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charlie
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posted November 30, 2016 10:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for charlie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am literally positioned in Status Q. With everything. I feel, and this "feel" will be the red thread, more sensual but something is blocking me so I stay put with a more...umm....tomboy-ish style. I feel like my brain wants education but I remain in Status Q. I feel like I want to go deeper into my marriage but I remain in Status Q. I feel I am ready for children (I am 40..HELLO??!!!) but remain in Status Q. I feel ready to take that final step into becoming the boss my company needs me to be, but I remain in Status Q. I FEEL all these steps I should take to become a better "me", but I ain't doing sh*t about it :-/ They are all pounding away at my core and they are not going away because I am stuck in Neutral.


Advice?

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DopGang
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From: MBTI - INTJ -- Enneagram - 5w6
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posted November 30, 2016 01:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DopGang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Pick a small, fairly easy, fairly low risk one and do that.

See how you feel.

Proceed with the others or stay put based on how you feel about the changes you've made.

Other options:
Talk it out with someone whose known you since childhood, if possible.

Spend time alone and do some deep thinking.

These are things that have helped me.
That and motivated by a certain future of mediocrity if I didn't start doing things.

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Ami Anne
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posted November 30, 2016 08:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Orange
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posted November 30, 2016 11:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Orange     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
dont force yourself into any of this. The time is not right, apparently it is building up but not ripped yet. When you feel ready, you will start acting on it and it will be successful.

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firemoon
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posted December 01, 2016 09:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for firemoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
edit, sorry for commenting it was not any of my business..

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Ami Anne
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posted December 03, 2016 03:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Orange:
dont force yourself into any of this. The time is not right, apparently it is building up but not ripped yet. When you feel ready, you will start acting on it and it will be successful.

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