feb 2012
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posted August 14, 2013 09:36 PM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: I feel bad for people like that I just want to hug them and let them know that it's okay
Don't hug them they might think you want to get married. o___O IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 4748 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 14, 2013 09:39 PM
@ail hahahahha oh how I don't want that any time soon lmao 😳😁IP: Logged |
Padre35 Knowflake Posts: 3850 From: Asheville, NC, US Registered: Jul 2012
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posted August 14, 2013 09:43 PM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: @Padre I'm a year younger and feel that I'm extremely mature for my age. But then again I am female as well so I guess that makes a difference as well lol
Women tend to mature earlier b/c, tbh, y'all are targets of guys early on, when some guys are playing video games others are pledging their eternal, undying love for Ms 13 yr old. Basically, imo, woman experience more things much faster and gain a very different world view from guys in a similar age group. Then in say mid 20's the scale sort of balances out, but to your OP, those experiences from say 16-23, basically teach men to trust no one when it comes to relationships and to become..very jealous on the whole, that imo is the start where men mostly learn being jealous is better then being trusting. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 4748 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 14, 2013 09:46 PM
quote: Originally posted by Padre35: Women tend to mature earlier b/c, tbh, y'all are targets of guys early on, when some guys are playing video games others are pledging their eternal, undying love for Ms 13 yr old.Basically, imo, woman experience more things much faster and gain a very different world view from guys in a similar age group. Then in say mid 20's the scale sort of balances out, but to your OP, those experiences from say 16-23, basically teach men to trust no one when it comes to relationships and to become..very jealous on the whole, that imo is the start where men mostly learn being jealous is better then being trusting.
Which in my opinion is sad really really sad. Thank God all guys aren't like that though or I think I'd just give myself completely to God and become a nun IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 4748 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 14, 2013 09:47 PM
Which I'm not saying I don't already it's just I'd completely give up on men. I'd never ever ever become a lesbian because I'm just not attracted to them in that way, shape or form at all. IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 6446 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 14, 2013 10:11 PM
Oh, I forgot: Aries Sun, Venus in Gemini.IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 10022 From: Uranus Registered: Jan 2012
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posted August 14, 2013 11:18 PM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: @AG okay cool I get it still doesn't give you any right to strong arm people and shove your opinions and beliefs down their throats. Chill out a little dude seriously
Who is strong arming and shoving their beliefs down peoples throats? its certainly not me. I simply offer my opinions and beliefs and people antagonize me for having my beliefs and I have to explain over and over again why I think and believe the way I do. I also have had to deal with a lot of catty remarks and for the most part I let it go in one ear and out the other. A lot of people on here view me as stubborn and headstrong and ill readily admit that I am both of those.However 90% of my stubborness displayed on here is brought on by all of you. Padre's comment about self reflection is applicable here too. The people of this forum need to realize that I have lived my own life, have had my own opinions, and have my own values and beliefs on different things. This is an internet forum and debates and disagreements are expected and encouraged. However there are times when people should just agree to disagree. The people who accuse me of orchestrating pointless arguments are just as responsible for these arguments because they continue to argue with me. I disagree with a lot of what people say here and most of the time I keep my mouth shut because I know arguing with the person would be pointless because they have their beliefs just like I have mine and that's ok! We are all different and that's what makes life interesting. I have no problems with people disagreeing with me but understand that I will disagree with you too. I will always give my honest opinion on any given subject, just expect it! I am actually a pretty reasonable guy even though most don't give me credit for it, if someone actually says something that makes sense to me ill agree with them and admit they are right, I do this all the time.However I am an Aquarius and I do tend to be fixed in my opinions and beliefs, this is basic astro people! lol So it is to be expected that I will always stand behind my opinions and beliefs and will disagree with those who think otherwise unless they can prove me wrong. And you can be dang sure I will always defend my integrity and character when people call them into question (this often happens because intolerant people here hate me for having my own opinion).Again this stuff is basic astro ... IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 4748 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 14, 2013 11:31 PM
@AG Well I'm really sorry that you have to deal with all of that. I commend you for not flipping on people. Something I'm sure alot of people would do especially when it's attacking your character. You're just very persistent and disagree and disagree and never just move on with it. You keep going and going and going. Which from another persons perspective who happens to be new you're not very approachable. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 10022 From: Uranus Registered: Jan 2012
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posted August 14, 2013 11:39 PM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: @AG Well I'm really sorry that you have to deal with all of that. I commend you for not flipping on people. Something I'm sure alot of people would do especially when it's attacking your character. You're just very persistent and disagree and disagree and never just move on with it. You keep going and going and going. Which from another persons perspective who happens to be new you're not very approachable.
