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Topic: What's with all of the aggressive women here!? Lol
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Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 2572 From: 🔮 Registered: Jul 2013
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posted November 26, 2013 11:37 AM
I don't understand the need or want to be mean to someone and not being acceptable of other people's opinions.... Why can't we all be nice and happy IP: Logged |
Ellynlvx Knowflake Posts: 3295 From: Mountain Gate Registered: Aug 2013
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posted November 26, 2013 11:46 AM
I certainly have been shocked at the nastiness on this site, as a Metaphysically Based Centre, you would definitely expect a lot more decency.Is it that there are too many money-changers in the Temple? (Competition; I mean, not you, YTA.) IP: Logged |
somethingexcellent Knowflake Posts: 4122 From: vodka fine, I'm so divine Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 26, 2013 11:50 AM
I think things are pretty balanced. Maybe something about you just attracts negative attention? IP: Logged |
Ellynlvx Knowflake Posts: 3295 From: Mountain Gate Registered: Aug 2013
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posted November 26, 2013 11:53 AM
I think Barbie is very cool.It's important for people to be kind to one another when they are on the Path. Divergent viewpoints is one thing, but just plain nastiness for no obvious reason isn't good for anyone. I mean, look at Karka, would anyone want to be responsible for her feeling like that?
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YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 6617 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 26, 2013 12:09 PM
Hold you head up high. Why would you care about your opinions being accepted? Stand firmly by what you believe. As for the rest, deep six.I didn't get to where I have gotten to without trusting myself and without ignoring the naysayers. "Nice and happy" is a utopian myth. The person who is "nice and happy" would be the person that takes advantage of you and then tosses you like a used napkin. And nobody ain't be seeing no aggressiveness yet. I come from the hell hole called NYC, and this sh1t show central is the holy grail of aggressive behavior. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 50887 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted November 26, 2013 01:35 PM
I think any community has certain dynamics and LL is not unique.------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 50887 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted November 26, 2013 01:36 PM
quote: Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways: Hold you head up high. Why would you care about your opinions being accepted? Stand firmly by what you believe. As for the rest, deep six.I didn't get to where I have gotten to without trusting myself and without ignoring the naysayers. "Nice and happy" is a utopian myth. The person who is "nice and happy" would be the person that takes advantage of you and then tosses you like a used napkin. And nobody ain't be seeing no aggressiveness yet. I come from the hell hole called NYC, and this sh1t show central is the holy grail of aggressive behavior.
------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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teasel Knowflake Posts: 5898 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 26, 2013 01:51 PM
It happens all over the internet. I've felt at home here before, and I've felt shunned, as well. I don't belong to a clique, and never did (I've seen talk of them in other threads - it seems to be a common thing for people to think about others, even those who are thought to be in said cliques).Someone was rude to me the other night, on FB, when I was only trying to help them out with something. This is a person who was supposedly all about love - but she was, quite frankly, a passive-aggressive... I'll let you fill in the rest. IP: Logged |
Ellynlvx Knowflake Posts: 3295 From: Mountain Gate Registered: Aug 2013
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posted November 26, 2013 02:12 PM
Nuff Said.IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 5898 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 26, 2013 02:17 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ellynlvx: Nuff Said.
This woman had been egging me on for several months. She kept talking about love - love was all that was needed - and then she would follow something I'd said, going the opposite way, just to be contrary. So I feel that way about her *now*. I feel more aggressive now. I have done for over a year now, and I haven't hidden it, but hardly anyone brings it out in me. And as you said, I wouldn't want to be responsible for anyone to feel the way Karka mentioned. I feel that way a lot now myself, based on happenings in my life, and the way I've been treated, and this woman was deliberately adding to that. Deliberately. So I now get to call her a name. IP: Logged |
Odette Knowflake Posts: 3269 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted November 26, 2013 04:13 PM
quote: Why can't we all be nice and happy
You already know the answer to that
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Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 2572 From: 🔮 Registered: Jul 2013
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posted November 26, 2013 07:20 PM
quote: Originally posted by somethingexcellent: I think things are pretty balanced. Maybe something about you just attracts negative attention?
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Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 2572 From: 🔮 Registered: Jul 2013
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posted November 26, 2013 07:22 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ellynlvx: I think Barbie is very cool.It's important for people to be kind to one another when they are on the Path. Divergent viewpoints is one thing, but just plain nastiness for no obvious reason isn't good for anyone. I mean, look at Karka, would anyone want to be responsible for her feeling like that?
