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Topic: one of my mortal enemies has kidney failure?
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whitewitch111
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posted May 30, 2014 01:34 PM
  
I just found out. She posted a thing on facebook for to raise three thousand dollars or her. She was horrible to me in high school, she quite literally made my life a living hell.... Calling me awful names and such. And I'm not glad, but I don't see myself pitying her...is this bad???IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen
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posted May 30, 2014 01:41 PM
 How delicious it is when your archnemesis has gotten their own medicine. muahahahahah  IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted May 30, 2014 01:44 PM
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Originally posted by whitewitch111:
I just found out. She posted a thing on facebook for to raise three thousand dollars or her. She was horrible to me in high school, she quite literally made my life a living hell.... Calling me awful names and such. And I'm not glad, but I don't see myself pitying her...is this bad???
Hate to say it but it's not bad. It's a natural response to an enemy.
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whitewitch111
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posted May 30, 2014 01:44 PM
oh...I'm not happy about it.  But I must say she was very mean to me...IP: Logged |
whitewitch111
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posted May 30, 2014 01:45 PM
LOL KARKA!!! Professor Farnsworth! HAHA!! XDIP: Logged |
whitewitch111
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posted May 30, 2014 01:47 PM
I feel like I should pity her, but the way she made me feel...I attempted suicide because of her, so it's like she emotionally made me die, and now she's physically going to die...I'm not glad by any means, but I'm not shedding tears nor am I unhappy about it. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted May 30, 2014 01:49 PM
OMG Karka LOLYou are in rare form, these days. I will be honest. People who hurt me do seem to have things go wrong for them. I don't wish it. I just pull back and sooner or later, it seems to happen. As far as how you are feeling, it is prolly a human emotion but we do feel guilty and that is prolly why you asked the question. ------------------
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whitewitch111
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posted May 30, 2014 01:51 PM
Did I bring it about though? For years I prayed to my Goddess to let her have a taste of her own medicine. But I didn't expect this to happen. Do you think my wish for her to be punished manifested?IP: Logged |
whitewitch111
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posted May 30, 2014 01:52 PM
mmmm...no that's probably stupid to say, but...I don't know...IP: Logged |
whitewitch111
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posted May 30, 2014 01:54 PM
I mean we had friends in common and there would be times I would be talking to them and she would make loud coughing noises on purpose. And she would always say ewww...when she passed me. The thing is I never did anything to deserve it. I think why she didn't like me was because in eighth grade I was going through a bad break up and told some people I was pregnant, so they'd all go after my ex...I mean don't judge me please...I was in a very bad state...It was my first relationship, I lost my virginity to him. I think she thought I was stupid for this. But still, you don't make someone's life a living hell for four years, especially when it has nothing to do with you...IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted May 30, 2014 02:05 PM
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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
How delicious it is when your archnemesis has gotten their own medicine. muahahahahah
I find this pretty awful.
Luckily Whitewitch is much more mature about this. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted May 30, 2014 02:09 PM
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Originally posted by whitewitch111:
I feel like I should pity her, but the way she made me feel...I attempted suicide because of her, so it's like she emotionally made me die, and now she's physically going to die...I'm not glad by any means, but I'm not shedding tears nor am I unhappy about it.
I know what you mean. 
If only people would stfu, right? What's so difficult about that?
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Ceridwen
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posted May 30, 2014 02:09 PM
Whitewitch,I am sorry about what you had to endure with and through this person. That was truely mean of her. However I also applaud you for not stooping to her level. Of course you donīt pity her, too much personal stuff and negative experiences due to her for that to happen. However, you don`t cheer about her condition either, and that makes you in my eyes very mature and showing true strength of character. 
Personally I donīt think you *made* it happen, no.
However sometimes there are strange things happening.
I remember having had a long drawn out written discussion with my former landlady, who was demanding money from me because of some sort of scratch in the bathtub.
We quarrelled a lot about this, and I consulted a lawyer, who even told me that she was already known for pulling things like this before, to not having to pay back the rent deposit.
I could have won a lawsuit, or might have lost. Well, in the end I decided against a lawsuit, because I decided I didn`t want such a nasty energy around me and in my life. I payed the money (and considered it the way to liberate myself from her participation in my life) and pretty much gave it back to the universe. I didn`t feel like the fight was worth fighting.
Two weeks after I payed her the money and was finaly free of the whole crap, a fire would break out in one of her house-complexes. No harm was being done to any appartment or more importantly human being, BUT she had to invest a lot of money to repair the damage at the stone-wall and roof. Probably much more than I had to pay her in advance.
And no, I did not have anything to do with the fire nor would I have wished it to break out, but I couldn`t help but wondering how life has a way to strike a balance now and then. so yes, weird things sometimes happen.
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Padre35
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From: Asheville, NC, US
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posted May 30, 2014 02:12 PM
Hmm, well hopefully she can raise the 3k, which seems cheap tbh.And WW, careful, karma can be a pita, gloating now what happens if you find yourself in that situation. What would you then say, they deserved but "I" did not? IP: Logged |
whitewitch111
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From: Hillsboro, OR, USA
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posted May 30, 2014 02:13 PM
Thank you Ceri, Blessings. )o(IP: Logged |
whitewitch111
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posted May 30, 2014 02:14 PM
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Originally posted by Padre35:
Hmm, well hopefully she can raise the 3k, which seems cheap tbh.And WW, careful, karma can be a pita, gloating now what happens if you find yourself in that situation. What would you then say, they deserved but "I" did not?