Yes I do but people also insist on verbally disagreeing with,its a two way street. Oh sorry, I'm really nice.
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Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 4748 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 14, 2013 11:41 PM
Well that's good to know I am too we're air signs it's our nature IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 10022 From: Uranus Registered: Jan 2012
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posted August 14, 2013 11:48 PM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: Well that's good to know I am too we're air signs it's our nature
I saw. Libra is my favorite sign IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 4748 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 14, 2013 11:50 PM
@AG oh ya whys that? Is it because we like yourself are so argumentative lol IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 10022 From: Uranus Registered: Jan 2012
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posted August 14, 2013 11:56 PM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: @AG oh ya whys that? Is it because we like yourself are so argumentative lol
No my Libra ex girlfriend never disagreed with me and she was cute. :P IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 4748 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 15, 2013 12:00 AM
😜😝😛 I like to think that I'm cute as well. I can't say that I wouldn't disagree with you if we dated lol IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 4748 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 15, 2013 12:01 AM
Who knows maybe we're each others Twin Flame lol IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 10022 From: Uranus Registered: Jan 2012
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posted August 15, 2013 12:04 AM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: 😜😝😛 I like to think that I'm cute as well. I can't say that I wouldn't disagree with you if we dated lol
Well saying that we never disagreed was prolly a stretch. I will say that I never recall being angry or annoyed at her. this was probably due to synastry. All her planets from sun out to jupiter trined my venus. In a sense she somewhat healed by badly afflicted venus. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 4748 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 15, 2013 12:07 AM
Awe your venus isn't bad at all at least you're not scorpio. I mean I love it I do it just doesn't help me most of the time unfortunately. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 4748 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 15, 2013 12:08 AM
Most of the time I feel like I'm too deep and passionate. I can't tell if its a good or a bad thing 😣IP: Logged |
Padre35 Knowflake Posts: 3850 From: Asheville, NC, US Registered: Jul 2012
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posted August 15, 2013 12:10 AM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: Awe your venus isn't bad at all at least you're not scorpio. I mean I love it I do it just doesn't help me most of the time unfortunately.
Eh, I'm Scorpio Venus/Mars/Jupiter, and think much of the aura surrounding those placements is highly highly overrated. If anything, it manifests as being really sincere with someone I'm interested in. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 10022 From: Uranus Registered: Jan 2012
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posted August 15, 2013 12:12 AM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: Awe your venus isn't bad at all at least you're not scorpio. I mean I love it I do it just doesn't help me most of the time unfortunately.
My Venus is Aquarius but it squares Pluto , the moon, and mars. it also quincunxes Chiron exactly. Pluto also touches my sun, moon, and ascendant. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 4748 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 15, 2013 12:12 AM
Well I feel for me having my Pluto in scorpio doesn't help either 😁. I love my intensity I just get afraid that someone else may not like it or appreciate it as much ya know what I mean IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 10022 From: Uranus Registered: Jan 2012
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posted August 15, 2013 12:13 AM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: Most of the time I feel like I'm too deep and passionate. I can't tell if its a good or a bad thing 😣
I am too but most people who meet me irl would never know it. IP: Logged |