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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 58581 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010	posted November 25, 2014 07:58 PM If there is one question I have had since I came to LL ( and before), it is this. My conclusion is that the Mal Nar WILL abuse you if you let her. If you fight back with claw marks, if needed, and they usually are, she will not change but she will go onto another person. Hence, the conclusion is that she cannot help being a Mal Narc but YOU can fight her back until she realizes that it is not in her best interest to mess with YOU The End Anyone else have to deal with a Mal Narc? Comments? ------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/ IP: Logged
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 4842 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013	posted November 25, 2014 08:58 PM I really don't think they can. They're like knee deep in their own **** that it seems damn near impossible to get them out of it. My aunt is extremely manic, she has bipolar type 1. She's had several brain surgeries to fix whatever it is that's messed up in her head, aside from her bioplar I absolutely believe that she is a malnarc and can't help it. She's even rubbed off some of her narcissistic tendencies and behaviors on her two kids. It's very sad. My aunt was married to my uncle for almost 20 years and ruined their marriage, both of their careers, her reputation due to her behavior. Its like her sickness slowly started to appear more and more each year and then reached its boiling point, and then all hell broke loose. My aunt was very beautiful, now that she's been sick it's like her beauty got tired of her and left. She's such an ugly person when not medicated. It's scary. What really scares me though is that she started having symptoms at a young age and due to low research and eduacation at that time she went her whole life practically without medication or even anyone being able to help her. What if getting help earlier on saved her from such extremes? My heart breaks for her but she's so caught up in herself that she could care less. Malignant narcissism is truly sad and very, very dangerous. IP: Logged
Ellynlvx Knowflake Posts: 10382 From: the Point of Light within the Mind of God Registered: Aug 2013	posted November 25, 2014 09:11 PM Still don't know what the heck they are. Sounds like a rainy day apple tree bowing to her reflection. Or some kind of bad cop squad. IP: Logged
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 58581 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010	posted November 25, 2014 09:27 PM Thanks Barbie. You are such a sweet support to me. I appreciate you so much ------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/ IP: Logged
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 58581 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010	posted November 25, 2014 09:28 PM E A Mal Narc has a huge freaking mask on that is perfect. They say the perfect thing. They look perfect but underneath, they are EVIL. Under the mask, they are horrible. Google it lol ------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/ IP: Logged
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 4842 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013	posted November 25, 2014 09:34 PM You're welcome, Ami. Any issues we've had I think it's safe to say that we've grown past those. I think a lot of it, on my part anyway, was my misunderstanding of you but I'm catching on. You are a very sweet, kind, supportive person. I appreciate you. IP: Logged
Ellynlvx Knowflake Posts: 10382 From: the Point of Light within the Mind of God Registered: Aug 2013	posted November 25, 2014 09:47 PM quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: E A Mal Narc has a huge freaking mask on that is perfect. They say the perfect thing. They look perfect but underneath, they are EVIL. Under the mask, they are horrible. Google it lol Someone put up a link for me once, but it just didn't click. You mean Jekyll and Hyde things? IP: Logged
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 58581 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010	posted November 25, 2014 09:51 PM quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: You're welcome, Ami. Any issues we've had I think it's safe to say that we've grown past those. I think a lot of it, on my part anyway, was my misunderstanding of you but I'm catching on. You are a very sweet, kind, supportive person. I appreciate you. Thank you, Barbie. Same to you and your kind words made my night ------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/ IP: Logged
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 58581 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010	posted November 25, 2014 09:55 PM No E The Mal Narc has a mask of perfection but under it is nothing, no empathy, but MEANNESS because they must keep the mask at all costs. Google Sam Vaknin.He has done pivotal work on this! ------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/ IP: Logged
Ellynlvx Knowflake Posts: 10382 From: the Point of Light within the Mind of God Registered: Aug 2013	posted November 25, 2014 10:01 PM Psychology just flies by my little brain. IP: Logged
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 4842 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013	posted November 25, 2014 10:02 PM quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: Thank you, Barbie. Same to you and your kind words made my night You're welcome. For Ellyn - http://www.manipulative-people.com/malignant-narcissism/ IP: Logged
Ellynlvx Knowflake Posts: 10382 From: the Point of Light within the Mind of God Registered: Aug 2013	posted November 25, 2014 10:09 PM But everybody has a Heart. In there, somewhere. IP: Logged
Ellynlvx Knowflake Posts: 10382 From: the Point of Light within the Mind of God Registered: Aug 2013	posted November 25, 2014 10:10 PM Don't they? IP: Logged
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 58581 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010	posted November 25, 2014 10:14 PM quote: Originally posted by Ellynlvx: Don't they? They have to be beaten down. Never trusted. ------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/ IP: Logged
Ellynlvx Knowflake Posts: 10382 From: the Point of Light within the Mind of God Registered: Aug 2013	posted November 25, 2014 10:21 PM Thanks for the link, Ami. I finally got what you're talking about. IP: Logged
mercuranian Knowflake Posts: 900 From: not here Registered: Apr 2009	posted November 25, 2014 11:41 PM you have to be raised by it to REALLY know it. no contact is a blessing, and the only answer. IP: Logged
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 58581 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010	posted November 26, 2014 08:10 AM quote: Originally posted by mercuranian: you have to be raised by it to REALLY know it. no contact is a blessing, and the only answer. I KNOW about being raised with it to understand. This is really interesting and I am healing for the first time, really! My son works with one. He is the first person who ever really understood and from whom I could receive that understanding in a way that it touched me. I feel that he KNOWS and his knowing has set me free. Alice Miller talks about an Enlightened Witness and I think it is this. Did you live with one, M? ------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/ IP: Logged
mercuranian Knowflake Posts: 900 From: not here Registered: Apr 2009	posted November 26, 2014 01:06 PM both of my parents IP: Logged
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 58581 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010	posted November 26, 2014 01:41 PM Both, M. Wow Could you tell me about it? ------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/ IP: Logged
Randall Webmaster Posts: 46939 From: Saturn next to Charmainec Registered: Apr 2009	posted November 26, 2014 03:42 PM quote: Originally posted by mercuranian: both of my parents IP: Logged
mercuranian Knowflake Posts: 900 From: not here Registered: Apr 2009	posted November 26, 2014 05:12 PM quote: Originally posted by Randall: thanks i feel i've worked through most of my stuff, i'm in a good place now. IP: Logged

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