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Ami Anne
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posted September 27, 2015 02:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I truly try to give what I can to people who need it. The last instance were GIFTS I gave to someone and then when I stopped, the person started demanding them. It is too long of a story to go into the particulars. The point is the title of this thread. Why does this happen? Is it just human nature? Do I just need better boundaries when people DEMAND what I, previously, wanted to give freely.

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Valentine
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posted September 27, 2015 03:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Valentine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You have to set boundaries and stick to them. Some do take others for granted.

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CosmiqPhuz
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posted September 27, 2015 03:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CosmiqPhuz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I guess it's kinda like when dogs get accustomed to treats/snacks at a certain time of day, and they get it regularly. They become demanding and rude when they don't get it anymore.

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Ami Anne
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posted September 27, 2015 04:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks, Buds

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posted September 28, 2015 04:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have a progressed Scorpio ASC. The Libra ASC is too people pleasing. Really and truly, the Libra ASC bends over backwards until they flip over. The Scorpio ASC seems like they look out of Al Pacino's eyes

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posted September 29, 2015 01:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for bansheequeen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It depends on the person. Some people will take a mile if you give them an inch. Those are typically the self centered selfish type. But there are people out there that wont take you for granted.

I used to be too nice, then I had enough and became a total b----. Now I am trying to fine the balance of being nice and sticking up for myself. The thing is its hard to put your foot down while things are going on and before its too late. It's easier to close myself off. But that reminds me of the thread about judgemental people and I try not to be that way.... so I dont know.

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Ami Anne
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posted September 29, 2015 08:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks Miss B!

Brilliant answer

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posted September 30, 2015 01:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CosmiqPhuz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I have a progressed Scorpio ASC. The Libra ASC is too people pleasing. Really and truly, the Libra ASC bends over backwards until they flip over. The Scorpio ASC seems like they look out of Al Pacino's eyes


Pacino does seem to have an intense stare. He always seemed to be undressing people with his eyes too...

I guess my Libra placements (Sun/Moon/Mars) are progressed into Scorpio as well. I'm feelin' ya Ami.

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posted September 30, 2015 08:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Definately undressing

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posted September 30, 2015 10:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CosmiqPhuz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Definately undressing


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posted September 30, 2015 11:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
OMG

I love Al. Nothing like him in the first and second Godfathers

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posted September 30, 2015 11:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CosmiqPhuz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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OMG

I love Al. Nothing like him in the first and second Godfathers


Oh yea, such classics. His gentle face really contradicts his eyes and what he becomes.

I liked him in "Serpico" too. If you haven't seen it, check it out. He plays an undercover cop. The outfits are so 70's.

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posted October 01, 2015 08:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yea, I saw it but I did not like it as well. The corruption was really depressing.

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posted October 01, 2015 01:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CosmiqPhuz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yea, it's sad. How do you really top the godfather though, right?

It's funny seeing him and Michelle Pfieffer in "Frankie and Johnny" after watching "Scarface", haha.

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posted October 01, 2015 01:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sea of Love--did you see that. Al was delicious

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posted October 01, 2015 03:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CosmiqPhuz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No, I'll have to watch it. Haha, yea Al is a handsome guy. I'd probably do him.

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posted October 03, 2015 06:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Soltze     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That's why I became colder and distant. I love to be a confidant and giving tips and help whenever I see someone in distress.
But some people still confuse my sweetness from Pisces ASC/ Cancer planets with weakness and rudely demand more and more of me...
Boy...they're so wrong.
I love the surprised faces when they do the mistake of crossing me.

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posted October 03, 2015 06:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Soltze:
That's why I became colder and distant. I love to be a confidant and giving tips and help whenever I see someone in distress.
But some people still confuse my sweetness from Pisces ASC/ Cancer planets with weakness and rudely demand more and more of me...
Boy...they're so wrong.
I love the surprised faces when they do the mistake of crossing me.


I KNOW. I noticed something with the one person I talked about and I notice this with others. If I am kind and try to do good for people and they take advantage of me, something bad will happen to them
In this case, I was giving this person money because I felt she needed it. When I stopped, she got really demanding. Hence, I stopped giving what I did and she ended up getting even 25% less than that
I need to let God take care of things more.

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posted October 03, 2015 06:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by CosmiqPhuz:
No, I'll have to watch it. Haha, yea Al is a handsome guy. I'd probably do him.

Yea, why limit yourself

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