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Topic: My mother calls me anorexic when I'm not.
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Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 8605 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted June 05, 2014 03:05 PM
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Ellynlvx Moderator Posts: 8868 From: the Point of Light within the Mind of God Registered: Aug 2013
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posted June 05, 2014 03:10 PM
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Faith Knowflake Posts: 7638 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted June 05, 2014 03:12 PM
I don't know why she isn't listening to you, but hopefully a doctor's visit will validate for her what you have been saying. And teach her to listen to you better.I got really skinny in college...I've always been thin and didn't even notice that I was dropping even more weight. A few of my friends...oddly, all men...were nice enough to tell me about it. The first time, I just brushed him off. The second and third time, I actually realized it was a problem. Even though they were nice about, and I did need a wake-up call, I did resent any hint that I was anorexic or depressed or hurting myself. Like, please, respect me enough to ask before making assumptions? Please listen to me and don't just rush to make some big dramatic "official" problem out of it. Turns out I had just been smoking too many cigarettes and when I cut back, I put on weight again. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 8605 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted June 05, 2014 03:22 PM
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I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 7684 From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron) Registered: Nov 2012
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posted June 05, 2014 03:23 PM
UGH, my mother does the same. She doesn't use the word anorexic but she implies that I starve myself and will end up in a hospital. One day I'll just tell her to stfu, it's that annoying.------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 8605 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted June 05, 2014 03:25 PM
Lunar issues. *high 5*IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 7684 From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron) Registered: Nov 2012
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posted June 05, 2014 03:26 PM
*low 5*------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 8605 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted June 05, 2014 03:27 PM
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I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 7684 From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron) Registered: Nov 2012
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posted June 05, 2014 03:27 PM
------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 7638 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted June 05, 2014 03:28 PM
I'm scared of doctors as well. I've tried all kinds of things, blown a lot of money trying medicine I've read about on the internet, to avoid doctors. And actually...have had a lot of success that way. I'm still thin and while it's nice to not have to worry about my figure...I know part of it is an absorption problem, which means nutritional deficiency, which means some weird symptoms...so we're kind of in the same boat. "Boys won't like you now" is such an inappropriate comment. I was smoking at least two packs a day. Capricorns take everything to extremes...so when I crashed, I REALLY went down in flames. Literally. IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 7684 From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron) Registered: Nov 2012
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posted June 05, 2014 03:30 PM
But D., don't you already know what's wrong with your stomach?------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 8605 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted June 05, 2014 03:33 PM
Lol @ Caps. You're a horrible person! Faith,
Yes it seems that we're kind of in the same boat, indeed. Inappropriate, for sure! I wasn't upset by it, I just thought... 'Who says that kind of thing?' lmao. Ah yeah, I was sure you'd say something like two packs a day! Nah that's too crazy... hope you don't smoke that much nowadays. My body is really sensitive to all kinds of things so I can actually get high by smoking a simple cigarette. I mainly smoke to feel fully relaxed for a moment but lately I've been feeling more addicted to it and that's no bueno.
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Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 8605 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted June 05, 2014 03:35 PM
quote: Originally posted by I'm so cappy: But D., don't you already know what's wrong with your stomach?
I do. But it's been a while now, and I've only now started losing weight randomly. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 55621 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 05, 2014 03:38 PM
I got really skinny cuz I was holding all this pain inside and could not eat. I was like that for years. I am much better now for a number of reasons. 1. I eat raw food, most of the time. It is healthier for you and easier to digest 2. Kombucha, a fermented tea, gives good bacteria that is lost with stress 3.Kundalini Yoga with the yoga breathing 4. Try to get rid of fears, anger, resentment and pain. This is really, really slow 5. Have someone who you can show yourself to, all the things you don't like and who will still love you. I had a teeny appetite so could not eat much. It was not a choice but I am much better now with the above things. PS You did not look too skinny in the video imo
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I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 7684 From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron) Registered: Nov 2012
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posted June 05, 2014 03:38 PM
Go see a doc then :/ Disordered absorption I guess.------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 8605 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted June 05, 2014 03:44 PM
Thanks, Ami, for the suggestions. Those are all nice.No I don't look too skinny. That's why I'm confused by my mother's words. :/ I'm tired of doctors, lol. 6H stuff is exhausting.
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Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 8605 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted June 05, 2014 03:46 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: 5. Have someone who you can show yourself to, all the things you don't like and who will still love you.
Okay, I guess that's gotta be Jesus. For real. IP: Logged |
Ellynlvx Moderator Posts: 8868 From: the Point of Light within the Mind of God Registered: Aug 2013
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posted June 05, 2014 03:52 PM
Maybe she's just worried.Mom's are like that, feeding is nurturing. It's probably worry that comes out wrong. IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 7684 From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron) Registered: Nov 2012
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posted June 05, 2014 03:52 PM
------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 8605 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted June 05, 2014 04:01 PM
She is worried, but she's too worried. To the point where I'm like, Okay maybe something is wrong, indeed.IDK. I gotta go now; but thanks all for your comments.
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 55621 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 05, 2014 04:10 PM
I guess that's gotta be Jesus. This is a person with an earth suit but it goes without saying that Jesus is behind the whole thing
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Faith Knowflake Posts: 7638 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted June 05, 2014 04:24 PM
@Doux, I quit smoking cold turkey, in college. I went from two packs to zero cigarettes, overnight...like I said, Cap is about extremes and for once that worked out well for me. Dietary changes can solve a lot of problems: physical, emotional, spiritual. If you can find a way to enjoy the process of figuring out your optimal diet...that's great. For me it has been an arduous journey but I feel like I am finally getting in my groove with a somewhat low-fat, mostly vegan, mostly raw diet. No wheat or gluten. If I tried that all at once my guts would have rebelled, but after inching my way here over time, it's a good place. And I love some of this food...to be able to enjoy a meal, flavor-wise, and know it's going to make you feel healthy and clear-headed...I feel like that's one of the best things a person can experience. But me and my goody-goody 6H sun will get off the soapbox now...even if the moon is still in Virgo and I'm sure deep down inside everyone wants to hear this stuff.
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StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 8698 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted June 05, 2014 04:24 PM
I saw your video and you look fine to me, Doux. Not too skinny, just perfect! IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 55621 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 05, 2014 04:25 PM
Cappy You are so bad. Lucky for me, I have thick skin ------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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meissieri Knowflake Posts: 1087 From: The Netherlands Registered: Feb 2013
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posted June 05, 2014 05:08 PM
Douxieeee Your mother at it again? Last thing you need is more of that on your plate.
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