Aweee thank you. I think you're very cool too I don't understand what's so hard about keeping nasty comments and attitude to yourself. It's not that hard to smile and think positively, or is it...? Lol not for me at least. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 2572 From: 🔮 Registered: Jul 2013
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posted November 26, 2013 07:23 PM
quote: Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways: Hold you head up high. Why would you care about your opinions being accepted? Stand firmly by what you believe. As for the rest, deep six.I didn't get to where I have gotten to without trusting myself and without ignoring the naysayers. "Nice and happy" is a utopian myth. The person who is "nice and happy" would be the person that takes advantage of you and then tosses you like a used napkin. And nobody ain't be seeing no aggressiveness yet. I come from the hell hole called NYC, and this sh1t show central is the holy grail of aggressive behavior.
Oh trust me they are not bothering me at all. Lol I just feel bad. I wish I could share my happiness. Thank you for the wonderful tips though IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 2572 From: 🔮 Registered: Jul 2013
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posted November 26, 2013 07:25 PM
quote: Originally posted by teasel: It happens all over the internet. I've felt at home here before, and I've felt shunned, as well. I don't belong to a clique, and never did (I've seen talk of them in other threads - it seems to be a common thing for people to think about others, even those who are thought to be in said cliques).Someone was rude to me the other night, on FB, when I was only trying to help them out with something. This is a person who was supposedly all about love - but she was, quite frankly, a passive-aggressive... I'll let you fill in the rest.
I've completely ignores Facebook lol. I don't even bothering going on it anymore because all you get all the time is people talking about things that should never ever be on there IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 2572 From: 🔮 Registered: Jul 2013
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posted November 26, 2013 07:26 PM
quote: Originally posted by Odette: You already know the answer to that
Hahahaa I know I know. I was just being a brat when I said that lol. Everybody can't be a Libra I guess jk jk IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 5898 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 26, 2013 07:31 PM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: I've completely ignores Facebook lol. I don't even bothering going on it anymore because all you get all the time is people talking about things that should never ever be on there
LOL! I actually like seeing my friends on there, and a few family members, but I have also thought, "Do I really need to put that on there?" when I almost posted something. It feels good to have less of myself out there. IP: Logged |
12muddy Knowflake Posts: 1282 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted November 26, 2013 09:58 PM
Sometimes people express their opinions with a lot of passion and it can come across as aggressive, lol and plus, you know how things are on the internet. It takes a lot of effort to be nice. Sometimes I just can't be bothered. The dynamic of LL is ok. There isn't much aggression here, compared to some other sites. When I first registered and started to post, I was actually quite surprised. That's why I'm still here lol. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 8225 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted November 26, 2013 10:01 PM
Aggressive women? I haven't noticed.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 50887 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted November 26, 2013 10:06 PM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: Aggressive women? I haven't noticed.
If you don't see them, they must not be here ------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 8081 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted November 26, 2013 10:18 PM
Maybe you take things too personally... too sensitive? I don't think anyone has even insulted you besides me criticizing your taste in fashion I have noticed in threads you assume people are arguing with you while they are simply stating their own opinion which happens to oppose yours...You don't really argue but just thumbs up posts that you like.. Idk why you even feel attacked 0_o'.. I remember I was arguing with sss about venus vs neptune while you were just liking her posts than and you just randomly called me mean just because I don't like Venus as much as Neptune LOL. damn girl... IP: Logged |
PixieJane Moderator Posts: 3539 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted November 26, 2013 10:49 PM
quote: Originally posted by Kerosene: I have noticed in threads you assume people are arguing with you while they are simply stating their own opinion which happens to oppose yours
I've noticed this, too. Still, it's not hard to guess which thread inspired this one. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 2572 From: 🔮 Registered: Jul 2013
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posted November 26, 2013 11:37 PM
quote: Originally posted by PixieJane: I've noticed this, too. Still, it's not hard to guess which thread inspired this one.
I don't understand lol but okay...no one is taking anything any of you say seriously but okay lol. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 2572 From: 🔮 Registered: Jul 2013
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posted November 26, 2013 11:39 PM
quote: Originally posted by Kerosene: Maybe you take things too personally... too sensitive? I don't think anyone has even insulted you besides me criticizing your taste in fashion I have noticed in threads you assume people are arguing with you while they are simply stating their own opinion which happens to oppose yours...You don't really argue but just thumbs up posts that you like.. Idk why you even feel attacked 0_o'.. I remember I was arguing with sss about venus vs neptune while you were just liking her posts than and you just randomly called me mean just because I don't like Venus as much as Neptune LOL. damn girl...
Whaaaat are you talking about lol. The reason for the topic is because there are some people on this forum who are ridiculous..... I called you mean because you were being a ******* ******* .....
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CatMote Knowflake Posts: 592 From: Fighting Neptune for his trident Registered: Apr 2013
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posted November 26, 2013 11:42 PM
oh no...the aries and libra opposite is becoming apparent :O hahah ------------------ Sun Aries Moon Pisces Mars Pisces Venus Pisces Mercury Aries Jupiter in Virgo Saturn in Aquarius Pluto in Scorpio Neptune and Uranus in Capricorn Ascendant Libra IP: Logged |