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Topic: Would You Rather Be Liked or Respected?
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 58409 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted November 19, 2014 09:18 PM
Why? ------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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DeepFreeze Knowflake Posts: 3569 From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19 Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 19, 2014 09:27 PM
Respected. By such a long way it's pathetic. I guess it's just a power thing? (I'm not honestly sure. Struggling to define why) Not that I want power over others, no. Just that I want to be recognized as having power, a powerful person. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 10095 From: Uranus Registered: Jan 2012
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posted November 19, 2014 09:34 PM
Respect. Being the youngest child I feel like I'm still seen like the baby even though i'm an adult now. It gets really really annoying. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 58409 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted November 19, 2014 09:37 PM
It is weird for me now because I have so many more situations in which I have to show who I am and this question comes to light all the time.------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 4783 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted November 19, 2014 10:29 PM
Respect. I'm such an emotional, go with the heart think later type of person, respect is what I need. I have to have it. I could care less if I'm liked or disliked, I'm smiling either way. I live by this quote, "I'd rather be hated for who I am, than to be loved for who I am not." IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 6489 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 20, 2014 12:30 AM
Both. That doesn't mean that I will do anything bad in order to be liked. That sort of thing doesn't work for me. IP: Logged |
ikja Knowflake Posts: 192 From: London, UK Registered: Oct 2014
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posted November 20, 2014 12:58 AM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: Respect. Being the youngest child I feel like I'm still seen like the baby even though i'm an adult now. It gets really really annoying.
Hear hear. I would prefer to be respected too. IP: Logged |
Padre35 Knowflake Posts: 3856 From: Asheville, NC, US Registered: Jul 2012
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posted November 20, 2014 01:31 AM
Respected b/c I'm liked.Meaning as I hold my own pov and beliefs and share them, and do what is called to be done, it does not mean one has to be disliked. That is a false dichotomy, reality is it does not matter particularly much what one is saying or doing, more if the purity or intent is obvious..disagree or not with those things.
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Ellynlvx Knowflake Posts: 10336 From: the Point of Light within the Mind of God Registered: Aug 2013
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posted November 20, 2014 03:24 AM
Self-Respect.My criteria might not shine through the same lens as most. IP: Logged |
ungumuda Knowflake Posts: 99 From: Registered: Jun 2014
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posted November 20, 2014 03:17 PM
Liked, it the first thing come to mind, I'm venus dominant, in my mind that makes sense But being liked or respected by other actually is not in my control. No one can control what other people think, so I learn just to be chill about it IP: Logged |
ueharaa Knowflake Posts: 683 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 20, 2014 10:07 PM
I believe genuine appreciation involves some sort of respect. But you can be respected without being liked at all.
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T Knowflake Posts: 11125 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 20, 2014 10:14 PM
Neither.I've never cared about being liked and if you don't respect me, to me, that tells me all I need to know about you and is a blessing. I can steer clear of you. People who deserve respect, respect others. You don't need to respect me, but if you choose to, I will do the same. If you don't, that's your prerogative. Both are your choice and I respect people's choices. So, I don't care about either. IP: Logged |