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posted October 16, 2014 06:28 PM            

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Your thoughts, views, feelings on it.

If this isn't allowed I'm sorry and mods can just close the topic.

My views: I'm a female and I adore it. Doing it as a woman I mean for someone special. I don't like men doing striptease. Also, the right music has to be playing. Mostly instrumental and not a lot of annoying words - this takes away from the dance I think.

Do any women or men here find it bad or degrading?

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posted October 16, 2014 07:04 PM            

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If I had a boyfriend I'd definitely do it occiasionally. I could even play in hard mode and buy a pole.

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posted October 16, 2014 07:09 PM            

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I like it without the pole dancing aspect. I mean I would just dance on the individual, doing splits/spreads/jumps etc, while he is seated on a chair.

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posted October 16, 2014 07:18 PM            

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so sexy

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posted October 16, 2014 08:26 PM            

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Originally posted by asclibrasagsun:
Do any women or men here find it bad or degrading?

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Entirely depends on context (particularly the why and how it's being done).

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posted October 16, 2014 08:27 PM            

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Originally posted by asclibrasagsun:
I don't like men doing striptease

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Why?

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posted October 16, 2014 08:31 PM            

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Please don't share erotic videos (especially without a warning to content). I find how threads are policed on topics like this pretty random but I'm pretty sure the ice is pretty thin already without adding some hot videos to wank to. If you really want to share then just give the title and we can search for it (for example, "Olivia Wilde hot striptease by sepsta75 on YT" though I'd think just mentioning the movie it comes from would be good enough).

OTOH, if this thread turns into a bunch of drama I might post a bunch of lurid vids myself just to get it locked sooner rather than later.

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posted October 16, 2014 11:04 PM            

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Originally posted by PixieJane:
Why?

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Because then it is the man trying to control the woman, I feel like men inherently control women in all aspects of our daily lives whether it is through politics or family so actually I feel like the woman is in control for once if she is the one seducing him.

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posted October 16, 2014 11:40 PM            

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I like it. I'm somewhat fascinated by how they coordinate their moves and facial expressions.

Once we watched a burlesque performance in Japan and I enjoyed it a lot. The performer used some rather acrobatic moves and I was like woaaahh...

Do any women or men here find it bad or degrading? --> it depends.

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posted October 17, 2014 12:05 AM            

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Originally posted by asclibrasagsun:
Because then it is the man trying to control the woman, I feel like men inherently control women in all aspects of our daily lives whether it is through politics or family so actually I feel like the woman is in control for once if she is the one seducing him.

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Thank you. I can understand that view.

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posted October 17, 2014 12:14 AM            

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Strip Tease?! Degrading?! Hell no! If anything, I would say its probably quite the norm between a lot of couples out there as part of their healthy extra curricular activities .

Just a little tip for all the future Husbands / boyfriends out there; If your better half and you are into strip teasing, guard your cellphones with your lives .

Funny commercial:

(WARNING: Possible erotic video? It was good enough as a public commercial though but just in case...)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L3IO7cByoV0

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posted October 17, 2014 02:49 AM            

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"Your wife called" hahahaha

I'm not opposed to it. I agree the degradation depends on the context. But yeah, girl power!

I don't mind the dude doing it either. lol But he'd better put on a good show haha.

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posted October 17, 2014 05:14 AM            

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This may be tmi but I think it's funny and i'm going to share it. Anyways.... When I turned 18 my buddy and his dad took me to one of the strip clubs in East St.Louis. One of the girls gave me a lap dance and she looks at me and randomly asks me "do you want me to put my (you know) in your face? I promise it doesn't stink". I just busted out laughing and said "no,that won't be neccesary". I just thought the whole thing was really awkward and the fact that she had to tell me that her area didn't stink didn't exactly inspire confidence.

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posted October 17, 2014 05:48 PM            

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Originally posted by Xodian:
Funny commercial:

(WARNING: Possible erotic video? It was good enough as a public commercial though but just in case...)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L3IO7cByoV0

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Naaa, that was more silly and I'm sure that plays on prime time. As a rule of thumb, if it's not meant to titillate (that is what people wanted from "adult" entertainers on phone & webcam) then it's not erotic, and even titillation is probably safe as long as it remains PG13. Therefore informative, funny, and trying to sell phones don't really count.

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posted October 19, 2014 08:15 PM            

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I have two videos I want to share but not sure if they are "OK" for the forum...
Both are from YouTube
Can anyone clarify if it is alright? There is some nudity...

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posted October 20, 2014 12:21 AM            

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If you're not sure then send Randall the vids and ask him if it's okay.

Alternately, just give the title & poster and we can find them easily enough, especially if a reason is given.

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posted October 20, 2014 02:24 AM            

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Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:
"Your wife called" hahahaha

I'm not opposed to it. I agree the degradation depends on the context. But yeah, girl power!

I don't mind the dude doing it either. lol But he'd better put on a good show haha.

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