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Faith
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posted August 24, 2015 10:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This thread is calling for a revision of policy regarding insistently aggressive expression and articulation of opinions on sensitive subjects.

This thread is to collect the signatures of any members who agree with the following:

Comments that degrade and insult all members of any group, including gender, are not permissible in this forum. While minor complaints are bound to happen from time to time, persistent attacks, deeply offensive comments, and sexual insults are prohibited, just as every other form of bigotry is disallowed.

This forum should be moderated to ensure that the forms of speech described above are prevented, contained, warned against and/or punished. When moderation consistently fails to ensure these protections, a change of moderator is in order.

Please reply in the following way, or not at all.

I agree with this statement.

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DopGang
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posted August 24, 2015 10:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DopGang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I agree with this statement

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LeeLoo2014
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posted August 24, 2015 10:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I agree with this statement.

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Faith
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posted August 24, 2015 10:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I agree with this statement.

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goddessofthemoon
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posted August 24, 2015 10:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for goddessofthemoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I agree with this statement.

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Aquacheeka
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posted August 24, 2015 11:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aquacheeka     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I agree with this statement.

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Randall
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posted August 24, 2015 11:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I thought we already decided that gender experiences should now be relayed in general terms. I will clarify in another post.

You should add to the OP that personal insults are never allowed, no matter if you agree with the views of said person or not. Once you personally insult, you make whatever point you are attempting to convey a moot one. And when a Mod calls you on it, he or she is doing the job a Mod is supposed to do. Such insults are to be prevented, contained, warned against and/or punished.

And just because you don't personally like a Mod, that doesn't change the fact that you should heed warnings against personal insults. There is never an excuse to hurl insults here. Never. Ever. Ever.

All whom agree, say yay.

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Randall
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posted August 24, 2015 11:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
AG, please generalize your statements in the future, and also refrain from overgeneralization, to the extent that you lump all women in the same category. In other words, feel free to relate your personal experiences, but do not put down or judge a whole gender. Thank you, sir.

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Faith
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posted August 24, 2015 11:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This petition stands, as it is.

Members, please continue adding signatures, if that is your wish.

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Faith
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posted August 24, 2015 11:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
This thread is calling for a revision of policy regarding insistently aggressive expression and articulation of opinions on sensitive subjects.

This thread is to collect the signatures of any members who agree with the following:

Comments that degrade and insult all members of any group, including gender, are not permissible in this forum. While minor complaints are bound to happen from time to time, persistent attacks, deeply offensive comments, and sexual insults are prohibited, just as every other form of bigotry is disallowed.

This forum should be moderated to ensure that the forms of speech described above are prevented, contained, warned against and/or punished. When moderation consistently fails to ensure these protections, a change of moderator is in order.

Please reply in the following way, or not at all.

I agree with this statement.


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posted August 24, 2015 11:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Soltze     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Randall:
I thought we already decided that gender experiences should now be relayed in general terms. I will clarify in another post.

You should add to the OP that personal insults are never allowed, no matter if you agree with the views of said person or not. Once you personally insult, you make whatever point you are attempting to convey a moot one. And when a Mod calls you on it, he or she is doing the job a Mod is supposed to do. Such insults are to be prevented, contained, warned against and/or punished.

And just because you don't personally like a Mod, that doesn't change the fact that you should heed warnings against personal insults. There is never an excuse to hurl insults here. Never. Ever. Ever.

All whom agree, say yay.


I AGREE WITH THE STATEMENT

Hope that everybody actually follows it!

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Faith
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posted August 24, 2015 11:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This is a petition as stated in the title.

Derailing is highly disrespectful to the intention of the thread.

Randall, if you feel the need to make your own petition with your own wording, you of all people are perfectly free to do so. Not on this thread, however.

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Faith
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posted August 24, 2015 11:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This petition stands, as it is.

Members, please continue adding signatures below, if that is your wish.

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Randall
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posted August 24, 2015 11:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sorry, but the policy must contain no personal insults, as well. I've instituted it as of now. No gender bashing. No insults. How is it derailing? If anything, it's a win.

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Faith
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posted August 24, 2015 11:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
There is a key point you are not addressing, about the MODERATOR.

This petition is collective statement of opinion about moderation, amongst other things, and the consequences that ought to be applied, when moderation fails.

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Faith
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posted August 24, 2015 11:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Randall:
How is it derailing?

As stated:

quote:
Please reply in the following way, or not at all.

I agree with this statement.


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Faith
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posted August 24, 2015 12:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This petition stands, as it is.

Members, please continue adding signatures below, if that is your wish.


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Randall
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posted August 24, 2015 12:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The Mods follow my direction. When someone insults, they get called on it, and threads may be closed. Ami, please, be careful not to insult when you admonish. I see a lot of insults hurled at Ami. While she doesn't care, it looks disrespectful to Newflakes. Personal insults will no longer be tolerated. I don't care who you are. And I'm looking to make an example out of soneone. You want stricter moderation. You got it.

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Randall
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posted August 24, 2015 12:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You can't tell people how to respond on a thread. This isn't some Socialist utopian fantasy land. When moderation fails in my judgment, you'll be the first to know about it.

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Faith
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posted August 24, 2015 12:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Randall, please stop derailing.

This is about letting us peacefully make a statement about our wishes, as a testament to the number of people whose wishes are in alignment.


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Faith
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posted August 24, 2015 12:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Randall:
You can't tell people how to respond on a thread. This isn't some Socialist utopian fantasy land. When moderation fails in my judgment, you'll be the first to know about it.

I can ask.

And people who respect the spirit of the thread will comply, and have complied.

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Randall
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posted August 24, 2015 12:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Just to reiterate, the requested policy is now enacted. There will be no gender bashing. There will be no insults. Including no insults of Mods, and no insulting by Mods. Done. Passed. Signed.

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bansheequeen
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posted August 24, 2015 12:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bansheequeen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I agree with this statement.

On the topic of insults, if a member FEELS insulted by someone's comment and other members see that it is reasonable for said member to feel insulted.... THEN that should be counted as a bona-fide insult regardless of a mods personal opinion on the matter.

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LeeLoo2014
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posted August 24, 2015 12:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sorry, Faith, to contribute to the flow disruption of the petition, but I think personal insults such as "you are a ******** " are already reprimanded as part of the policy of LL. The issue here seems to be mostly about gender bashing.

I think it's important to point out that when someone bashes a gender, a race etc. that person will face a personal attack as consequence. It is human nature and this is how it works, it's unavoidable. Luckily for all of us, nowadays people bashing an entire group of people (race, gender) for their problems in such a manner are met with reprobation and put to a wall. Nobody can expect a different treatment.

It is understandable to have some occasional "men always do that, women always do that" especially on this forum, but I think we can all agree this went beyond such a situation.

Soltze, that was uncalled for. Childish personal revenge.

EDIT: glad to see that word was banned thank you!

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Faith
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posted August 24, 2015 12:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
All points noted.

The petition stands as it is.

I request that this thread remain open.

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