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FruitTreeFresh
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posted August 25, 2013 02:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for FruitTreeFresh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Are there any early signs that a relationship or a young marriage will be or will not be free of cheating, affairs and scams? The idiosyncrasy of your SO?

In this world there are physical affairs, emotional affairs so and so forth. How can we prevent them from happening?

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posted August 25, 2013 08:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mockingbird     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You can't control others or account for all possibilities.

You can only be with someone you love trust and who loves and trusts you in return.

The only way to ensure that you're never hurt is to never make yourself vulnerable.

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YoursTrulyAlways
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posted August 25, 2013 10:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for YoursTrulyAlways     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You can't control actions on the other side, but you can take action on your side to mitigate that exogenous risk.

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Ami Anne
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posted August 25, 2013 10:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
You can't control actions on the other side, but you can take action on your side to mitigate that exogenous risk.

Well said and you have a great marriage so your words mean a great deal

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YoursTrulyAlways
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posted August 25, 2013 10:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for YoursTrulyAlways     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Let me out this in simple talk.

It's my natural testosterone based instinct to wake up, not brush my teeth, not comb my hair, not shave, not use deodorant and not change my t-shirt which I wore for a whole week. And I expect my wife to have this dying urge to boink me? then, the Latin gardener may start looking attractive to my wife. Hahahahaha.

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FruitTreeFresh
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posted August 25, 2013 10:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for FruitTreeFresh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Let me out this in simple talk.

It's my natural testosterone based instinct to wake up, not brush my teeth, not comb my hair, not shave, not use deodorant and not change my t-shirt which I wore for a whole week. And I expect my wife to have this dying urge to boink me? then, the Latin gardener may start looking attractive to my wife. Hahahahaha.


hahahahah! YTA, how did you know your wife is the one?

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libraschoice77
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posted August 25, 2013 11:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for libraschoice77     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Randall
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posted August 25, 2013 07:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sadly, a cheater will cheat no matter what.

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YoursTrulyAlways
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posted August 25, 2013 10:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for YoursTrulyAlways     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by FruitTreeFresh:
hahahahah! YTA, how did you know your wife is the one?

That's a long story, but lets not talk about me. Lets talk about you. Beyond the preliminary looks, charm, charisma, intelligence and all that jazz, you soon get down to brass tacks.

There must be commonality in outlook, values, beliefs, interests, upbringing, social background, objectives, desire for children, desire to be close or away from family etc. Think of linking up a human organ with a recipient. Yes, there is the need for the same blood type, but beyond that there are a million compatibility factors You can never bring two people together whom ought not to be together.

Take it any way you like. My wife has pale white skin. I have a deep South Pacific tan. Yet, we are as compatible as mixing coffee and water. Try mixing oil and water.

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Zander916
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posted August 26, 2013 01:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Zander916     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm not as good at Astrology as most here. However, I don't think you can look at a chart and know, or even look at a synastry between people and know.
There's just so many variables, with transits, etc. Other people that cross our paths and it could be something unrelated. Maybe it's money and not so much romance. Just saying... my .02

I can't remember what it was but there's something in my 12th, probably Venus or Mars (I have both) that said I could cheat. I'm gettin on with age and I haven't cheated. I've had a few relationships is what I'm gettin' at.

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FruitTreeFresh
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posted August 26, 2013 06:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for FruitTreeFresh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@zander, why a few relationships? Love seems to have lost its meaning.

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Ami Anne
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posted August 26, 2013 07:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Zander916:
I'm not as good at Astrology as most here. However, I don't think you can look at a chart and know, or even look at a synastry between people and know.
There's just so many variables, with transits, etc. Other people that cross our paths and it could be something unrelated. Maybe it's money and not so much romance. Just saying... my .02

I can't remember what it was but there's something in my 12th, probably Venus or Mars (I have both) that said I could cheat. I'm gettin on with age and I haven't cheated. I've had a few relationships is what I'm gettin' at.



I wonder what they meant? I don't see Venus in the 12th as a Cheater. Does anyone else?

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YoursTrulyAlways
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posted August 26, 2013 08:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for YoursTrulyAlways     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:

I wonder what they meant? I don't see Venus in the 12th as a Cheater. Does anyone else?



This is confusing and perplexing.

This one pretty much says it does.
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/013645.html

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Ami Anne
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posted August 26, 2013 08:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, if there is a synastry of a 12th house overlay, it may be a hidden relationship but I see venus in the 12th as more afraid to put his love out there. Ask on Astro 2, Ian, and see what people say.

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FruitTreeFresh
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posted August 26, 2013 08:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for FruitTreeFresh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well actually cheating wasn't the crux to my fury, rather those people who enjoy stringing others along.

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FruitTreeFresh
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posted August 26, 2013 08:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for FruitTreeFresh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
That's a long story, but lets not talk about me. Lets talk about you. Beyond the preliminary looks, charm, charisma, intelligence and all that jazz, you soon get down to brass tacks.

There must be commonality in outlook, values, beliefs, interests, upbringing, social background, objectives, desire for children, desire to be close or away from family etc. Think of linking up a human organ with a recipient. Yes, there is the need for the same blood type, but beyond that there are a million compatibility factors You can never bring two people together whom ought not to be together.

Take it any way you like. My wife has pale white skin. I have a deep South Pacific tan. Yet, we are as compatible as mixing coffee and water. Try mixing oil and water.


since this is an astrology forum, let's study base on the stars theory.

does your wifey has the same venus as your moon or moon = moon or sun = moon, etc?

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YoursTrulyAlways
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posted August 26, 2013 08:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for YoursTrulyAlways     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by FruitTreeFresh:
since this is an astrology forum, let's study base on the stars theory.

does your wifey has the same venus as your moon or moon = moon or sun = moon, etc?


Same moon. Gemini. No conjunction.

Knock yourself out.
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FruitTreeFresh
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posted August 26, 2013 10:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for FruitTreeFresh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
goodness. my countrymen. in this forum.

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YoursTrulyAlways
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posted August 26, 2013 10:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for YoursTrulyAlways     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by FruitTreeFresh:
goodness. my countrymen. in this forum.

There's another one around here. She's lilithpluto.

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charmainec
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posted August 28, 2013 06:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for charmainec     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Let me out this in simple talk.

It's my natural testosterone based instinct to wake up, not brush my teeth, not comb my hair, not shave, not use deodorant and not change my t-shirt which I wore for a whole week. And I expect my wife to have this dying urge to boink me? then, the Latin gardener may start looking attractive to my wife. Hahahahaha.


Good one. Hahaha!

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