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Topic: How come people get offended when I compliment a woman's femininity?
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KarkaQueen
Knowflake Posts: 4484
From: In my 1st house Uranus and Neptune
Registered: May 2011
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posted June 21, 2014 06:24 PM
  
Idk they get offended for some reason... I think it's a good thing if a lady is feminine.. . it just comes naturally for some.. some women are more on the masculine side and thats not repulsive either.And I don't mean gender roles, more yin and yang you know what I mean? IP: Logged |
BellaFenice
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From: Phoenix, AZ, USA
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted June 21, 2014 06:30 PM
Depends on what you mean by complimenting femininity. List some examples of what you have said and what people have said in response.You know, opening a gender thread is asking for it....lololol Hopefully this thread doesn't get locked like your other ones  IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen
Knowflake Posts: 4484
From: In my 1st house Uranus and Neptune
Registered: May 2011
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posted June 21, 2014 06:39 PM
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Originally posted by BellaFenice:
Depends on what you mean by complimenting femininity. List some examples of what you have said and what people have said in response.You know, opening a gender thread is asking for it....lololol Hopefully this thread doesn't get locked like your other ones
like:
Omg! She looks so beautiful! I love her femininity and amazing sensuality. She's like a little delicate flower. *says about a woman who looks like this* 
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MoonWitch
Moderator Posts: 1722
From: The Beach
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 21, 2014 06:39 PM
Agree - would like to hear what you said and to whom. That makes all the difference 
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MoonWitch
Moderator Posts: 1722
From: The Beach
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 21, 2014 06:40 PM
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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
like:
Omg! She looks so beautiful! I love her femininity and amazing sensuality. She's like a little delicate flower.*says about a woman who looks like this*
I don't think that's offensive at all. 
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KarkaQueen
Knowflake Posts: 4484
From: In my 1st house Uranus and Neptune
Registered: May 2011
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posted June 21, 2014 06:40 PM
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KarkaQueen
Knowflake Posts: 4484
From: In my 1st house Uranus and Neptune
Registered: May 2011
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posted June 21, 2014 06:44 PM
idk why either. though they are really against gender roles and may think im adhering to them even though I don't.
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BellaFenice
Knowflake Posts: 534
From: Phoenix, AZ, USA
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted June 21, 2014 06:44 PM
Yeah, I'm not seeing the problem either. IP: Logged |
BellaFenice
Knowflake Posts: 534
From: Phoenix, AZ, USA
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted June 21, 2014 06:46 PM
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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
idk why either. though they are really against gender roles and may think im adhering to them even though I don't.
I like to challenge gender roles, so I get where they are coming from. But unless you are sexually objectifying them, you aren't wrong for expressing yourself. LOL, I saw that edit Karka! IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen
Knowflake Posts: 4484
From: In my 1st house Uranus and Neptune
Registered: May 2011
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posted June 21, 2014 07:02 PM
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Originally posted by BellaFenice:
I like to challenge gender roles, so I get where they are coming from. But unless you are sexually objectifying them, you aren't wrong for expressing yourself.LOL, I saw that edit Karka!
Haha LOL
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Doux Rêve
Moderator Posts: 8605
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Registered: Dec 2010
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posted June 21, 2014 07:32 PM
Could be insecurity?IP: Logged |
PixieJane
Moderator Posts: 4706
From: CA
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted June 21, 2014 08:22 PM
I'd guess they thought you were being sarcastic, which generally comes from being insecure. It's also possible they think you want something and are pouring it on thick rather than sincere.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 55625
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 21, 2014 08:31 PM
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Randall
Webmaster Posts: 41897
From: Saturn next to Charmainec
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 24, 2014 09:49 PM
I see nothing wrong with women being feminine or men being masculine, so long as we recognize all the varying shades in between. IP: Logged |
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