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Doux Rêve
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posted June 05, 2014 03:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted June 05, 2014 03:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ellynlvx     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Not even Chocolate?

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posted June 05, 2014 03:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't know why she isn't listening to you, but hopefully a doctor's visit will validate for her what you have been saying. And teach her to listen to you better.

I got really skinny in college...I've always been thin and didn't even notice that I was dropping even more weight. A few of my friends...oddly, all men...were nice enough to tell me about it. The first time, I just brushed him off. The second and third time, I actually realized it was a problem.

Even though they were nice about, and I did need a wake-up call, I did resent any hint that I was anorexic or depressed or hurting myself. Like, please, respect me enough to ask before making assumptions? Please listen to me and don't just rush to make some big dramatic "official" problem out of it.

Turns out I had just been smoking too many cigarettes and when I cut back, I put on weight again.

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posted June 05, 2014 03:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I'm so cappy
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posted June 05, 2014 03:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for I'm so cappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
UGH, my mother does the same. She doesn't use the word anorexic but she implies that I starve myself and will end up in a hospital. One day I'll just tell her to stfu, it's that annoying.

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posted June 05, 2014 03:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lunar issues. *high 5*

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posted June 05, 2014 03:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for I'm so cappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
*low 5*

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posted June 05, 2014 03:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hahaha.

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posted June 05, 2014 03:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm scared of doctors as well. I've tried all kinds of things, blown a lot of money trying medicine I've read about on the internet, to avoid doctors. And actually...have had a lot of success that way. I'm still thin and while it's nice to not have to worry about my figure...I know part of it is an absorption problem, which means nutritional deficiency, which means some weird symptoms...so we're kind of in the same boat.

"Boys won't like you now" is such an inappropriate comment.

I was smoking at least two packs a day. Capricorns take everything to extremes...so when I crashed, I REALLY went down in flames. Literally.

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posted June 05, 2014 03:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for I'm so cappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
But D., don't you already know what's wrong with your stomach?

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posted June 05, 2014 03:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lol @ Caps. You're a horrible person!


Faith,

Yes it seems that we're kind of in the same boat, indeed.

Inappropriate, for sure! I wasn't upset by it, I just thought... 'Who says that kind of thing?' lmao.

Ah yeah, I was sure you'd say something like two packs a day! Nah that's too crazy... hope you don't smoke that much nowadays. My body is really sensitive to all kinds of things so I can actually get high by smoking a simple cigarette. I mainly smoke to feel fully relaxed for a moment but lately I've been feeling more addicted to it and that's no bueno.

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posted June 05, 2014 03:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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But D., don't you already know what's wrong with your stomach?


I do. But it's been a while now, and I've only now started losing weight randomly.

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posted June 05, 2014 03:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I got really skinny cuz I was holding all this pain inside and could not eat.

I was like that for years. I am much better now for a number of reasons.

1. I eat raw food, most of the time. It is healthier for you and easier to digest

2. Kombucha, a fermented tea, gives good bacteria that is lost with stress

3.Kundalini Yoga with the yoga breathing

4. Try to get rid of fears, anger, resentment and pain.
This is really, really slow

5. Have someone who you can show yourself to, all the things you don't like and who will still love you.

I had a teeny appetite so could not eat much. It was not a choice but I am much better now with the above things.


PS You did not look too skinny in the video imo

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posted June 05, 2014 03:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for I'm so cappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Go see a doc then :/ Disordered absorption I guess.

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posted June 05, 2014 03:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks, Ami, for the suggestions. Those are all nice.

No I don't look too skinny. That's why I'm confused by my mother's words. :/


I'm tired of doctors, lol. 6H stuff is exhausting.

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posted June 05, 2014 03:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
5. Have someone who you can show yourself to, all the things you don't like and who will still love you.


Okay, I guess that's gotta be Jesus. For real.

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posted June 05, 2014 03:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ellynlvx     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Maybe she's just worried.

Mom's are like that, feeding is nurturing.

It's probably worry that comes out wrong.

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posted June 05, 2014 04:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
She is worried, but she's too worried. To the point where I'm like, Okay maybe something is wrong, indeed.

IDK.


I gotta go now; but thanks all for your comments.

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I guess that's gotta be Jesus.


This is a person with an earth suit but it goes without saying that Jesus is behind the whole thing


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posted June 05, 2014 04:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@Doux,

I quit smoking cold turkey, in college. I went from two packs to zero cigarettes, overnight...like I said, Cap is about extremes and for once that worked out well for me.

Dietary changes can solve a lot of problems: physical, emotional, spiritual. If you can find a way to enjoy the process of figuring out your optimal diet...that's great. For me it has been an arduous journey but I feel like I am finally getting in my groove with a somewhat low-fat, mostly vegan, mostly raw diet. No wheat or gluten.

If I tried that all at once my guts would have rebelled, but after inching my way here over time, it's a good place. And I love some of this food...to be able to enjoy a meal, flavor-wise, and know it's going to make you feel healthy and clear-headed...I feel like that's one of the best things a person can experience.

But me and my goody-goody 6H sun will get off the soapbox now...even if the moon is still in Virgo and I'm sure deep down inside everyone wants to hear this stuff.


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I saw your video and you look fine to me, Doux. Not too skinny, just perfect!

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posted June 05, 2014 04:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Cappy
You are so bad. Lucky for me, I have thick skin

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Douxieeee


Your mother at it again? Last thing you need is more of that on your plate.

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