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Barbiegirl19
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posted November 26, 2013 11:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Barbiegirl19     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't understand the need or want to be mean to someone and not being acceptable of other people's opinions.... Why can't we all be nice and happy

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Ellynlvx
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posted November 26, 2013 11:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ellynlvx     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I certainly have been shocked at the nastiness on this site, as a Metaphysically Based Centre, you would definitely expect a lot more decency.

Is it that there are too many money-changers in the Temple?

(Competition; I mean, not you, YTA.)

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somethingexcellent
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posted November 26, 2013 11:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for somethingexcellent     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think things are pretty balanced. Maybe something about you just attracts negative attention?

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Ellynlvx
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posted November 26, 2013 11:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ellynlvx     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think Barbie is very cool.

It's important for people to be kind to one another when they are on the Path.

Divergent viewpoints is one thing, but just plain nastiness for no obvious reason isn't good for anyone.

I mean, look at Karka, would anyone want to be responsible for her feeling like that?

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YoursTrulyAlways
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posted November 26, 2013 12:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for YoursTrulyAlways     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hold you head up high. Why would you care about your opinions being accepted? Stand firmly by what you believe. As for the rest, deep six.

I didn't get to where I have gotten to without trusting myself and without ignoring the naysayers.

"Nice and happy" is a utopian myth. The person who is "nice and happy" would be the person that takes advantage of you and then tosses you like a used napkin.

And nobody ain't be seeing no aggressiveness yet. I come from the hell hole called NYC, and this sh1t show central is the holy grail of aggressive behavior.

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Ami Anne
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posted November 26, 2013 01:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think any community has certain dynamics and LL is not unique.

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posted November 26, 2013 01:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Hold you head up high. Why would you care about your opinions being accepted? Stand firmly by what you believe. As for the rest, deep six.

I didn't get to where I have gotten to without trusting myself and without ignoring the naysayers.

"Nice and happy" is a utopian myth. The person who is "nice and happy" would be the person that takes advantage of you and then tosses you like a used napkin.

And nobody ain't be seeing no aggressiveness yet. I come from the hell hole called NYC, and this sh1t show central is the holy grail of aggressive behavior.



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posted November 26, 2013 01:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It happens all over the internet. I've felt at home here before, and I've felt shunned, as well. I don't belong to a clique, and never did (I've seen talk of them in other threads - it seems to be a common thing for people to think about others, even those who are thought to be in said cliques).

Someone was rude to me the other night, on FB, when I was only trying to help them out with something. This is a person who was supposedly all about love - but she was, quite frankly, a passive-aggressive... I'll let you fill in the rest.

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posted November 26, 2013 02:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ellynlvx     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Nuff Said.

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posted November 26, 2013 02:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ellynlvx:
Nuff Said.

This woman had been egging me on for several months. She kept talking about love - love was all that was needed - and then she would follow something I'd said, going the opposite way, just to be contrary. So I feel that way about her *now*.

I feel more aggressive now. I have done for over a year now, and I haven't hidden it, but hardly anyone brings it out in me. And as you said, I wouldn't want to be responsible for anyone to feel the way Karka mentioned. I feel that way a lot now myself, based on happenings in my life, and the way I've been treated, and this woman was deliberately adding to that. Deliberately. So I now get to call her a name.

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posted November 26, 2013 04:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Why can't we all be nice and happy

You already know the answer to that

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posted November 26, 2013 07:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Barbiegirl19     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by somethingexcellent:
I think things are pretty balanced. Maybe something about you just attracts negative attention?

Go away

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Barbiegirl19
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posted November 26, 2013 07:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Barbiegirl19     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ellynlvx:
I think Barbie is very cool.

It's important for people to be kind to one another when they are on the Path.

Divergent viewpoints is one thing, but just plain nastiness for no obvious reason isn't good for anyone.

I mean, look at Karka, would anyone want to be responsible for her feeling like that?


Aweee thank you. I think you're very cool too I don't understand what's so hard about keeping nasty comments and attitude to yourself. It's not that hard to smile and think positively, or is it...? Lol not for me at least.

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posted November 26, 2013 07:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Barbiegirl19     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Hold you head up high. Why would you care about your opinions being accepted? Stand firmly by what you believe. As for the rest, deep six.

