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Topic: Family members and Bad Energy
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MineAgain
Knowflake Posts: 1930
From: A place where dreams come true
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted August 15, 2015 03:05 PM
  
Hi all! I would like to know if any of you has already experienced such situation when you can literally feel the bad energy coming from a family member to the point where you cannot be in the same room as them? For instance, when they are not around for a while, you feel comfortable and at peace. You feel free. As soon as they're back, you feel tense, angry and bad. You can feel the energy is not as smooth as when they were away. There's one close relative of mine which triggers such feelings. I literally try to avoid them as much as I can because I feel extremely tense around them. How do you deal with this? IP: Logged |
Selenite
Knowflake Posts: 726
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Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 15, 2015 04:12 PM
Yes, I've dealt with it all my life! Unfortunately, it's difficult for me to protect myself from it. I'm still in college, and I visit home for breaks. Whenever I come back home, I'm so not used to dealing with that energy that it's overwhelming. But it helps to make your space absolutely beautiful and tranquil, if you can. (I have Venus in the 4th  ) Crystals, candles, flowers, lights, whatever makes you feel so good that it counteracts the negativity.. Another thing that helps - and not just for family members, but for being out in public in general - is to envision that your energy is surrounded by mirrors that reflect back on people looking in! It is super effective for me. --
Also - sometimes, if I'm feeling very balanced myself, all that helps is giving the person 10-15 minutes of your time to talk to you. Often, they don't even know that there's a huge black storm around their heads, and a little bit of positive conversation clears up the whole house for a while.
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Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 64329
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 15, 2015 04:29 PM
The charts will show this kind of thing. Some people have an easy flow with us. Others don't.------------------
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MineAgain
Knowflake Posts: 1930
From: A place where dreams come true
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted August 18, 2015 11:49 AM
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Originally posted by Selenite:
Yes, I've dealt with it all my life! Unfortunately, it's difficult for me to protect myself from it. I'm still in college, and I visit home for breaks. Whenever I come back home, I'm so not used to dealing with that energy that it's overwhelming. But it helps to make your space absolutely beautiful and tranquil, if you can. (I have Venus in the 4th ) Crystals, candles, flowers, lights, whatever makes you feel so good that it counteracts the negativity.. Another thing that helps - and not just for family members, but for being out in public in general - is to envision that your energy is surrounded by mirrors that reflect back on people looking in! It is super effective for me. --
Also - sometimes, if I'm feeling very balanced myself, all that helps is giving the person 10-15 minutes of your time to talk to you. Often, they don't even know that there's a huge black storm around their heads, and a little bit of positive conversation clears up the whole house for a while.
Thank you very much for your help Selenite! I prefer not to communicate with the person because they tend to belittle me due to the fact that we have polar opposite lifestyles and religious views. This person sees me as some sort of perpetual 'sinner' according to their strict religious principles. I feel as though communicating with this individual would create even more tension. I tend to pretend as though they are not there but it's not always efficient. Thanks for your help! IP: Logged |
Odette
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Registered: May 2012
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posted August 18, 2015 08:17 PM
This happens with just about anyone who is on a low vibrational level. When you are in a positive/good mood, being around such a person can be very draining and alter your mood.
It's actually really difficult to deal with these kinds of situations. I don't have a "how to" guide, but I did find this video helpful (I liked his advice!):https://youtube.com/watch?list=PLbJrj7IInZ5fU9srZXyPssG3gX5Rdw6T1&v=QSx8RIkmcLQ And part 2:
https://m.youtube.com/watch?list=PLbJrj7IInZ5fU9srZXyPssG3gX5Rdw6T1&v=LAPu-iUVeRE IP: Logged |
MineAgain
Knowflake Posts: 1930
From: A place where dreams come true
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted August 19, 2015 05:26 AM
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Originally posted by Odette:
This happens with just about anyone who is on a low vibrational level. When you are in a positive/good mood, being around such a person can be very draining and alter your mood.
It's actually really difficult to deal with these kinds of situations. I don't have a "how to" guide, but I did find this video helpful (I liked his advice!):https://youtube.com/watch?list=PLbJrj7IInZ5fU9srZXyPssG3gX5Rdw6T1&v=QSx8RIkmcLQ And part 2:
https://m.youtube.com/watch?list=PLbJrj7IInZ5fU9srZXyPssG3gX5Rdw6T1&v=LAPu-iUVeRE
Thank you very much for this Odette! I become angry and extremely agitated around this individual. I was in an amazing mood when they were away but as soon as they came back, my moods changed drastically. The sight of this person just triggers annoyance in me. I don't really know why. I'll check these videos out. Thank you
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bansheequeen
Knowflake Posts: 1243
From: Beachville, USA
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted August 19, 2015 07:19 AM
Ugh. I have this incredible tension with a family member. I cant relax around her. Every time she walks into the room I get tense. I feel like everyhing she says is attacking me. And even just her small noises and the way she says innocent things just feels very attacking.
I dont know how to deal with this energy. I cant tell if other people feel this way around her or if its just me. The best thing for me is to avoid getting into any conversation deeper than "hi how are you"IP: Logged |
Aquarian Moon
Knowflake Posts: 215
From: USA
Registered: Jan 2015
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posted September 03, 2015 11:07 PM
Yep, most of my immediate family is toxic. I avoid most of them and live far away. I put on my game face during holidays and pretend to give a sh*t. I am trying to maintain a relationship with my sister without getting too close. She has Venus square Pluto exact and has difficulty not being crazy in her relationships (family, friendships, and potential boyfriends that never date her because of her cray cray nature). It's a work in progress. I have a Scorpio descendant. I've experienced them as toxic and manipulative while growing up. It's almost too easy not to keep in close contact. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 64329
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 04, 2015 08:55 AM
Sorry to hear you are going through that Banshee and Aqua Moon.------------------
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teasel
Knowflake Posts: 7327
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 04, 2015 09:01 AM
Mine used to be mostly fine. I've vented all over the place here, for the past several years, after that changed. I still have nightmares where my sister is concerned. She somehow managed to be the most toxic, raging person in my world, unload it all onto me, and come out smelling like a rose, because she was happy to be getting married. All of it was her fault, and her husband has been causing trouble for years, but I get **** on, and left being poisoned with what she flooded me with. I couldn't be around her husband, because of what he kept doing. I only ever felt jittery in his presence, and then in hers. My sister's intention was for me to not feel okay, anywhere, and she almost got what she wanted. I I have to walk it off, and take epsom salt baths, or spend a long time in the shower. IP: Logged | |
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