I'm not gloating, I'm just trying to figure out my feelings for it, didn't you read it? I'm not happy, but I'm not sad...
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StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted May 30, 2014 02:18 PM
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Originally posted by Padre35:
Hmm, well hopefully she can raise the 3k, which seems cheap tbh.And WW, careful, karma can be a pita, gloating now what happens if you find yourself in that situation. What would you then say, they deserved but "I" did not?
Well, WW didn't go out of her way to cause the other person untold amounts of pain so it's not the same situation by a long shot.
It's not good to dwell on it but if you have ever been the target of such tactics, it is very difficult not to feel some sense of satisfaction when someone goes out of their way to make your life a living hell on a daily basis and then something happens to knock the wind out of them. It's not like you are tormenting them in any way like they did you. It's just a feeling you have, you aren't rubbing it in their face like they savagely did.
I am not for bullying but a feeling of satisfaction you keep to yourself over such hateful people. NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT.
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whitewitch111
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posted May 30, 2014 02:23 PM
I've actually seen a lot of bad things happen to people who were mean to me. A girl who punched me in the face for a rumor she hear that I made fun of her mom with cancer(WHICH IS CERTAINLY NOT TRUE!!), ended up having a baby at nineteen.Another girl got sent to Italy with her Grandmother for behavioral issues, and then alot of the guys are just street kids now(meaning they think its cool to be homeless and even though have homes don't go back to them) And here I am in school trying to better my life, getting good grades and such, advancing in belly dance, losing weight, with a wonderful loving boyfriend who provides for me. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted May 30, 2014 02:24 PM
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Originally posted by whitewitch111:
I've actually seen a lot of bad things happen to people who were mean to me. A girl who punched me in the face for a rumor she hear that I made fun of her mom with cancer(WHICH IS CERTAINLY NOT TRUE!!), ended up having a baby at nineteen.Another girl got sent to Italy with her Grandmother for behavioral issues, and then alot of the guys are just street kids now(meaning they think its cool to be homeless and even though have homes don't go back to them) And here I am in school trying to better my life, getting good grades and such, advancing in belly dance, losing weight, with a wonderful loving boyfriend who provides for me.
The best way to get even is to make your life as big a success as you possibly can
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Ceridwen
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posted May 30, 2014 02:25 PM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by whitewitch111:
[b]I've actually seen a lot of bad things happen to people who were mean to me. A girl who punched me in the face for a rumor she hear that I made fun of her mom with cancer(WHICH IS CERTAINLY NOT TRUE!!), ended up having a baby at nineteen.Another girl got sent to Italy with her Grandmother for behavioral issues, and then alot of the guys are just street kids now(meaning they think its cool to be homeless and even though have homes don't go back to them) And here I am in school trying to better my life, getting good grades and such, advancing in belly dance, losing weight, with a wonderful loving boyfriend who provides for me.
The best way to get even is to make your life as big a success as you possibly can [/B][/QUOTE] IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted May 30, 2014 02:42 PM
Just a word as to if you caused it. I would personally ask God to forgive me for my bad intentions and He will. We all do so many things that are not right-- by deed or action. ------------------
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Padre35
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posted May 30, 2014 02:50 PM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Padre35:
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Hmm, well hopefully she can raise the 3k, which seems cheap tbh.And WW, careful, karma can be a pita, gloating now what happens if you find yourself in that situation. What would you then say, they deserved but "I" did not?
Well, WW didn't go out of her way to cause the other person untold amounts of pain so it's not the same situation by a long shot.
It's not good to dwell on it but if you have ever been the target of such tactics, it is very difficult not to feel some sense of satisfaction when someone goes out of their way to make your life a living hell on a daily basis and then something happens to knock the wind out of them. It's not like you are tormenting them in any way like they did you. It's just a feeling you have, you aren't rubbing it in their face like they savagely did.
I am not for bullying but a feeling of satisfaction you keep to yourself over such hateful people. NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT. [/B][/QUOTE]This is why Forgiveness is so powerful S3 Imagine what it is like to wake up in the morning, Sun in your face, without owing anyone for what happened in the past? How Free would one be then? Free to go in any direction, Free not to be bothered by the past as those times are dead and gone, only the memory remains, and the lessons to be learned. Extract the lesson, mean ppl suck, and have a price to be paid, meanwhile enjoy the sunshine or rain IP: Logged |
whitewitch111
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posted May 30, 2014 03:53 PM
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Originally posted by Padre35:
This is why Forgiveness is so powerful S3Imagine what it is like to wake up in the morning, Sun in your face, without owing anyone for what happened in the past? How Free would one be then? Free to go in any direction, Free not to be bothered by the past as those times are dead and gone, only the memory remains, and the lessons to be learned. Extract the lesson, mean ppl suck, and have a price to be paid, meanwhile enjoy the sunshine or rain
I'm not disagreeing with you Padre that's very good advice, but that's not how you first put it.
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whitewitch111
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posted May 30, 2014 03:54 PM
Thank you all, I was feeling guilty for not feeling bad, but I don't think I caused it, and even so, I'm happy and must worry about me and the ones I care about. IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen
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From: In my 1st house Uranus and Neptune
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posted May 30, 2014 03:57 PM
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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
I find this pretty awful.
Luckily Whitewitch is much more mature about this.
An eye for an eye....
I don't believe in mercy for evil people. 
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