posted March 01, 2014 11:12 AM            

I remember when first I came, and you were there for me, no matter how it came out.

I know it is often difficult to deal with things, I have trouble myS-elf.

To be perfectly honest, this site needs people like you, whether you realize your worth or not.

So this Threads for You.

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posted March 01, 2014 12:36 PM            

I was thinking about what Odette wrong about maturity. To be a full person, you need all sides of you. You need to accept all sides of you. Some are not pretty. Some are.

In maturing, you have to fail to mature. You have to fight to realize you can walk away.

You have to bear resentment and dislike to realize you can let it go.

All these many seeming ironies help you to grow and to develop the character you desire.

I desire to have a fine character. I don't think you can do it without a lot of scars from screwing up.

I have them and if someone wants to look, they can find them, but if you are looking so hard, what does that say about you

PS Gemini Humor!

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posted March 01, 2014 12:54 PM            

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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
It's just a name Ami. It's not like you're accused of murder.
Yes I came here because you always have to be childish, get your last word in and close threads so that no one else can say a word.

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You can have your opinion. That is fine. No one likes everyone or likes how everyone does things.

I am surprised at your level of hostility because you wrote me several e mails and I felt we had a nice relationship and that you confided in me when you were bullied on here and upset.

I felt like I helped you and you appreciated that.

Anyway, the fact remains that if you don't like me, that is cool, as long as you are respectful, so take care.

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posted March 01, 2014 12:56 PM            

I myself am a firm believer in "tough love". I will not give my friends what they want. I will give them what I think they need. I think that is a greater kindness. That is not to say that we do not need both criticism and kind words... But people play different roles in each others lives.

posted March 01, 2014 01:00 PM            

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Originally posted by Sibyl:
I don't know what you believe in Ami, but I believe that sometimes, the people we should be most thankful for are the people who give us the hardest time. They are the people who challenge us and make us grow. Either because we realize that we have been wrong, because we learn how to handle a difficult situation, or because we needed to learn something about ourselves in how we faced the trial. I believe that everyone comes into our lives for a reason. And I think that there is often more caring in criticism than there is in sweet words. The first is difficult, after all. The latter is not.

I myself am a firm believer in "tough love". I will not give my friends what they want. I will give them what I think they need. I think that is a greater kindness. That is not to say that we do not need both criticism and kind words... But people play different roles in each others lives.

I think it is great that you accept yourself. So should you! It is a beautiful thing. Personally, I think I'm perfect. Oh I have thousands of imperfections and I'm working on them (which is important)... But I love them too. It's so infinitely liberating to be able to fully accept yourself. It makes life's trials seem so much more manageable.

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Lovely words, S. You are an inspiring person to me, in the little I have seen of you. I hope I see much more

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posted March 01, 2014 01:01 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
You can have your opinion. That is fine. No one likes everyone or likes how everyone does things.

I am surprised at your level of hostility because you wrote me several e mails and I felt we had a nice relationship and that you confided in me when you were bullied on here and upset.

I felt like I helped you and you appreciated that.

Anyway, the fact remains that if you don't like me, that is cool, as long as you are respectful, so take care.

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posted March 01, 2014 01:04 PM            

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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
Hostility?
What are you smoking?

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posted March 01, 2014 01:06 PM            

I reached out to you and tried to help you. We became friends or so I thought.

That meant something to me and I don't diss my friends or people who have been good to me when I was hurting so I am surprised you would go after me like this.

It is low character to attack someone just because someone else does. You have to make your own decisions, not follow someone else blindly.

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posted March 01, 2014 01:16 PM            

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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
It just goes to show what kind of person you are Ami to even bring up why he emailed you. That was a private matter between you and him. Obviously he wasn't too much of a "friend" if you felt the need to try belittling him. I'm done I won't comment or talk to you again.

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posted March 01, 2014 01:39 PM            

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Originally posted by Ellynlvx:
But Ami, you are not always objective when closing Threads, and that causes resentment when you are being unfair.

That may be DeepFreeze's view, I don't know...

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Exactly.

I don't see as attacking you. (maybe I'm wrong?)
All that bullying that I had was in the very very beginning. Waaaaaaaaaaay back. (before the Nov date that is listed under my name)
Also, it's not like I owe you anything for talking to me anyway. I appreciate it and I think it's great for you to do so.
But I'll tell my own mother if I think she's wrong. People who know me in person know that it's just my Libra coming out.
I do tell my mom if I think she's wrong and she knows that I'm not trying to be mean. Not that I would expect you to have that kind of understanding because well... that's people like my family.
I say that just so that you know it's not like some kind of fight for your life. I'm frustrated with the way that you handle things and I'm telling you.

You often tell people to learn to ignore things and how much it will help them. Well, closing threads the way you do after getting your last word is not ignoring, it's running away which does nothing to help you to learn to deal with them.

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posted March 01, 2014 03:10 PM            

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Originally posted by Ellynlvx:
I sensed that, that's partly why I made this Thread.

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I hear you Ellyn. I was in a lot of pain thinking about when I came on LL and being called a liar on top of it made me on go tilt.

That was prolly what caused my closing the thread. You were right!

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