posted September 06, 2015 01:33 AM            

What I'd have said wouldn't have been in any way explicit, nor would it have made value judgments on what is "good" or "bad." It's just why you'd be that way yet hold that reaction. I'd hope it would give you the "aha!" moments like I get when I finally realize something about myself that has baffled me (or about other things that make no sense to me). There have been times I marveled that I didn't see what was right in front me waiting for me to notice/realize it.

And should it not actually fit I wouldn't be adverse to figuring it for my own curiosity, probably asking about placements and such.