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Topic: (This is for the boys on LL ) Do you think it's OK....
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charlie
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Registered: Jun 2012
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posted October 10, 2015 11:16 AM
  
if your wife/gf is talking to her ex? Behind your back...about the two of you...and you find out through a sheer coincidence...??Guess women can answer this too  Not really looking for a lengthy answer. Yes/No will suffice. IP: Logged |
DopGang
Knowflake Posts: 1355
From: The land of WP
Registered: Jun 2015
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posted October 10, 2015 11:32 AM
Not Ok. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 11821
From: Wankety Wankerson
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted October 10, 2015 12:04 PM
No. But then again I wouldn't be OK with my woman having guy friends that aren't gay.IP: Logged |
Wondering
Knowflake Posts: 122
From: USA
Registered: Sep 2015
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posted October 10, 2015 12:34 PM
No, she doesn't need to talk to her ex. That's what girl friends or family is for.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 65500
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 10, 2015 12:48 PM
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Randall
Webmaster Posts: 59642
From: Saturn next to Charmaine
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 10, 2015 01:13 PM
She knew it was wrong, or else she wouldn't have kept it hidden. Not okay.IP: Logged |
Soltze
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Registered: Mar 2015
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posted October 10, 2015 04:23 PM
NO, NO and NO.
Don't even let her manipulate you into thinking that's ok and that you're imagining stuff. I've been in that movie and it ain't pretty.Sorry for the long answer. But this resonates with my personal past. IP: Logged |
12muddy
Knowflake Posts: 2508
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posted October 10, 2015 05:32 PM
Talking to ex(s) isn't an issue, to me.The thing that catches my attention here is the "behind his back". It leads me to think that there are problems with mismatch values and/or trust. So in this case, I'd give a "No". IP: Logged |
CosmiqPhuz
Knowflake Posts: 431
From: Lititz, PA, USA
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted October 11, 2015 07:31 PM
If it was me, I wouldn't put up with itIP: Logged |
Soltze
Knowflake Posts: 1075
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Registered: Mar 2015
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posted October 12, 2015 12:41 PM
quote:
Originally posted by CosmiqPhuz:
If it was me, I wouldn't put up with it
Bravo! Talking s*** with an ex about current relationship can wind up in "you know what".
It takes a firm attitude to solve the issue before it grows into something bad.
Just sayin'. IP: Logged |
DopGang
Knowflake Posts: 1355
From: The land of WP
Registered: Jun 2015
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posted October 12, 2015 01:48 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Soltze:
Bravo! Talking s*** with an ex about current relationship can wind up in "you know what".
It takes a firm attitude to solve the issue before it grows into something bad.
Just sayin'.
I actually see it as a deliberate attempt to reform a bond with the ex. It's the whole opening up your private/intimate side and yadda yadda.
Actually turning to others to discuss the relationship with someone else without the "other half's" knowledge is a warning sign. They should be able to, and should try to work out issues themselves I would think.
Otherwise turn to someone they both trust and both can talk to. That's just my opinion. Even if it's not an ex. It doesn't seem good at all. IP: Logged |
bansheequeen
Knowflake Posts: 1492
From: Beachville, USA
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted October 12, 2015 09:56 PM
Agree with everyone else!IP: Logged |
ReadingTheStars95
Knowflake Posts: 906
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Registered: Jun 2014
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posted October 12, 2015 10:33 PM
Personally, I would be relatively OK with a girlfriend (or, any gender for that matter..) talking to an ex.. However, first, behind my back? No. Second, Behind my back about OUR relationship? Definitely not. IP: Logged |
ReadingTheStars95
Knowflake Posts: 906
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Registered: Jun 2014
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posted October 12, 2015 10:35 PM
quote:
Originally posted by 12muddy:
Talking to ex(s) isn't an issue, to me.The thing that catches my attention here is the "behind his back". It leads me to think that there are problems with mismatch values and/or trust. So in this case, I'd give a "No".
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Randall
Webmaster Posts: 59642
From: Saturn next to Charmaine
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 18, 2015 03:12 PM
The nays have it.IP: Logged |
Peluches
Knowflake Posts: 1317
From: Monochrome Rαinbows
Registered: Jul 2014
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posted November 21, 2015 03:51 PM
 Yes. Because ... I believe there'd be a genuine reason for that. IP: Logged |
Sibyl
Knowflake Posts: 883
From: Uranus
Registered: Dec 2010
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posted December 01, 2015 05:58 PM
I think this depends on the level of jealousy in your partner. If you have an overly jealous partner it may not be that you're actually doing anything wrong when talking to your ex, but that you get undue grief concerning innocent connections. It would be a good reason not to share, and would mean lack of sharing is not entirely the person's fault (but also the fault of the jealous partner). IP: Logged |
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