I didn't get to where I have gotten to without trusting myself and without ignoring the naysayers.

"Nice and happy" is a utopian myth. The person who is "nice and happy" would be the person that takes advantage of you and then tosses you like a used napkin.

And nobody ain't be seeing no aggressiveness yet. I come from the hell hole called NYC, and this sh1t show central is the holy grail of aggressive behavior.


Oh trust me they are not bothering me at all. Lol I just feel bad. I wish I could share my happiness. Thank you for the wonderful tips though

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posted November 26, 2013 07:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Barbiegirl19     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by teasel:
It happens all over the internet. I've felt at home here before, and I've felt shunned, as well. I don't belong to a clique, and never did (I've seen talk of them in other threads - it seems to be a common thing for people to think about others, even those who are thought to be in said cliques).

Someone was rude to me the other night, on FB, when I was only trying to help them out with something. This is a person who was supposedly all about love - but she was, quite frankly, a passive-aggressive... I'll let you fill in the rest.


I've completely ignores Facebook lol. I don't even bothering going on it anymore because all you get all the time is people talking about things that should never ever be on there

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Barbiegirl19
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posted November 26, 2013 07:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Barbiegirl19     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Odette:
You already know the answer to that

Hahahaa I know I know. I was just being a brat when I said that lol. Everybody can't be a Libra I guess jk jk

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posted November 26, 2013 07:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
I've completely ignores Facebook lol. I don't even bothering going on it anymore because all you get all the time is people talking about things that should never ever be on there

LOL! I actually like seeing my friends on there, and a few family members, but I have also thought, "Do I really need to put that on there?" when I almost posted something. It feels good to have less of myself out there.

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posted November 26, 2013 09:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 12muddy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sometimes people express their opinions with a lot of passion and it can come across as aggressive, lol and plus, you know how things are on the internet.

It takes a lot of effort to be nice. Sometimes I just can't be bothered.

The dynamic of LL is ok. There isn't much aggression here, compared to some other sites. When I first registered and started to post, I was actually quite surprised. That's why I'm still here lol.

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posted November 26, 2013 10:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Aggressive women? I haven't noticed.

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posted November 26, 2013 10:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Aggressive women? I haven't noticed.

If you don't see them, they must not be here

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posted November 26, 2013 10:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kerosene     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Maybe you take things too personally... too sensitive?
I don't think anyone has even insulted you besides me criticizing your taste in fashion
I have noticed in threads you assume people are arguing with you while they are simply stating their own opinion which happens to oppose yours...

You don't really argue but just thumbs up posts that you like..
Idk why you even feel attacked 0_o'..

I remember I was arguing with sss about venus vs neptune while you were just liking her posts than and you just randomly called me mean just because I don't like Venus as much as Neptune LOL.
damn girl...

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PixieJane
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posted November 26, 2013 10:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I have noticed in threads you assume people are arguing with you while they are simply stating their own opinion which happens to oppose yours

I've noticed this, too.

Still, it's not hard to guess which thread inspired this one.

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Barbiegirl19
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posted November 26, 2013 11:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Barbiegirl19     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by PixieJane:
I've noticed this, too.

Still, it's not hard to guess which thread inspired this one.


I don't understand lol but okay...no one is taking anything any of you say seriously but okay lol.

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Barbiegirl19
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posted November 26, 2013 11:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Barbiegirl19     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Maybe you take things too personally... too sensitive?
I don't think anyone has even insulted you besides me criticizing your taste in fashion
I have noticed in threads you assume people are arguing with you while they are simply stating their own opinion which happens to oppose yours...

You don't really argue but just thumbs up posts that you like..
Idk why you even feel attacked 0_o'..

I remember I was arguing with sss about venus vs neptune while you were just liking her posts than and you just randomly called me mean just because I don't like Venus as much as Neptune LOL.
damn girl...



Whaaaat are you talking about lol. The reason for the topic is because there are some people on this forum who are ridiculous..... I called you mean because you were being a ******* ******* .....

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posted November 26, 2013 11:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CatMote     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
oh no...the aries and libra opposite is becoming apparent :O hahah

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