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MineAgain
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posted September 01, 2014 12:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MineAgain     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
There is this man I dated back when I was in college but he didn't want a full blown relationship with me. He strung me along in 2011 and I cut contact with him. Then he tried to reconnect in 2012 and made a lot of promises but he was already wooing someone else at the same time. I didn't know about this but it was already to late to salvage anything, so I chose not to give him a second shot. That was the last he heard from me.

The girl that he was wooing while he was trying to get me back is now his fiancé. However, he is still stalking me online and I want to know how to remove him from my energy field.

He tried to reconnect in March 2014 but I blocked him again. I'm not interested in him anymore, it's been years. I want him to be happy with his fiancée and leave me alone/forget about me.

I forgave him for hurting my feelings and I have moved on. He seems to be stuck in the past and I want him to devote his heart and time to his fiancée.

Does anyone know how to remove him from my energy field?

Thanks!

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Ami Anne
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posted September 01, 2014 01:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Pray for him to have everything you want for yourself. I try to pray for all my enemies every day but sometimes I am bad

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Catalina
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posted September 02, 2014 12:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Catalina     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Have you straight out told him you're over him?

I have given many "problem people" a send offby envisioning them floating off in a big bubble, happy and hopeful...

What he does with his life isn't really relevant if you wantto be free of him, is it? I would forget about having any expectations in that vein, they just keep you bound...

I definitely would not pray for him to realize my own aspirations, his bliss is not mine to choose. I would however hope that he finds what will make him happy...somewhere else!

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MineAgain
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posted September 02, 2014 06:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MineAgain     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes, I have told him I am over him. The fact that I blocked him when he tried to reconnect with me in March should have been enough for him to understand that I am not interested in him anymore.

He's just not getting the hint. I want to be able to have an online presence but I'm just trapped by this man. He viewed every single account of mine multiple times (Linkedin, Youtube, Facebook ...). He needs to let me go for good.

I want to be able to have a FB account without him adding me all the time or checking my LinkedIn or Youtube videos multiple times a day.

At this point, I might as well change my name because I don't want him to know what I'm up to. His online tracking is annoying. He needs to get a firm grip that it's over and I've moved on.

I thought about writing a blog post, maybe that will give him the hint he needs because I haven't confronted him about his online tracking. It's making me feel highly uncomfortable.

I just want him to be happy with his fiancée is all. He doesn't have much going on (he moved abroad for his fiancée and he can't find a job there) and I'm the last girl he dated before he got together with his fiancée. Part of me thinks he's just holding on to the past because his life is a void, but man, sometimes you gotta let it go.

Oh well. Personally, I'm one of those people who take ages to get over someone, but after 5 months or so, I no longer check any of their social media accounts. It's the past. Whereas for him, it's been years ... argh.

I'm not quite sure how to make him understand we will never be together again.

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Catalina
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posted September 02, 2014 11:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Catalina     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If you block him on fb how can he check you... and hOw do you know? Maybe make your posts visible only to friends...? I have a major security issue on fb but it is taken care of by those two actions...

Again what he does with his fiancee is not your territory. Maybe she is the wrong one too! Just visualize him floating off happy to a "better" place of HIS choosing and ignore him otherwise, block him, and forget about him. Any energy you give him ties him to you...

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Randall
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posted September 20, 2014 10:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
FB did a switch recently, so if you think your Profile is on private, it may not be. You have to go in and click on making it private for "past" posts now.

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Randall
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posted September 30, 2014 11:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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